Business Insider asked etiquette experts about the mistakes to avoid when hosting for the holidays.
It's important to make sure everyone feels welcomed β even unexpected guests.
Hosts should also ensure there is enough seating for everyone at the party.
Although hosting friends and family for the holidays can be fun, there's no denying that doing so also comes with its fair share of stress. Without proper planning, things can even get chaotic.
To avoid making etiquette mistakes in the process, Business Insider asked two experts to share the top mistakes they see people make when hosting. Here's what they said.
Don't chastise guests for bringing an unexpected plus-one
Diane Gottsman, a national etiquette expert and the owner of the Protocol School of Texas, told BI that hosts should never reprimand a guest for bringing an unexpected plus-one.
If this happens, she said to address the issue later β not in front of others.
"You don't want to reprimand the guest or the guest's guest in front of anyone. Later on, you can say, 'Sally, I wasn't expecting a plus one because it kind of put me in an awkward position with other people.' But you can say that privately at another time, not that night," Gottsman said.
Make sure there is enough seating for all guests
When it comes to seating, it's important to double check your head count and ensure everyone has a place to sit. Gottsman said this should also be done for more casual events like cocktail or dinner parties.
"You want to have enough seating for people," Gottsman said.
Avoid creating a chaotic environment
Etiquette and hosting expert Carla Shellis said another common mistake hosts make is not considering how they want their event or home to feel.
By yelling and scrambling to get things done at the last second, the host can unintentionally leave the space feeling more chaotic than welcoming.
Gottsman shared similar thoughts, telling BI, "When the doorbell rings with your first guest, you should not still be in your hair rollers, or lighting candles, or racing around talking about how busy you are."
To combat a chaotic situation, Shellis likes to play music, light candles, and clean the space before her guests arrive. She also gives herself plenty of time to get everything done so she doesn't have to rush.
Be cautious when serving alcohol
Shellis told BI that serving too much alcohol is an easy way to create unnecessary issues at a party. That's why it's important to ensure everyone is enjoying themselves in moderation.
For instance, Shellis said when people ask her if she has any more wine, she'll say no and redirect them by offering other beverages like iced tea or soda.
"For 30 years, I've been hosting parties, and I'm going to tell you there's nothing that will kill a beautiful environment quicker than somebody that's hammered and acting foolish," Shellis told BI.
My party of two spent $165 on the multicourse, two-hour dining experience.
The dinner show was very entertaining, and our meal was delicious, making the price tag worth it.
During a recent visit to Pigeon Forge, Tennessee, I checked out Dolly Parton's Hatfield & McCoy Dinner Feud show.
I'd been to her nearby Dollywood theme park many times while in the area β and Parton's other dinner shows β but this was my first time visiting this particular venue.
Hatfield & McCoy Dinner Feud is loosely based on the real-life feuding families from the 19th century. Operating since 2011, the two-hour experience features a live show and multicourse meal housed in an extravagant theater.
Adult seats start at about $60 each, though visitors can pay more for VIP perks. Reservations can be made online, over the phone, or in person at the box office.
I booked two adult tickets in advance for $135. Here's what the dinner show was like.
First, we explored the merchandise shop.
Before showtime, we walked around the venue's large merchandise shop. I'd heard about the dinner show's famous soup, so I couldn't resist purchasing an at-home mix and branded soup bowl.
Before heading into the theater, we also passed a bar selling alcoholic beverages, like moonshine cocktails.
The theater's seating setup offered great views all around.
After we checked in, we were seated in the theater. The seating was stadium-style, meaning you could have a great view of the stage from just about any vantage point.
We were immediately greeted by our server, who offered unlimited Coca-Cola, tea, or coffee, included in the cost of the experience. Dinner was promptly served after.
The first course was the famous soup.
I couldn't wait to try the show's famous starter, which is simply called the original creamy soup.
It was deliciously rich and savory without being too heavy.
The Southern-style main course was next.
The main course was a homestyle Southern meal featuring bread, coleslaw, mashed potatoes, buttered corn on the cob, fried chicken, and pulled pork. I couldn't believe how large the portions were.
Dairy-free, vegan, and gluten-free meals were also available by request.
The fried chicken was my favorite.
I enjoyed everything but was especially impressed by the fried chicken, which was crisped to perfection with a juicy interior.
It ended up being my favorite of the main course, along with the extra creamy and garlicky mashed potatoes.
The show began after the meal and was extremely entertaining.
The elaborate stage was impressive, featuring water and fire elements, as well as a 24-foot-deep diving pool.
The show, which featured dozens of talented performers, was engaging and funny. It also had pyrotechnics, stunts, dancing, and live music.
At the time of booking, diners choose which side they'd like to be seated on, either Hatfield or McCoy. So, the audience was split and encouraged to root for their respective side.
Overall, the content felt family-friendly, making it perfect for audience members of any age.
The meal ended with dessert.
By the time we got to dessert, I was pretty full.
Still, the pudding and whipped cream were refreshingly light, which was perfect after a heavy meal.
I've been to Parton's other dinner shows, but this was my favorite.
I've dined at Parton's other shows, including Pirates Voyage and Dolly Parton's Stampede, but the Hatfield & McCoy Dinner Feud show is now my favorite.
From the delicious food β especially that fried chicken β to the engaging entertainment, I thought it was worth the $165 price tag for two tickets.
I definitely recommend checking it out if you're in Pigeon Forge.
I swear by a few items to help make my solo trips more convenient.
My portable tripod allows me to capture photos of myself without relying on help from strangers.
My other must-haves include a back-lotion applicator, first-aid kit, and portable charger.
As a travel writer, I'm often taking off by myself β as often as 15 times a year.
Because I typically travel without a partner, I make sure to pack a few essential items to make my trips easier, safer, and more enjoyable.
Here are seven things I don't leave for a solo trip without.
Having a tripod means I don't have to rely on strangers to take pictures for me.
I like to take pictures of myself traveling, whether to post on social media or send to my boyfriend. I'm not into selfie sticks, and unfortunately, I can't always rely on strangers to take photos for me. So, having a cellphone tripod is a good compromise.
I love my ToneOf universal cellphone tripod because it easily slips into my carry-on luggage and expands when I need to snap a picture. It also includes a rechargeable remote control for the shutter.
My portable speaker doubles as a white-noise machine.
When I'm traveling by myself, I always carry my LectroFan Bluetooth speaker with me. The sound is incredible considering its tiny size, and it has several white-noise settings to drown out noisy neighbors or street sounds.
When I'm feeling lonely, I also like to use it to have a solo dance party in my room.
This back-lotion applicator helps me avoid getting sunburn in the areas I can't reach.
Since I often travel to tropical places, I prefer to pack bottles of sunscreen lotion since the coverage is heavier than spray. However, it's tricky to apply the lotion to my own back and shoulders.
Foam brush applicators are clunky to pack, but luckily, I found a cloth applicator from Steugo that folds up and doesn't take up much room in my suitcase.
I pour some lotion onto the fabric and then use the handles to rub it onto my back as if I'm drying myself with a towel. I rinse or hand-wash it between uses and throw it in the washing machine once I return home.
A first-aid kit is a must-have when traveling alone.
When I get injured or start to come down with something while traveling alone, there's no one to run out to the drugstore to get medicine or first-aid supplies for me.
Sometimes, I'm not even in an area with a nearby drugstore, so I make sure to bring along any items I might need.
My first-aid kit is stocked with bandages, cleaning wipes, gauze, tick removers, nosebleed plugs, sting relief, burn ointment, and a thermometer.
I also pack some over-the-counter medicine for pain, gastrointestinal issues, motion sickness, and congestion.
A portable charger is always good to have on hand.
One of my biggest concerns when traveling alone is my cellphone battery running low.
After all, I need my phone to navigate cities, book Uber rides, make restaurant reservations, and research tourist attractions. That's why I always carry a USB portable charger with me.
Slip-on shoes are a must for airport travel.
When TSA PreCheck isn't available, I often have to remove my shoes and coat and take my laptop and liquids out of my bag when I go through security.
Without a travel partner to double-check I grabbed everything, I like to make sure the process is as quick and easy as possible. That's why I always wear my favorite slip-on sneakers from Kizik.
They're also incredibly comfortable even after a long day of exploring.
Having a portable wash bag allows me to do my laundry.
I never check my luggage, and being a single traveler means I can only bring one carry-on with me. Even though I can fit a lot in my bag, I sometimes need to re-wear and freshen up my clothes.
Because hotel laundry service is often expensive, I bring my own Scrubba portable wash bag with me.
To use it, I fill the packable bag with socks, underwear, and t-shirts and then add water and a laundry sheet. Then, I deflate the bag and rub my clothes along the inner washboard before rinsing, wringing, and hanging my garments to dry.
I'm a solo traveler who recently visited Alaska for the first time.
I recommend taking the Alaska Railroad for its scenic views and efficient transportation.
I loved taking in the wildlife at Kenai Fjords National Park and Potter Marsh.
Over the years, I've watched many of my friends and family members go on weeklong cruises to Alaska.
As a solo traveler, I thought a cruise would be the best way to see the state. However, I didn't want to spend my entire trip on a boat and decided to make my own itinerary instead.
Here are four activities I recommend to those visiting Alaska for the first time.
Take advantage of the views on the Alaska Railroad.
During my trip, I loved talking a ride on the Alaska Railroad, which just celebrated its 100th anniversary in 2023.
Since I was staying in Anchorage and wanted to see Kenai Fjords National Park, I took the train from Anchorage to Seward and back.
If you have the means to splurge a bit, I recommend opting for the GoldStar service, which featured glass-dome ceilings and incredible panoramic views of Alaska.
Cruise through Kenai Fjords National Park.
Taking a boat ride through Kenai Fjords National Park is a terrific option for anyone who doesn't want to spend their entire trip on a boat. I loved seeing the fjords and watching the playful sea lions and orcas.
Our ship even stopped for lunch on Fox Island. Although there isn't much exploring to do on the small island, it was nice to get off the boat and warm up with some soup and salad.
Take a flightseeing tour to Denali.
I knew booking a flightseeing tour to Denali was a gamble because of how weather-dependent the activity is.
When I arrived at the office, though, I was disappointed to find out the cloud cover would prevent us from seeing Denali, the tallest mountain in North America.
However, the pilots had a backup plan, and I still got to see lots of gorgeous glaciers and breathtaking snow-covered mountains.
Check out the wildlife at Potter Marsh.
If you're looking to enjoy some fresh air and see different species of birds, Potter Marsh is the place to go. I loved walking along the wooden boardwalk and having close-up views of the wildlife.
Although there are tours of Potter Marsh, I'm glad I drove myself and could take my time soaking in my surroundings.
I asked ChatGPT to come up with gift ideas for my dad, mom, and sister.
The AI tool gave me unique, thoughtful suggestions on what to get my parents.
I wasn't as impressed with its gift ideas for my sister, but overall, ChatGPT did a great job.
Although I love Christmas shopping and gift-giving, finding unique, meaningful gifts for my family can be difficult year after year.
Determined to switch things up, I turned to ChatGPT to help me come up with some gift ideas for them.
My hope was that the AI service would produce ideas that I wouldn't have thought of otherwise, with suggestions more creative than just another cookbook for my mom or band T-shirt for my sister.
Here's how it went.
Going into the holiday season, I was most worried about what to get my dad
He doesn't care much for material things, so I was curious if ChatGPT could suggest practical gifts or experiences he'd appreciate.
Here's the prompt I gave ChatGPT:
Please give me unique gift recommendations for what to get my dad for Christmas based on his interests. He loves anything about World War II history, is trying to learn Spanish via Duolingo, always rewatches "Breaking Bad," is on the keto diet, and loves making breakfast food.
In total, ChatGPT gave me 19 suggestions β three for each of the five interests I mentioned, along with additional ideas under categories suggesting quirky and personalized gifts.
I was most impressed with ChatGPT's suggestions for my dad
Some of the ideas ChatGPT gave me included a personalized World War II history book, Duolingo merchandise, a Los Pollos Hermanos (a restaurant from "Breaking Bad") apron, a keto snack-box subscription, and gourmet bacon.
I was impressed, as these were all ideas I wouldn't have come up with on my own. However, my favorite suggestions were under ChatGPT's "Fun and Quirky" and "Personalized Gift" sections.
The quirky ideas included a World War II-themed board game like Axis & Allies, and a movie-night pack comprised of a collection of Spanish-language films (with snacks to enjoy while watching).
Under the personalized gift section, ChatGPT suggested a keto-friendly breakfast basket with treats like low-carb muffins and nut butters.
Because my dad isn't really into collecting memorabilia, I decided the best idea would be to combine two ideas and pair the Spanish movie-night pack with an assortment of keto-friendly snacks.
I think he'd appreciate the experience of watching movies together. I may also check out some keto-snack-box-subscription websites for ideas on what to put in his basket.
I figured my mom would be easier to shop for
Going into this holiday season, I was a bit less worried about what to get my mom because she plans to retire next year and is looking for more hobbies to keep her busy.
Still, I didn't have anything particular in mind, which is where ChatGPT came in handy.
I asked it to come up with gift ideas based on this prompt:
Now, can you help me come up with ideas for my mom based on her interests? She is super excited to go to Iceland for the first time next year, is always trying to find low-carb, low-sugar TikTok recipes, wants to get more into exercising (recently bought a Peloton and Apple Watch), and is overall just looking for more hobbies to pick up when she retires next year.
It gave me 22 suggestions in total β four for each of the four points I mentioned and additional ideas under categories suggesting personalized and mindfulness-related ideas.
ChatGPT came up with some pretty unique ideas for my mom
Among the ideas ChatGPT suggested were a packing kit for Iceland that includes items like a travel adapter and language guide, a personalized binder of her favorite TikTok recipes, Apple Watch bands, and cooking or baking classes to enjoy in retirement.
Compared to my dad's results, I was less impressed with the additional categories ChatGPT created for my mom. Under the "Something Personalized" category, it suggested a customized Icelandic map, a personalized fitness-tracker case, and motivational-quote wall art. In my opinion, none of these seemed very practical or creative.
I thought the "Mindfulness and Relaxation" category had much better ideas: a subscription box for relaxation, a weighted blanket, and an indoor herb-garden kit.
A weighted blanket isn't likely something she'd buy for herself, but I can imagine her getting a lot of use out of it while unwinding after a long day. She's also been trying to eat healthier, so an indoor-herb-garden kit could lead her to a fun new hobby while allowing her to add fresh garnishes to her dishes.
I also liked the personalized recipe-binder idea since my mom usually just watches the same videos over and over again to remember the ingredients. Writing down and compiling her favorite TikTok recipes would be a practical and affordable gift.
I already had a gift idea in mind for my sister, so I was less reliant on the ChatGPT results
I was leaning toward getting my sister concert tickets for Christmas, but I still wanted to see what ideas ChatGPT had.
I figured if any of them stood out, I could give her another gift in addition to the tickets β or just replace them altogether.
Here's the information I gave ChatGPT:
Can you now help me come up with unique Christmas gift ideas for my sister based on her interests and hobbies? My sister loves everything music (she plays five instruments), likes unique party games, lives in San Diego, is graduating from college next year, is going to Bali next year, and likes to get merchandise from her favorite artists.
It gave me 26 gift suggestions, with ideas specific to all six of the points I mentioned and more under a category titled "Something Fun & Personalized."
None of the ideas for my sister blew me away
Although ChatGPT gave me the most ideas for my sister, I was actually the least impressed with these suggestions. However, this may have been because I already had an idea of what to get her.
Some of the ideas it gave me were a custom instrument case, specific party games (most of which she already owned), a Bali guidebook, a memory box to keep mementos from college, and merchandise from San Diego or her favorite artists.
These ideas seemed a lot more generic than the ones it produced for my mom and dad. For example, I wouldn't have thought to put together a TikTok-recipe binder for my mom or a Spanish movie night for my dad.
However, there weren't any ideas for my sister that I thought were especially unique or practical.
Perhaps it was due to the types of interests I entered for my sister, but I wouldn't choose any of those gifts over β or even as an addition to β concert tickets for her.
Before making any future holiday purchases, I'll consult ChatGPT first
Despite being slightly disappointed with ChatGPT's suggestions for my sister, I'll definitely be taking some of the ideas it gave me for my parents.
Although the AI tool may not have all the answers for mind-blowing, personalized gifts, I think it's a decent place to start if you need some ideas for brainstorming.
Based on this success, I plan to return to the platform to ask for gift suggestions for upcoming holidays and birthdays.
Although Gordon Ramsay's exact net worth is unknown, he is estimated to be a multimillionaire.
Ramsay has over 80 restaurants worldwide and stars in several hit shows on Fox.
He also has other business ventures, including wine and frozen-food lines.
With numerous Michelin stars and several TV shows, British chef Gordon Ramsay has cemented himself as one of the most well-known celebrities in the food scene.
The 58-year-old's success in the restaurant and entertainment industries has made him millions. Although his net worth isn't confirmed, Forbes estimated he was worth $70 million as of 2020.
From his projects as a chef to his career as a television personality, here's a breakdown of the empire Ramsay has built.
Ramsay started his career as a chef.
At 19, in the 1990s, Ramsay began his career apprenticing under famous chef Marco Pierre White.
By 1993, Ramsay was the head chef at the London restaurant Aubergine, and he'd go on to earn the restaurant two Michelin stars.
In 1998, he founded Gordon Ramsay Restaurants with the opening of his first eatery. Today, the company has more than 80 restaurants around the world β many of which have continued to garner acclaim.
In 2001, Ramsay's flagship restaurant, Gordon Ramsay, received a three-star Michelin rating, which it still holds today. Most recently, his Restaurant 1890 in London earned its first Michelin star in February.
However, not all of his restaurants are fine-dining establishments. Ramsay also owns casual eateries like Street Pizza and Street Burger, along with Gordon Ramsay Burger β which has locations in the United States, Canada, Qatar, South Korea, and more.
Although it's unclear how much Ramsay makes from his restaurants, Fortune reported in 2023 that his restaurants had brought in Β£95.6 million (about $119.8 million at that time) that year.
Television is one of the food star's big sources of income.
Ramsay's first introduction to television was on the British documentary series "Boiling Point" in 1999. He went on to judge and host British shows like "The F-Word," "Hell's Kitchen," and "Kitchen Nightmares."
His foray into American television began in 2005 with the US debut of "Hell's Kitchen" on Fox. The US version of "Kitchen Nightmares" followed, debuting in 2007.
From there, he's starred on many other shows and has appeared as a judge on several competitive cooking series on Fox. Perhaps most notably, he's served as a judge on "MasterChef" throughout its 14 seasons. He also judges "MasterChef Jr." and "Next Level Chef."
Although it's not clear what Ramsay has been paid for his shows and appearances, Forbes reported in 2020 that his shows generated more than $150 million yearly in ad sales for the Fox network.
One of his shows has inspired a series of restaurants.
In 2018, Ramsay began opening Hell's Kitchen restaurants based on the series of the same name. There are now seven locations across the US in cities like Las Vegas, Atlantic City, and DC.
It's not clear how much revenue the Hell's Kitchen restaurants bring in, but the Las Vegas location sold 129,554 beef Wellingtons and 135,000 sticky toffee puddings β two signature Ramsay dishes β in its first year alone, according to Forbes.
The chef has also launched a cooking school.
His first and only cooking school, Gordon Ramsay Academy, opened in September 2021 in Woking, England. Gordon Ramsay Academy offers hundreds of cooking courses for all ages and skill levels.
Classes range from Β£70 (or about $90) for half-day and junior classes to Β£485 (or about $615) for full-day courses that offer qualifications.
A second location is set to open in London in 2025.
Ramsay also has a few product lines, including a wine label and frozen foods.
Further expanding his food empire, the celebrity chef also has a few product lines.
In 2023, he launched By Chef Ramsay, a frozen-food line sold exclusively at Walmart. The collection includes some of Ramsay's favorite dishes, such as shepherd's pie and fish and chips.
He also launched a Gordon Ramsay wine label in 2021.
The line was also featured on his show "Gordon Ramsay's Food Stars" β a reality competition where he offered to invest $250,000 of his own money into entrepreneurship. On it, he and TV personality Lisa Vanderpump served as judges
In fact, "Gordon Ramsay's Food Stars" was produced by his own television production company.
In 2021, Fox Entertainment and Ramsay launched Studio Ramsay Global, which produces several of the chef's shows, including Fox's "Kitchen Nightmares," "Gordon Ramsay's Food Stars," and "Next Level Chef."
It also produces shows starring other chefs, like National Geographic's "No Taste Like Home."
Before this, in 2016, he'd launched the production company Studio Ramsay in the UK. It produced projects like "Gordon Ramsay's 24 Hours To Hell and Back," "The F-Word Live With Gordon Ramsay," and "Gordon Ramsay: Uncharted."
In 2024, he partnered with Fox to launch Bite.
Ramsay and Fox Entertainment joined forces in 2024 to launch Bite, a global food brand and platform offering a range of culinary content, products, and experiences.
The brand's digital and social content hub, Bite Digitial Network, features multiple original series, such as "Idiot Sandwich" β a digital culinary competition series based on Ramsay's viral meme.
He's made several other investments and has had a range of partnerships throughout the years.
Among his numerous business ventures, Ramsay has partnered and invested in several brands.
He invested in HexClad in 2021 β and, in July 2024, Studio Ramsay Global agreed to invest $100 million in the cookware brand.
In 2023, Ramsay joined Borealis Foods, a food tech company, as a shareholder, advisor, and brand ambassador. In September 2024, he also partnered with THOR Kitchen to launch an exclusive line of kitchen appliances.
He could also be making money from his social following.
At the time of writing, Ramsay has 40.8 million followers on TikTok and 21 million subscribers on YouTube β so social media could be another source of income for the chef.
In addition to clips from his hit Fox shows and various miniseries, Ramsay's YouTube channel and TikTok account feature him cooking with celebrities like Matthew McConaughey and Selena Gomez.
The chef continues to expand his restaurant and entertainment empires.
The chef is slated to open his first Ramsay's Kitchen restaurants in Virginia later this year and one in North Carolina in 2025.
Additionally, Ramsay has plans to open five new culinary experiences in one of London's tallest office buildings in 2025.
He also announced his show "Kitchen Nightmares" is set to return with a new season in January.
I ate at Kwame Onwuachi's new restaurant, DΕgon, in Washington, DC.
We ordered coco bread, piri piri salad, chicken and rice, oxtails, and rum cake.
Our tasty dinner was $244, and I'm already looking forward to my next meal there.
Kwame Onwuachi was only 25 when he appeared on "Top Chef: California" in 2015.
Just four years later, he was named Rising Star Chef of the Year by the James Beard Foundation, Chef of the Year by Esquire, and one of the best new chefs by Food and Wine β all thanks to his restaurant, Kith/Kin, in Washington, DC.
Although I didn't get to visit Kith/Kin before it closed in 2020, I was excited to be able to dine at the chef's latest DC venture: DΕgon.
The Afro-Caribbean restaurant's buzzy opening has been covered by the likes of Vogue, Forbes, and Eater β but, as a restaurant critic, I was curious to check it out myself.
Here's what it's like to dine at DΕgon.
It was tough to get a reservation.
DΕgon is located in the DC-area Salamander hotel, close to the city's southwest waterfront.
I had to make my reservation at DΕgon nearly a month in advance. Although 5:15 p.m. felt early for dinner, it was the only time I could get so I happily took it.
The cozy, basic hotel lobby didnβt prepare me for DΕgon.
The lobby's subtle yellows, browns, and blues contrast greatly with the chain-link curtains that beckon diners into the hotel's restaurant to the left.
Upon entering, I was immediately struck by the dark atmosphere. Music blared from the dining room to the hostess counter.
But once I was seated across from the bar, an illuminated glass ball provided sufficient light for me and my camera.
More light glowed from the open kitchen.
When I walked to the back of the restaurant, I was drawn to the view of the open kitchen.
A large group of chefs appeared to be working in harmony to bring the menu to life.
It was tough to decide what to order.
Onwuachi's menu includes dishes with influences from Nigeria, Jamaica, Trinidad, and New Orleans.
Several staffers helped throughout my meal, but my primary server, Andrea, especially stood out. When she found out it was our first time dining at DΕgon, she walked us through her favorites.
Our partyΒ had an allergy, which eliminated a few options from the menu. However, Andrea offered to adjust some dishes so that we could enjoy them.
Andreaβs first recommendation was the coco bread.
Andrea suggested we order the coco bread, and although the $15 price tag of it horrified me, I'm glad we did.
The five petite balls of sweet, buttery dough were far lighter than coco bread I've had at Jamaican restaurants. I was impressed with the bread's cloud-like texture and how easy it was to spread the malted-sorghum butter that came with the dish.
The piri piri salad was so good I had to finish it with a spoon.
The piri piri salad was smaller than I'd hoped for, especially given its $22 price tag. But any complaints I had quickly vanished when our server arrived to pour papaya dressing over the flower-adorned salad.
The thick papaya sauce was flavored with garlic and chiles β the same mixture used in the hot sauce that Andrea had already brought to our table.
The sauce helped accentuate bites of cucumber, tomato, cape gooseberries, and grapes, along with the almond-butter-filled avocado half.
The salad's balance between creamy and crunchy textures and spicy and sweet flavors made it extremely compelling. Once I'd eaten all that I could with my fork, I spooned the remnants into my mouth, savoring every last bite.
My favorite dish was the chicken and rice.
For years, I lived and worked in Houston, where I frequently indulged in food from the Nigerian community and became mildly addicted to skewers of suya and jollof rice.
Although Onwuachi's $63 chicken wasn't as spicy as the dishes at the mom-and-pop restaurants I used to frequent, he still brought some heat to the dish.
The roasted half chicken that dominated the plate barely required a knife. The tender meat was rubbed in a paste flavored with an earthy spice mix known as berbere and crowned with an herb salad.
The rice β made with tomatoes, chiles, and complex spices β tasted just like a grandmother's comfort food.
The deceptively simple dish was also plated with half a lime, more berbere paste, and a sweet-and-creamy mix of ricotta and honey. It was fun to mix and match these toppings to make each bite taste slightly different.
Onwuachi recently brought his famous oxtails back to the menu, too.
The Caribbean-style oxtails that Onwuachi made at Kith/Kin returned to DC on November 1, just days before I dined.
At $65, they weren't cheap, but I ordered them over the $110 wagyu short rib I'd been considering. The sugar and collagen in the sauce made it delightfully sticky β the dish felt like a beefy dessert.
Extracting the pillowy meat from the bones reminded me of gamja-tang, my favorite Korean stew made from a pig's neck bones. It was tougher to get the meat off without the chopsticks or gloves usually provided at Korean restaurants.
However, I did my best to finish every bite, spooning the sauce over the coconut-infused rice and peas to experience the unique flavor combination of sweet heat and flesh.
I didnβt have room for dessert, but I ordered it anyway.
I didn't get any pressure from Andrea or the other servers to order dessert, but I didn't want the meal to end just yet.
There were only two desserts on the menu, so I chose the $17 rum cake over the spiced cherry sorbet β and I'm glad I did.
Although the sweet treat sounded a little boring on paper, the crisp edges and fluffy center of the two slabs of cake made it a textural delight. It was squiggled with a vanilla whip and then finished with mint leaves and boozy, blistered cape gooseberries.
I'll definitely be returning to DΕgon.
DΕgon took some of my favorite dishes from around the world and elevated them to levels I had never imagined.
I can imagine the dining experience will be even more eye-opening for guests who haven't tasted as many world cuisines.
Either way, DΕgon is a must-visit restaurant in DC. I spent $244 there on dinner for two with no alcoholic beverages, and I would happily do it again.
Since moving from DC to Denver two-and-a-half years ago, I've experienced many culture shocks.
I've found people like to discuss their hobbies in Denver, but many focus on their careers in DC.
I've also noticed that people in Denver seem more laid-back compared to those in DC.
When I boarded my flight from Washington, DC, to Denver in May 2022, I ruminated in my window seat for hours, wondering what my new home would be like.
I was leaving behind the nation's capital β the place where I'd spent almost three years launching my career and growing through my 20s.
Hopping from city to city wasn't new to me. I was born in Seattle and raised outside New Orleans before pursuing my master's degree in Phoenix.
However, every region has its own distinct culture, and I suspected the transition from the East Coast to the Rocky Mountains would be a little bumpy. Still, I didn't expect just how different the two parts of the country would be.
Here are a few of the biggest culture shocks I experienced when I headed west.
Many seem enamored with their hobbies in Denver, but careers typically come first in DC
Your choice of ski pass isn't just a question Denver residents will pose to you as an icebreaker. In my experience, it's a constant topic of conversation among friends and colleagues.
In fact, I've found that skiing, snowboarding, camping, hiking, rock climbing, and white-water rafting are topics that constantly come up in conversation.
I've met plenty of Denver residents with impressive careers, but their hearts often belong to their hobbies.
Meanwhile, many people I met in DC lived to work. I'd inevitably be asked what I did for a living at almost every house party I attended. Young professionals primarily move to DC for their education and careers, so networking is a way of life.
The city is packed with journalists, lobbyists, and government employees, so it's not uncommon to see someone toting a work laptop to happy hour.
The cities' definitions of style don't align
In DC, my favorite activity was ticking restaurants and bars off my list, taking in the cosmopolitan city in seasonal dresses and heels.
However, since moving to Denver, what's left of my collection of cocktail dresses is gathering dust on hangers. Here, athleisure, flannels, and denim are the norm.
The climates in Denver and DC are completely different beasts
I was adept at handling DC winters. When snow occasionally fell over the city, I bundled up in a coat and gloves to build snowmen on the National Mall or braced myself for the chill in the air when I exited a Metrorail subway station.
Preparing for my inaugural Colorado winter, however, was much more intense. I bought my first pair of snow boots at age 27, and learned that Halloween usually brings a snowstorm, and the flurries continue through April.
For context, according to the National Weather Service's data from 1882-2015, Denver averages about 57.1 inches of snow per season. DC's average snowfall, which is based on data from 1991-2020, is roughly 13.8 inches.
Local attitudes couldn't be more different
Colorado straddles two prominent regional personality traits β the Midwest's kindness and the West Coast's easygoingness. Residents of the Centennial State get the best of both worlds with their friendly attitudes and sense of ease.
Despite Denver's urban sprawl, niceties from its cow-town days persist. Walking down a neighborhood sidewalk, I can usually count on smiles or greetings from passersby.
However, while living on the East Coast, I found many DC residents exuded the region's no-nonsense air, buzzing from place to place as efficiently as possible.
I got used to avoiding small talk in elevators and found the standard attitude in DC was both a little guarded and direct. It's not that locals were unkind β they're just booked and busy.
Yet, both places have one thing in common: hometown pride. I'm excited to embrace that attitude in Denver like I did in DC.
The Gold Coast in Queensland, Australia, is a great sunny spot for outdoor activities.
I loved getting to experience the rich history and great beaches in Cape Town, South Africa.
Though many people take their big trips in the summer, the winter is a great time for a grand escape. I've always been someone who needs sunshine and warmth in my bones, so when winter rolls around each year, I plan a sun-soaked getaway to escape the cold.
I've traveled to more than 50 countries and have come across a few destinations offering a winning combination of stunning scenery, memorable experiences, and warm weather.
Here are four places I'd recommend checking out in the winter months.
The Gold Coast in Queensland, Australia, is sunny practically all year round.
With beautiful beaches and plenty of theme parks, the Gold Coast in Australia's Queensland is filled with things to do.
The Gold Coast has a sub-tropical climate with about 300 days of sunshine a year, so you're likely to encounter optimal weather for outdoor activities.
My favorite activity here was walking the trail from Tallebudgera Creek to Burleigh Heads, which goes through Burleigh Head National Park. I witnessed plenty of scenic ocean views along the way and often stopped to watch the surfers catch a wave.
If you have any interest in monkeys, Ubud in Bali, Indonesia, is the place to go.
If chill island vibes, monkey spottings, and melodious insect cacophonies appeal to you, Ubud is the place to go.
One of the top attractions is the Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary, home to more than 1,200 monkeys. You can explore ancient temples and meet the local long-tailed macaques in their natural habitat.
Just make sure you follow the rules and don't take any food or water bottles with you. I learned that lesson the hard way when one enormous monkey leaped on my backpack, giving me the fright of my life.
Another highlight for me was sitting on our veranda at the Green Field Hotel while overlooking the rice fields at sunrise and listening to the cricket orchestra.
My 8-year-old son and I sat out there one morning for about two hours while everyone else was asleep, chatting and enjoying the sounds of nature around us.
For a nice, easy nature hike, check out Campuhan Ridge Walk. I loved the scenery and took my 4-year-old with me. At one point, we stopped for a rest on the trail, and I looked up to find the biggest spider I'd ever seen lurking right above us β so keep your eyes peeled.
Bonito, Brazil, is an incredible snorkeling destination.
Bonito, which means "beautiful" in Portuguese, lives up to its name. The town is in the southern region of the Brazilian Pantanal, the world's largest tropical wetland. We stopped here on our way from Rio de Janeiro to Bolivia and fell in love with this hidden paradise.
Surrounded by lush forests, Bonito has amazing crystal-clear rivers where you can spot an abundance of fish while snorkeling.
During our trip, a massive thunderstorm rolled in above us when we were snorkeling. Watching the fish dart around underwater as raindrops landed on my back was such an awe-inspiring experience.
I loved exploring wineries and beaches in Cape Town, South Africa.
When it comes to epic coastal scenery, warm people, delicious food, and historical sites, Cape Town delivers.
One of our favorite spots was Groot Constantia, the oldest wine estate in South Africa. We had a mouth-watering lunch and did a wine tasting before learning about the history of Cape farmers at the Manor House Museum and walking through the grounds.
Cape Town's sun-soaked beaches were also postcard-perfect. The water can be pretty chilly, however, even in the summer. I only dipped a toe in, but if you enjoy a little cold-water therapy, feel free to dive right in.
Business Insider asked an etiquette expert for advice on attending a company holiday party.
She said employees shouldn't drink too much or feel pressured to consume alcohol because others are.
She recommends using this time to meet new people and form deeper connections with colleagues.
Many companies have started requiring workers to return to the office β which also means having to attend corporate events again. However, striking a balance between having fun and remaining professional can be difficult.
As a result, etiquette mistakes are common at company holiday parties. To cover the biggest dos and don'ts, Business Insider asked Diane Gottsman, a professional etiquette expert, to share the key mistakes to watch out for when attending these gatherings.
Here's what she said.
Even if you'd rather be somewhere else, you shouldn't skip out on the holiday party
Although you might prefer to spend your time elsewhere, Gottsman explained that attending these events is an extension of your professional brand.
"I call it mandatory festivities or mandatory fun because it shows that you are engaged with your company. It's telling your boss that you care about your position in the firm β you're a team player," she said.
Be mindful of how much you're drinking
Gottsman said another thing to watch out for is how much you drink, even if everyone else β including your boss β is indulging.
"This isn't the time to get drunk and lose your credibility, because you still have to go to work on Monday," she told BI.
Holiday parties are still considered company time, so you should always remain aware of your professional reputation.
Don't feel pressured to drink
On the other hand, don't feel compelled to drink if you don't want to.
"If you don't drink for whatever reason, you don't have to give an excuse or a reason," Gottsman explained.
If there's an RSVP on the invitation, it means the host is counting heads to ensure there's enough food, drinks, and place settings for each guest, Gottsman told BI. That's why it's important to respond in a timely manner.
She also said that once you RSVP, you've made a commitment that you shouldn't back out on.
Don't be the first to leave β or overstay your welcome
It's best not to rush out the door at a corporate holiday party.
Gottsman told BI that leaving too early can make it look like you're eager to get out, which doesn't leave a great impression.
"If you get there and you leave 20 minutes later, people are going to notice," she said.
However, Gottsman also said you shouldn't overstay your welcome. For instance, she told BI that if the event ends at 9 o'clock, you've stayed too long if you're still there at 9:30 or 9:45.
If you'd like to continue interacting with your coworkers, she recommends leaving at the appropriate time and taking the party somewhere else.
Be sure to mix and mingle
When attending a holiday party, use the opportunity to build on existing relationships and meet new people, such as clients, vendors, or others in the company you don't know well.
"You shouldn't be sitting," Gottsman told BI. "You should be mixing and mingling unless you're eating. But if you are seated and someone walks up to you, you always want to stand for an introduction."
Additionally, if the event has name tags, make sure to grab one.
"Name tags are memory tools. They go on the right side of your shoulder to follow the line of sight of a handshake," Gottsman added.
When envisioning a safari, the image of a hot, sunny African day probably comes to mind. Although that's often the case, weather on safari can be unpredictable and have a huge impact on the overall experience.
South African winters β which last from around June through September β can be surprisingly cold, especially on early morning game drives. That's why I recommend bringing a warm jacket, hat, and gloves during these months.
The good news is that the best wildlife-viewing opportunities often occur in cooler weather. TheΒ lack of rain usually makes the animals easier to spotΒ since scarce water forces them to gather around watering holes.
For a first-timer, hiring a game ranger or opting for guided drives can be an invaluable experience. This is because these guides are wildlife experts trained to spot animals the average viewer may not notice by themselves.
Countless times, I've had rangers spot big cats and even elephants that I would've driven right past because they were camouflaged with the trees. I've learned plenty about the terrain, animal behavior, and history of the park from these guides.
Private reserves offer a different β and often better β experience for first-timers.
Private reserves are protected wildlife areas owned by individuals or organizations. They usually offer the same wildlife-viewing options as national parks, but a few key differences can make going private a better option.
In some reserves, rangers are allowed to drive off-road to get you closer to the action, whether that's a pride of lions or a herd of elephants.
You're also less likely to encounter large crowds at a private reserve. For example, in some popular national parks, it's not unusual to find 10 or more vehicles jostling for a view of an animal sighting. However, in private reserves, the number of vehicles is limited.
The catch is, of course, that private reserves are more expensive. But in my opinion, the intimate and exclusive experience is well worth the extra cost, especially for a first-time safari-goer.
The smaller animals are just as exciting to watch as the Big Five.
Before my first safari, I didn't give much thought to the smaller animals. I was focused on the Big Five β lions, leopards, rhinos, elephants, and buffalo.
But one of the unexpected joys of safari is witnessing the incredible variety of smaller creatures that call Africa home.
For example, Africa is a birder's paradise, and even if you don't consider yourself a bird enthusiast, it's hard not to get caught up in the excitement.
Some of the less-famous animals β like wild dogs, cheetahs, servals, and hyenas β are stunning to see, too.
Don't forget to pack binoculars.
People often underestimate the importance of a pair of binoculars.
The guide will typically have a pair and offer to let you have a look, but that typically means sharing with five other people who are all trying to check out the same thing.
Make sure to tell the ranger itβs your first safari.
When you board the safari vehicle, you'll usually have a chance to chat with your ranger beforehand. If it's your first time, let them know.
If your guide thinks you've seen the "everyday" stuff, they might whizz past zebras or skip talking about some basic animal behaviors and fun facts.
However, for a first-timer, these are magical and exciting experiences. If you let them know you're new to this, game rangers will usually want to make your first time as memorable as possible.