• 23andMe filed for bankruptcy amid financial struggles and fallout after a data breach.
• Now, potential buyers and investors are weighing the value of its DNA database.
• One of the world's largest troves of genetic information, its sale is raising new privacy concerns.

Late last month, genetic testing giant 23andMe filed for bankruptcy.

The San Francisco-based company — cofounded in 2006 by former healthcare investor Anne Wojcicki — rose to fame for offering genetic testing services directly to customers.

When the company went public in 2021, it was valued at just over $6 billion. Now, it says it had debts of $2.3 billion, about $126 million in cash and cash equivalents, and needs additional liquidity.

The company's descent into financial uncertainty wasn't sudden.

23andMe had struggled with its business model, failing to turn a profit almost two decades after it began selling direct-to-consumer DNA test kits. Demand for its premiere product — a one-time test — began waning around 2019, and its effort to provide more consumer value through additional services wasn't enough to close the gap.

Then, in October 2023, hackers accessed the personal details of some users in a data breach that cost the company $30 million in a later settlement agreement. The breach also made potential new customers nervous about the security of their data and more resistant to purchasing kits.

The company's announcement that it was filing for bankruptcy and seeking buyers has now further raised concerns among consumers about the security of 23andMe's database, one of the largest consumer DNA databases in the world.

Cybersecurity experts have urged users to delete their data, pointing to a host of risks: Genetic data can be used to further discrimination, enable financial fraud, and develop biological weapons, they say.

23andMe has said it will continue operating until a buyer is found. A race to acquire the company — and its data — has begun.

Here's everything you need to know about the sale and what might happen to your DNA data.

What genetic data does 23andMe even collect?

23andMe gathers genetic data using saliva samples. Consumers receive a collection kit and submit about 2 milliliters of saliva. Each kit has a collection tube labeled with a 14-digit barcode.

"After the sample passes visual inspection, the barcode — which is the only identifying information shared with the laboratory — is scanned and the sample moves to DNA extraction," 23andMe spokesperson Ann Sommerlath told BI by email. "Once a sample is successfully genotyped, the laboratory sends the resulting data back to 23andMe along with the accompanying barcode, at which point we can begin interpreting your data."

Genotyping is the process identifying variations in someone's genetic code. These variations influence a person's physical traits, their development, and susceptibility to disease.

How does the company handle its genetic data?

Aside from sharing individual genetic reports with customers, if they opt-in, 23andMe says it uses anonymized genetic and self-reported information for research.

"When customers agree to participate in 23andMe Research via our consent document, they give 23andMe permission to share their de-identified, individual-level data with approved, qualified research collaborators outside of 23andMe," Sommerlath told BI. "De-identification (replacing personal information with a random ID) enables researchers to protect the identity of individuals."

23andMe shares some of the resulting research in its blog. In a piece from November 2024, for example, the company wrote that many of its users are descendants of Mayflower passengers.

23andMe was found to offer the "clearest privacy policy" in a review of 10 popular genetic testing services — including Ancestry, Toolbox Genomics, and Everlywell — that was conducted by the data privacy service Icogni.

Does a 23andMe buyer have to comply with its privacy policy?

Yes. And then no.

In order to make a qualified bid, "potential buyers must, among other requirements, agree to comply with 23andMe's consumer privacy policy and all applicable laws with respect to the treatment of customer data," the company said in a letter posted to its website on March 26.

Ron Zayas, CEO of Ironwall, a privacy service offered by Incogni, told Business Insider that the letter is just a guideline and leaves several questions unanswered.

"For how long is the letter good for? A day after purchase, a year?" Zayas asked. "What if a company like a data broker buys the company? It may change the definition of all the terms in the letter and even the privacy statement."

Benjamin Farrow, a partner at Anderson, Williams, & Farrow, said the new owner isn't legally bound to the existing privacy policy after purchase.

"There is no way a court will say the terms of service can never be changed," he told BI. "It's like buying a car. Once you own it, you can paint it, change the interior, do anything you want with it."

Thorin Klosowski, a privacy and security activist at the Electronic Frontier Foundation, said the security of a user's 23andMe data will depend on who purchases the biotech company.

"It doesn't take very many leaps of logic to think through some of the worst-case scenarios," Klosowski said. "Whether that is an insurance company or a company that would grant easier access for law enforcement."

Despite the bid requirements for 23andMe, Klosowski said, "We don't really know how that's going to play out."

"We don't know what would happen if an unscrupulous company didn't do that. We don't know how closely they would be monitored," he said.

Who wants to buy the company?

Wojcicki, for one.

She said she resigned as CEO of the company "so I can be in the best position to pursue the company as an independent bidder," in a post on X on March 24 announcing the bankruptcy.

A handful of other companies have also expressed interest.

Nucleus Genomics, founded by 25-year-old University of Pennsylvania dropout Kian Sadeghi, has explored the possibility of purchasing 23andMe. For Nucleus Genomics — a new player on the genetic testing market focused on whole genome testing — there's some value in the data and technology of a company with a 20-year history, Sadeghi said.

Crypto nonprofit Sei Foundation has also expressed interest in acquiring 23andMe. "This isn't just another bankruptcy. It's a digital land grab on one of history's most profoundly intimate data sets," the Sei Foundation said in an X post on March 31. "We're invested long-term in returning intellectual property (including your DNA) to the people. It's the American thing to do."

Pinnacle, an analytics company, is also apparently interested. In a LinkedIn post addressed to 23andMe's shareholders, Pinnacle cofounder and CEO Ryan Sitton wrote: "We will give you $100 million for 23andMe today."

How valuable is its genetic data?

There is no formula for quantifying the value of 23andMe's data, so potential buyers and informed speculators are making educated estimates.

Kanyi Maqubela, managing partner of venture capital firm Kindred Ventures, which has invested in several healthcare companies, told BI that genetic data is particularly valuable for pharmaceutical research and development because it often includes early disease markers.

Pharmaceutical companies are typically "very data hungry, always looking for new data pipelines, and always looking to collect it at scale," he said. So, "even partial genomic sequencing at the individual level is quite valuable."

It's even more valuable "if you've got metadata attached to it, so like demographic information, name," he said. By connecting people across geographies and disease levels, health companies can start drawing correlations across the data, which makes it all the more valuable, he added.

Incogni's Zayas said that 23andMe's data "is probably worth more than the service they were selling."

"If you look at the value of monetized information, a good cellphone can go for $50," he said. "Good buyer information, good credit card information, good demographic information, you can start looking at tens or even hundreds of dollars per individual."

23andMe has access to all of that and more, he said. "Just in research for insurance companies, that's got to be worth at least a few hundred dollars per individual."

The company says it has over 15 million customers, so by Zayas' calculations the data itself is worth several billions, at least.

Jessica Vitak, a professor at the University of Maryland's College of Information who researches data privacy, told BI that 23andMe's data is "fairly unique" and "extremely revealing."

"There's a tremendous trove of not just genetic data tied to those accounts, but the majority of people who use the service also completed surveys, so there are other data points that would interest various third parties," Vitak said. "Whether it's advertisers, health researchers, or people selling data to a whole range of entities."

Vitak said the depth of information is one reason 23andMe's data is so valuable.

"It's one thing if I decide to share information about myself, but genetic data isn't just about me," Vitak said. "It's about all my direct family members, too."

Sadeghi from Nucleus Genomics, however, said he is not making a bid because he thinks the data is valuable but instead because of another company 23andMe acquired.

23andMe only gathers "a small sliver of someone's DNA and the most critical genetic markers are actually completely absent from the data. They're just not there, and that's why it actually doesn't work for drug discovery. That's why it never worked as a clinical test either," he told BI. "The data is worth something, but is it worth anywhere near what people are positing today? Absolutely not."

Sadeghi said the real value of 23andMe is in Lemonaid Health — the telehealth company it acquired for $400 million in 2021 — as a way to connect with customers.

What can the new owners do with the company — and its genetic data?

Sadeghi said he sees the data as one component of a "real-time, consumer-centric, quantified health platform" he wants to build.

"There's no reason why you can't bring together someone's blood, genetics, drugs, urinary analysis, full body MRIs, wearables, all together in a single platform that can basically completely revolutionize disease prevention, disease diagnosis, and also disease treatment," he said.

Kindred's Maqubela said that "no one roots for a bankruptcy," but 23andMe's data is a "treasure trove" that he thinks could help grow the burgeoning field of multi-omics.

Multi-omics combines data from the genome (genes), proteome (proteins), transcriptome (RNA transcripts), epigenome (modifications to DNA), metabolome (molecules produced in metabolism), microbiome (fungi, bacteria, viruses), and more to create a more comprehensive picture of human biology.

"It's a very young field, mostly stuck right now in pharma R&D, and then in some bench and lab research, and so it hasn't yet broken into scaled provider and end patient uses, but it's going to soon," he said. 23andMe's data, he added, could accelerate the development of mult-omics.

Maqubela said the recent advances in AI also present new opportunities to use this data. "If you put it in pre-training for a big LLM, what comes out on the other end of that is actually very hard to know and could be very, very, very interesting," he said, referring to large language models like OpenAI's ChatGPT.

Vitak said potential buyers could use the data for research. "23andMe partnered with numerous researchers, so there could be buyers that would continue to expand access to that type of data to advance precision medicine or other types of research," she said.

Given the breadth, nature, and potential of 23andMe's data, Vitak and Klosowski said the sale is unprecedented.

"Any organization dealing with data as sensitive as our genetic material has a moral responsibility to take extra care," Vitak said.

Are there laws that exist to protect you?

Vitak and Klosowski said consumers need more federal protections regarding genetic data privacy.

Some states have implemented laws to help protect consumer data, including Montana, where, in 2023, state legislators passed the Genetic Information Privacy Act, which is focused on protecting consumers' genetic data. California has similar protections for genetic data with direct-to-consumer testing companies.

The federal government, meanwhile, enforces the Genetic Information Nondiscrimination Act, which bars employers and health insurers from discriminating against individuals based on genetic information.

However, Vitak said the United States also needs something like the EU's General Data Protection Regulation, which enforces broader protections for data processing.

"The data breach and the sale are further making the case for why we need stronger data protection for consumers," Vitak.

• President Donald Trump received a standing ovation as he stepped out at UFC 314 in Miami on Saturday.
• Trump told reporters after the event that the reception was a sign "we're doing a good job."
• The president was joined by Tesla CEO Elon Musk, Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr., and others.

President Donald Trump received a standing ovation and as he walked out at UFC 314 in Miami on Saturday night.

Flanked by family members and UFC CEO Dana White, the president made his way ringside to a rousing rendition of Kid Rock's "American Bad Ass" and thunderous applause from the onlooking crowd.

"Is there anybody else that has a walk-in, other than a fighter?" UFC commentator and podcast host Joe Rogan asked.

Before long, chants of "USA" began to fill the arena as Trump greeted Rogan, who interviewed Trump during the 2024 presidential campaign, and took his seat next to embattled Tesla CEO Elon Musk — the de facto leader of Trump's Department of Government Efficiency.

Also present were Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr.; FBI director Kash Patel; Secretary of State Marco Rubio; and Tulsi Gabbard, the director of national intelligence.

As if the crowd wasn't already fired up enough, Trump also later gave them a brief tease of his somewhat iconic dance to the Village People's "YMCA."

Speaking after the event on board Air Force One, the reception wasn't lost on Trump.

"What did you think of the reaction?" he asked, adding that he thought it was "legendary."

"It's a great honor to have that kind of ovation," he continued. "It says we're doing a good job. If we weren't doing a good job, we'd get the opposite."

Trump is no stranger to the UFC.

He's made a string of appearances at fights over the years, including a surprise arrival at UFC 309 after his election win in November, when he was again joined by Musk and other allies and again enjoyed a rapturous welcome.

It comes after a wild week in financial markets that saw Trump call for a 90-day pause to his higher rate "reciprocal" import tariffs after chaos hit both the stock and bond markets.

On Saturday, the US announced that it would exempt some key tech products, like smartphones, computers, and chip-making equipment, from Trump's sweeping tariffs, in a major boost for the tech sector.

The new guidance, published by the US Customs and Border Protection, appears to exempt the products from Trump's baseline 10% tariff rate on most countries as well higher duties on China.

On Sunday, a spokesperson for China's Ministry of Commerce said the US's decision marked a "small step" toward rectifying what it regards as a misguided policy, per Chinese state news.

• Starting at the age of 7, I would fly as an accompanied minor to visit my grandfather in Transylvania.
• He had a mini-stroke in 2024 at the age of 96, so my boyfriend and I packed our things to be near.
• Every morning I walk 10 minutes over to his house so we can go for a walk together.

I spent my childhood summers in Transylvania. My classmates thought it was beyond cool that I'd be off to the home of Dracula, bats, and vampires for six weeks.

Transylvania was a magical place for me, but not for any mythical reason — because of my grandfather.

He's 97 years old now, and I moved to be near him.

I would travel as an accompanied minor

My adventure began from the moment I left my home in north London. From the age of 7, I'd fly by myself on British Airways' unaccompanied minor plan to the Romanian capital of Bucharest, where my grandfather would meet me at the airport. We'd take an eight-hour overnight train across the country to Cluj, the unofficial capital of the Transylvania region.

Vacations were filled with trips to the park, where I'd swing on the monkey bars until my hands blistered. We climbed up to the top of the Cetatuia hill, where we'd look out over the entire city, and he'd point out the historic sites. One summer, on the banks of the Someș River, we found a patch of four-leaf clovers, which we picked and took home to press into a notebook.

My grandfather was the set designer at the national opera and had worked his entire career under communism. After his retirement in the late 1980s, he started oil painting abstract interpretations of the Romanian countryside and folklore. His studio in the center of Cluj was his sacred creative space; he'd take me there to paint while I played with the black cat, Rascal, that we'd rescued one year.

Our quests didn't end with my childhood. Just last year, when he was 96, we rode Romania's last working forestry steam train up into the Carpathian mountains. The train now operates as a tourist line, and as we chugged along, my grandfather told me about how he used to hitch rides on the back of the logging trains in his 20s to get to remote fishing spots.

He had a stroke

When he had a stroke at the end of last year that left him blind in one eye and unable to live fully independently, it was immediately clear to me that I'd be the one to come and take care of him. Six weeks later, my boyfriend and I had packed up our lives and moved across Europe. The ability to do this was made exponentially easier by having a partner who was willing to make this journey with me.

My life looks different now. Every afternoon, I walk the 10 minutes from my ex-communist block of flats to his, and we go for a walk together. He can't manage much, just to the end of the street and back. Some days, we make it into the grocery store, where he sits on the window ledge next to the produce aisle and waits while I pick up his milk, bread, and clementines. Once a month, I go to his doctor's office to collect his prescription and take it across the road to refill at the pharmacy.

I tell people that I'm not my grandfather's carer, even though I am. I think I'm uncomfortable with the label because it forces me to confront a reality that I'm not prepared to accept — I'm no longer the child who needs protecting but the adult who's providing it.

Our relationship has come full circle

A family friend recently said to me that her memory of my grandfather when she was a child was that he always took her seriously. That's what he did for me, too. Any childish request was fulfilled. You might dismiss that as a grandfather merely spoiling his only grandchild. But that's my grandfather — he understands that to respect a child means entering their world completely. I try to do the same with him now at this stage of his life.

He recently asked me for a calendar, specifically a religious one that the Orthodox Church sells. I didn't ask him what appointments he could need to write down. Instead, I went to the cathedral in the city center, the same one my grandmother would take me to light candles, and bought a pocket diary from the priest in the kiosk.

Our relationship has come full circle. The smallest acts of love — buying a calendar, walking to the end of the street together — carry the same emotional weight as grand childhood expeditions once did.

My grandfather and I still undertake our secret missions, but they look a little different now. On his 97th birthday, I took him to his studio — something he's not been able to do since his stroke. I drove the car around the back entrance, backing it down the narrow gangway all the way to the steps. There were twinkle lights wound around the stairwell, which took us a while to climb. Once we got into the studio, he sat in the rocking chair, and we looked around at the stacks of canvas, rows of paintings, and boxes of oil colors. "We made it," I said. "It was an adventure," he replied.

Truck drivers in India provide an essential service to villagers in the Himalayas when they transport food, water, and medicine to remote regions. But the crucial work comes at a deadly cost.

• I go to Disney World often, but my husband doesn't love Disney and has never wanted to join me.
• I finally got him to agree to a trip if I planned the perfect adults-only Disney itinerary.
• We had fun eating at nice restaurants, watching great shows, and going bar hopping with friends.

I work as the editor for a magazine about Disney World, so I'm at the parks at least four or five times a year (for work, I swear!).

Every time I've gone, I've asked my husband, Trent, to join me, but he's always said no.

He'd say Disney isn't for him as he's not a huge fan of the movies, he gets severe motion sickness on the tamest of rides, and he hates big crowds. However, I was convinced I could plan a trip to win him over if only he'd give me a chance.

Earlier this year, we finally went together — and he loved it. Here's the adults-only trip that sealed the deal.

I made sure we had a sit-down meal at a nice restaurant at least once a day.

When I travel to Disney World for work, I'm always on the go, chasing stories and trying to cram in as many experiences as possible. That means my meals are usually quick Dole Whips and pretzels while standing in line.

However, to win Trent over, I decided to slow down and indulge in some of Disney World's best dining.

We visited at least one sit-down restaurant a day and stayed far away from character dining and buffets, where the food is usually an afterthought.

One of our favorite meals was at Sanaa, where we got the world-famous bread service and then watched animals roaming the safari at Animal Kingdom Lodge.

We also got a fancy dinner at Toledo, a steakhouse at the top of Gran Destino Tower, and a massive brunch at Chef Art Smith's Homecomin'.

We geeked out on a behind-the-scenes tour of Epcot's greenhouses.

Disney offers a lot of cool backstage tours, but one of the nerdiest (and cheapest at under $50 a person) is the Behind the Seeds Tour at Epcot's Land Pavilion.

For about an hour, a knowledgeable scientist took us on a small group tour of all the greenhouses, and we learned about the innovative ways Disney grows food and manages pests.

Although the tour isn't adults-only, the subject matter might be a little dry for little ones — and we didn't see many kids here when we went.

If you're on an adults-only trip, this tour could be a great way to get a break from the screaming toddlers around the parks.

World Showcase was a great place to spend our time.

It's no secret that World Showcase is the best place for 21-and-over fun at Disney World, and Trent and I definitely ordered a few drinks from the different pavilions.

However, as history buffs, we also enjoyed touring World Showcase beyond the food and drinks.

We stopped by each country pavilion's museum and enjoyed live entertainment from the Voices of Liberty at the American Adventure Pavilion and the taiko drummers at the Japan Pavilion.

Our itinerary had plenty of room for naps and downtime.

When I do Disney alone, I'm a rope-drop-to-kiss-goodnight kinda guy, with no breaks in between. I love being at the parks from open to close, but I knew Trent would get burned out if we attempted that.

So I followed the advice I usually give parents with little kids: Take a midday break back at the hotel.

We'd nap, grab drinks at the pool bar, and even read in a hammock. Then, refreshed, we'd head back to the parks in the evening.

We took a sangria class and went bar-hopping with friends.

Coronado Springs Resort has a sangria class on weekends where you get to sample different types of sangria and concoct your own. This was a huge hit with Trent.

We also bar-hopped around Disney Springs with friends and went to the BoardWalk area's dueling piano bar, Jellyrolls, with some of my coworkers. (Jellyrolls is set to close later this month, unfortunately).

Plus, we made sure to stop at some of my favorite quiet spots at Disney World.

I get overwhelmed by large groups and loud noises, so I have a few favorite spots around the parks where I go to cool off and decompress.

I really liked sharing my favorite secret spots in Disney with Trent, who also doesn't do well in crowds. My favorite is Tom Sawyer Island, which is unfortunately set to be replaced with "Cars" attractions this year.

I also took him to the koi pond in Epcot's Japan Pavilion to decompress, the patio of BaseLine Tap House to people watch with beers, and the Discovery Island Trail at Animal Kingdom to go on a quiet walk.

Having some spaces all to ourselves at Disney World made the experience more magical.

Lastly, we focused on shows instead of big attractions.

Because Trent experiences severe motion sickness, we couldn't do too many rides. Haunted Mansion and Spaceship Earth were OK, but even something like Soarin' or Rise of the Resistance would've been too much for him.

Fortunately, this meant we weren't stressed about waiting in long lines to get on rides or managing Lightning Lane passes to try to skip them. Instead, we simply walked around and enjoyed the theming of each park.

We also spent a lot of time watching shows — and there are a lot of good ones at Disney. Our favorites included the "Indiana Jones Epic Stunt Spectacular," "Festival of the Lion King," and, of course, "Fantasmic."

• Richard Norris Williams survived the sinking of the Titanic by swimming to a lifeboat. 
• After he was rescued, Williams refused a doctor's suggestion to amputate his legs.
• He became the highest-ranking tennis player in the US and won an Olympic gold medal in 1924.

Richard Norris Williams overcame the odds on more than one occasion.

At 21, he survived the sinking of the Titanic in 1912. When a doctor suggested he have his frostbitten legs amputated, he refused, his obituary later said.

Incredibly, he regained full sensation in his legs and would go on to become an accomplished tennis player, winning a Wimbledon title and an Olympic gold medal.

It's been 113 years since the RMS Titanic, a British passenger ship operated by the White Star Line, set sail on its infamous voyage.

Over 2,000 people were aboard the ship when it collided with an iceberg and sank during the early hours of April 15, 1912.

Of all the passengers aboard the Titanic, about 700 people made it into lifeboats. Most of the Titanic victims who did not make it onto a lifeboat either drowned, went down with the ship, or froze to death in the Atlantic Ocean as they waited to be rescued.

The survival rate for first-class male passengers aboard Titanic was just 33%, according to the study "Titanic: A Statistical Exploration," making Williams' story of survival all the more extraordinary.

Richard Norris Williams was one of the most notable people who survived the Titanic sinking.

Williams, commonly known as R. Norris Williams, was born on January 29, 1891, in Geneva, Switzerland, though his parents were from the US, The New York Times reported.

A descendant of Benjamin Franklin, he grew up in a wealthy family as the son of a prominent lawyer, Charles Duane Williams, who taught him how to play tennis as a child.

After a bout of measles halted his original travel plans to the US, where he planned to attend Harvard University, he booked a ticket on the Titanic, the Times reported.

Williams boarded the Titanic with his father in 1912.

Williams was 21 when he and his father, 51, boarded the ship at Cherbourg, France, on April 10, 1912.

They both held first-class tickets, according to the Mariners' Museum and Park.

Of all the first-class and second-class passengers who boarded the Titanic, 45% of those passengers died in the sinking, according to Britannica, compared to 75% of third-class passengers who died.

Williams' escape from the Titanic may have inspired one of the most memorable scenes in the 1997 movie about its sinking.

Williams later recounted the events of the ship's sinking in an unpublished memoir, which was passed on to his widow and his four children after his death, Main Line Times & Suburban reported.

During the sinking, he freed a passenger trapped in one of the cabins by breaking down a door that was stuck, Sports Illustrated reported. A member of staff then approached him and threatened to fine him for damaging the ship's property.

A similar scene occurs in James Cameron's film "Titanic," when Jack and Rose break down a door during their escape and are reprimanded for damaging White Star Line property.

Williams and his father stayed on the ship as long as possible, but ultimately his father did not survive.

Both men either jumped into the water or were washed overboard, The New York Times reported.

Williams later wrote in his memoir, parts of which were republished by Main Line Times & Suburban in 2012, that his father was crushed by a falling funnel, though his accounts differed slightly at different points in his life.

To escape the sinking boat, Williams removed his shoes and swam to a lifeboat about 100 yards away, although he recalled being weighed down by a fur coat he was wearing over his life jacket, The New York Times reported.

He reportedly held on to the lifeboat before climbing into it, and sat up to his knees in freezing water and waited to be rescued.

The Times reported that "only about a dozen" of the passengers in Williams' lifeboat survived.

Williams sat in knee-deep water for several hours until he was brought aboard the Carpathia.

Once on the Carpathia, Williams was told by a doctor that his frostbitten legs would need to be amputated.

However, the aspiring tennis professional refused.

"I refuse to give you permission," Williams said, according to his 1968 obituary. "I'm going to need these legs."

Determined to save his legs, Williams walked around Carpathia's deck every two hours, eventually regaining sensation in his lower body, The New York Times reported.

Williams went on to win multiple tennis titles and he won a gold medal at the 1924 Paris Olympics.

The same year he survived the Titanic sinking, Williams won the US National Tennis Championships in mixed doubles alongside Mark K. Brown and ranked among the top 10 players in the world, according to the International Tennis Hall of Fame.

In 1916, he won the national title again and became the highest-ranked tennis player in the US.

In addition to his prowess on the tennis course, Williams also served in the US Army during World War I and was awarded two honors, the Légion d'Honneur and the Croix de Guerre, according to the Olympics.

After the war, Williams resumed his tennis career, and in 1920, he won a Wimbledon doubles title, The New York Times reported.

However, his tennis career reached its peak at the 1924 Paris Olympics when Williams won a mixed-doubles gold medal with his tennis partner, Hazel Hotchkiss Wightman.

Williams married twice and had four children after surviving the disaster.

According to the Olympics, after retiring from professional tennis, Williams worked as an investment banker and then served as president of the Historical Society of Pennsylvania.

He was named a member of the International Tennis Hall of Fame in 1957, nine years before his death at the age of 77.

Williams died on June 2, 1968, in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania.

According to his New York Times obituary, he was survived by his widow, Frances "Sue" Gillmore Williams, three sons, and one daughter.

His widow died on June 13, 2001, according to Main Line Times and Suburban.

• My twin sister and I recently started looking for a home to buy together, but I got cold feet.
• I worried what would happen if one of us needed to get out of the mortgage for some reason.
• However, after talking to her about my fears, we decided to put an offer down.

My twin sister and I are seven minutes apart. We've worked together, traveled together, and, for the past five years, rented our two-bedroom flat together.

We're now in the position of trying to buy our first house together, and it hasn't been easy. Both of us have found new jobs and are saving as much as possible while also paying rent and living our lives. Now, with some financial help from our family, we have spent the past few weeks house-hunting.

Joint home ownership was an obvious next step for us. We've endured every argument we could have had, overcome many different situations, and weathered family secrets and friend fallouts by each other's side.

The one thing neither of us has ever experienced is a serious relationship. At 28, we've both been perpetually single, with a few dates and encounters sprinkled through the years. I'm very lucky to have a built-in best friend who shares many of the same opinions and dreams as me, who I can turn to when I want to try somewhere new for dinner or when I want to go on holiday.

While I'm very lucky to have someone I can buy a house with, the reality of the situation is setting in, and I'm starting to get cold feet.

I started to worry about making such a huge commitment

Buying a house is a huge financial decision, a lifetime commitment that we've always aspired to, but I can't help but be bogged down by anxious thoughts. What if such a big financial commitment causes issues for us further down the line? What if one of us meets someone and then needs to get out of our mortgage? What if one of us gets a job that requires relocation?

Many of my friends have also echoed worries about the potential long-term impact of making such a huge decision. Many of them have bought their own house after they've settled down with a long-term partner and a job they plan to stay in for life, whereas I'm not as settled. I love that I'm not tied down right now and that I have very few responsibilities. I could move to another city next week if I wanted.

After falling in love with a house we viewed, I decided it was time to be honest with my sister about my doubts and fears. My sister and I might share similar opinions on food, music, films, and clothes, but we differ in how we feel about buying a house right now.

I talked to my sister about my fears

While I was riddled with anxiety and apprehensiveness, I had no idea how she felt, and in our discussion, I saw that she was steadfast in her opinion that buying a house together is the right decision. She is of the opinion that these hypothetical issues shouldn't prevent us from a major life decision.

I'm glad I opened up because we started to work through our differing opinions with understanding and compassion. I feel immense relief after sharing my fears, and even though I didn't think it was possible, we feel even closer now.

Although I still share those same worries, I've decided to stop letting hypothetical fears get in the way of something my sister and I both want. We've discussed what will happen if one of us gets into a relationship and we need to buy the other out, and even though we haven't put anything in writing or legalized anything, we have agreed to handle it with as much honesty as possible. My family has even promised to be the go-between if any issues arise in the future and will step in to help broker a deal between us.

We've decided to move forward and put an offer on the house we both loved. I've decided to look at the situation in a positive light after realizing how happy I am with where I live, who I live with, and what my life might look like if I owned my own home.

Whether we get the house or not is up to a myriad of contributing factors. But what I've taken away from this experience is that it will be an adventure, and that's one of the many things my sister and I do well together.

• When my daughter needed to get into law school, I pulled strings to get her accepted.
• I also got her a job at my law firm after graduation, and now some colleagues don't respect her.
• I sometimes wonder if I made the right decision, but I don't regret helping her.

One of my fondest memories of my daughter is going home after a long day of work at my old law firm and seeing her sitting on the steps, anxiously waiting to ask me about my day. She would run toward me, grab my briefcase, and help me into the house.

She would then call me Superman and ask if I had settled any big cases or saved the world that day. I was a paralegal at the time, working my way up the totem pole, but the idea of helping others through legal processes excited her. That's when I knew that she would make a great lawyer.

True to that, her passion for law never wavered. While many kids are fickle and change their minds about careers as they go through life, my daughter was consistent in what she wanted.

Eventually, I earned my law degree and became a practicing lawyer. She enjoyed helping in my office during spring and summer break. As a parent, watching her in action inspired my desire to set her up for success.

I helped my daughter out early in her career

Having attended law school, I knew a couple of school administrators and professors who equally encouraged my daughter to enroll in a legal course since she wanted to practice law.

My relationship with them played a great role in helping her secure a spot in a good school, but she still had to do the work and keep her grades up to graduate.

After graduation, I vouched for her skills and expertise among the other lawyers in my firm. Most people saw it as a father speaking highly of her daughter. Because of the great history we had and the standard employment protocol, the legal experts put her through a round of interviews, which she aced.

I saw nothing wrong with using my connections to help my daughter land a job. She is smart, graduated with honors, and passed the bar exam. Some people believe that we should all start from the bottom up, but I've always been the kind of person who would never turn down an added advantage.

My daughter isn't well-respected at work by some

I've worked for over 30 years in my law firm. It's no secret that I used my influence and the relationships I have formed to help my daughter acquire a job. I don't shy away from pointing this out to colleagues. I even discussed my desires and intentions with them while my daughter was still in school.

However, the downside is that some colleagues think my daughter didn't earn her keep. It feels like she is not well-respected for her brilliant mind and always gets the shorter end of the stick when it comes to work projects.

This has played out in numerous instances, and she even feels like she has to downplay her ideas so the limelight is not constantly on her. Granted, she could find a job solely based on her accomplishments, but as a parent, I don't see the purpose of going the long way when I can help.

I've had moments where I wonder if I did the right thing, but watching her come to work every day with a smile on her face despite the odds makes me feel like we are on the right path.

I've had numerous conversations with her about some of her colleagues feeling like she got the easy way out. This would be disheartening for anyone, but it only fuels her fire to do better and chart her own career path.

She knows she can leave and find a job in any other law firm of her choosing, but working together offers us both a sense of comfort that we are holding on to.

I don't regret helping my daughter

I'm slowly realizing that a job connection for any of my children could leave them feeling like they constantly need to prove themselves among their colleagues.

I encourage all of them to be their best. I've imparted life lessons and resources to see them through any situation. But if my daughter ever feels like my influence is standing in her way, I would gladly step back and let her find her own path.

As we've heard, there's no manual to parenting. Sometimes, we make decisions we think are in the best interest of our children's happiness, only to deal with unexpected challenges down the line.

• The latest episode of "SNL" saw Trump world meet "The White Lotus."
• James Austin Johnson returned as Trump, parodying Jason Isaac's beleaguered financier from the HBO show.
• The spoof seems to have been a hit with fans, with many calling it the shows funniest skit in some time.

"Saturday Night Live" continued to roast key White House figures in this weekend's episode, which saw President Donald Trump and his inner circle checking in to the "The White Lotus."

Retitled "The White POTUS," James Austin Johnson returned as the US president, parodying Jason Isaac's beleaguered financier from the HBO show.

In the wake of the real president's tariff announcements — which have sparked chaos in global financial markets — Johnson's caricature of Trump is seen numbing his pain with a prescription bottle of chicken nuggets and threatening to shoot Uncle Sam himself (Andrew Dismukes).

As Johnson's Trump fights an existential crisis at the breakfast table, Chloe Fineman, playing his wife Melania but embodying Parker Posey's iconic character from the show, asks: "Can you imagine how awful it would if America lost all its money and no one respected us anymore?"

"You would never let our economy go to pieces, right, hon?" she continues, as Johnson's Trump's phone pings with a news flash about a tariffs-induced recession.

The pre-taped sketch also saw Mikey Day play Trump Jr., Alex Moffat as Eric Trump, and Scarlett Johansson as Ivanka Trump.

In line with her "White Lotus" counterpart, Johansson's Ivanka is seen seeking spiritual enlightenment, only to change her mind when she's told: "You must ask yourself: 'Am I ready to give up greed and material possessions in order to lead an honest and ethical life?'"

Elsewhere, Beck Bennett returned as a shirtless Russian President Vladimir Putin, Kenan Thompson appeared as Tiger Woods, and the episode's celebrity host Jon Hamm portrayed RFK Jr.

The star-studded lineup also featured a brief appearance from musical guest Lizzo, who played a disgruntled American who realized their savings had tanked.

"Oh, my God, there's $5 million in my bank account," she said. "It was 20 million last week."

The skit seems to have been a hit with fans, with some on social media lauding it as one of the best sketches the show has done in some time.

"'The White Potus' is the most brilliant and well-done satire SNL has done this century," one X user wrote.

"Gonna need at least 10 seasons of this," another said.

"The White Potus is the funniest thing Saturday Night Live has done in years," a third added.

Earlier in the episode, Johnson's Trump was also the focus of an Easter-themed cold open, which began by dramatizing the bible story of Jesus (played by Mikey Day) casting moneylenders out of the temple on his arrival in Jerusalem.

"Remind you of anyone?" Johnson's Trump said, interrupting the sequence. "I also got rid of money last week, but instead of one temple, I did a whole country. Maybe even the globe. The money's gone."

"Hi, it's me, your favorite president, Donald Jesus Trump, comparing myself to the son of God once again," he continued. "Many people are even calling me the Messiah because of the mess I, uh, made out of the economy, all because of my beautiful tariffs."

• Easter dinner can be a perfect opportunity to try out new recipes in your Crock-Pot or slow cooker.
• Side dishes like carrots, scalloped potatoes, and green bean casserole can be made in a slow cooker.
• You can even use a slow cooker to make your Easter ham.

Easter is right around the corner, making it the perfect time to start planning your menu. 

Easter meals typically include dishes like ham, lamb, potatoes, and fresh seasonal vegetables, and they can all be made in a slow cooker, a tool more often associated with winter stews and game-day dips.

A Google Trends analysis over the last five years showed that searches for "slow cooker" typically rise in November and December, suggesting it's a popular tool for holiday cooking and feeding a larger crowd.

Business Insider consulted slow-cooker recipes and Leigh Anne Wilkes, the author of "Holiday Slow Cooker: 100 Incredible and Festive Recipes for Every Celebration," to determine the best slow-cooker recipes to make this Easter. 

Here are 11 Easter dinner side dishes you can make in a slow cooker.

Mac and cheese is a crowd-pleasing side dish.

"Mac and cheese is amazing in the slow cooker and one of my favorite ways to make it," Leigh Anne Wilkes told Business Insider.

Wilkes likes to use a variety of cheeses in her recipe for slow-cooker mac and cheese — including sharp cheddar, Monterey Jack, mozzarella, and Parmesan — and she tops it with a generous amount of crispy bacon.

"Whether you have a houseful of kids or it's just the two of you, the slow cooker can make cooking so much easier," Wilkes said. "I often refer to it as my secret weapon to getting dinner on the table."

You can also make creamy mashed potatoes in a slow cooker.

Mashed potatoes can be a big hassle, from parboiling them to mashing and finding a space for them on the stove.

However, mashed potatoes can easily be made in a slow cooker. Just make sure to add water to your pot, or you won't get the desired consistency. The potatoes should take about four hours to become tender enough to mash. Then, add heavy cream, butter, or chives to taste.

"Even if you don't cook in the slow cooker, it is the perfect way to keep things warm," Wilkes said. "The biggest challenge with a holiday meal is getting all the food done at the same time and the slow cooker is a perfect place to keep things warm while the rest of the meal finishes cooking. If your potatoes finish up before the main dish, keep them warm in the slow cooker."

Another option is a warm German potato salad with ingredients like mustard, crispy bacon, and softened celery.

However, you'll want to give yourself plenty of time, as it will take multiple hours for the potatoes to soften.

Buffalo chicken dip is another quick and easy favorite for a holiday gathering.

One of the benefits of making a slow-cooker Buffalo chicken dip — or any other side dish in a slow cooker — is that it can be prepared well ahead of time and reheated when you're ready to eat.

Green bean casserole can also be made in a slow cooker.

Green bean casserole is a favorite side dish at many holiday gatherings, from Thanksgiving to Easter, and a recipe can easily be made in a Crock-Pot or slow cooker.

Slow-cooked glazed carrots are delicious and easy to make in a slow cooker.

Wilkes told BI one of her favorite ways to use a slow cooker on Easter or another holiday is to make her recipe for honey or maple-glazed carrots. 

"The slow cooker is the perfect thing to use when putting together a holiday meal," Wilkes said. "Especially when you are limited on oven space, it can be your second or third oven. I often have two or three slow cookers going for a holiday meal."

Balsamic Brussels sprouts can also be served as a side dish at Easter.

Simply toss them in with a little olive oil, salt, and pepper and cook until tender.

Top with balsamic glaze, goat cheese, pine nuts, and more for a delicious side dish.

Scalloped potatoes, or potatoes au gratin, don't need precious oven space to prepare.

This recipe for slow-cooker scalloped potatoes from Damn Delicious instructs you to prepare the cream sauce beforehand, before pouring it over sliced potatoes in the slow cooker and cooking them on high heat for four to five hours.

Dinner rolls can also be made in a slow cooker or Crock-Pot.

You might be shocked to discover you can actually make warm, fluffy dinner rolls in a slow cooker. One recipe from I Heart Eating teaches you how to make the perfect dinner-roll dough and bake it only using a slow cooker.

You can also kick your rolls up a notch with these cheesy slow-cooker rolls.

"These Crock-Pot rolls are amazing," Wilkes said.

Plus, since this recipe calls for frozen rolls, it cuts out a lot of the extra prep work. To make, dip each roll into mayonnaise, then melted butter, then cheese, and place them in the slow cooker. Then, sprinkle garlic powder and parsley over the top and bake for two hours on high.

If you want to cook more than one kind of meat, you can use a slow cooker to prepare an Easter ham.

I know that for my family, we usually have both lamb and ham on the table at Easter dinner. If you want to make another kind of meat as a side dish or alternative, a slow cooker can be a great way to make cleanup and cooking a snap.

"If I am cooking a smaller ham, I will always cook it in the slow cooker," Wilkes told Business Insider.

Wilkes' recipe uses a glaze made from brown sugar, maple syrup, and brown mustard. 

• When I was laid off from my job in 2019, I struggled to feel professional and personal value.
• I did freelance writing while I looked for full-time jobs, but then my business started booming.
• Five years later, I'm freelancing full-time — and I'm proud of the career I've built for myself.

The journalism industry is notoriously fickle, and I've watched many colleagues around me get laid off over the years. However, the same fate didn't reach me until I was 15 years into my career.

In 2019, I was called into a corporate office I'd never been to so a human-resources employee I'd never met could slide a packet of information about my layoff across the desk.

I didn't know it then, but this unfortunate situation would actually push me to create a far more fulfilling career for myself.

At first, I faced practical challenges and an even bigger identity crisis

Shortly after I was let go, I focused on logistics and practical concerns.

I was already over 40, and I feared I might never get another "real" job again. After all, younger talent can be desirable in many industries because they're often much cheaper to employ.

Thankfully, my two toddlers and I were able to move on to my spouse's insurance. Their group plan and stable income meant our short-term financials weren't as big of a pressing concern as they could've been.

Soon, I realized the hardest part of being laid off would be overcoming my new feelings of professional (and, by extension, personal) valuelessness.

Rather than remembering my career triumphs, I wondered what I'd done along the way to find myself in this situation. I forgot what my marketable skills were and felt like an imposter as I overhauled my résumé and applied to job after job.

Freelancing helped me find a new path

While job hunting, I started freelance writing as a stopgap measure to bring in some income and stay tethered to a sense of relevance.

Although I worked on some interesting projects, I took many assignments that I considered beneath my career experience in terms of content or compensation (or both).

A few months later, the coronavirus pandemic turned the world upside down. I still had no viable full-time job offers on the table.

The job market felt uncertain like many other things at that time. I assumed the worst outcomes for my work prospects — but the opposite reality bore out.

With so many people home, isolated, and glued to their screens, the demand for digital content seemed to soar, lifting my writing business right with it.

Work picked up steam until I was so booked I could pass on gigs that paid less and didn't feel very rewarding. I started really taking pleasure in full-time freelance writing.

From there, I began developing a brand identity, reading books for writing professionals, and enrolling in virtual conferences and classes for freelancers.

For the first time in a while, I felt enriched by my work and everything I was learning.

Eventually, I realized how much I loved my remade professional life

Within about a year, my business was booming, and I was even making more money than I'd made as a corporate employee.

I was thriving in a career I'd remade on my own terms. Eventually, I stopped applying for corporate jobs.

I like being independent and not stymied by a corporate setting, where shareholders can dictate policies that aren't in line with my values and bosses can control creative and business decisions that affect my work.

It's been over five years since I was laid off, and I'm still doing my thing. There are ebbs and flows and peaks of valleys, and the journalism industry is still far from stable.

However, I can still say with full sincerity that I love my job — and I feel gratitude when I remember the path that led me here.

• Trump's tariffs on China could mean higher prices for wedding dresses.
• Some 90% of wedding gowns are made in China.
• David's Bridal says it's working to shift production outside China to avoid the added costs.

As if planning a wedding wasn't already stressful enough, President Donald Trump's trade war could make it even pricier to say "I do."

The Trump administration has issued a combined 145% tariff on many imports from China, where the vast majority of wedding dresses are produced.

That means the average wedding dress — which retails for about $2,000, according to a survey by The Knot, a wedding planning site — could end up more than twice as expensive if retailers pass the additional costs down to the consumer.

Bridal retailers told Business Insider that the tariffs have been a huge disruption to their industry. The National Bridal Retailers Association, which represents over 6,000 independent brick-and-mortar bridal stores around the United States, said as many as 90% of bridal gowns are produced in China.

"The overriding feeling is despair," Angie Oven, a bridal shop owner and president of the NBRA, told BI after a meeting she held with 75 of the group's members. "There's a little bit of PTSD right now because a lot of us really just recovered from COVID."

Oven, who owns The Bridal Gallery in Salem, Oregon, said shops are working closely with manufacturers to find solutions. The group is also appealing to lawmakers to push for bridal gowns to be added to a tariff exemption list.

"Our No. 1 goal is to be removed from the tariff list," Sandra Gonzalez, vice president of NBRA and owner of Sparkle Bridal Couture in Sacramento, said.

Although Americans often associate China with cheap goods, bridal shop owners said the quality of dresses produced in China at scale is remarkable, from the lace to the boning to the sometimes 10,000 beads handsewn onto the gowns.

"We do not have the infrastructure to produce the quality of goods that brides are demanding of us," Gonzalez said. "To build the factories and train the people, that would take a whole generation."

Price increases and uncertainty

Alicia Adams, owner of Her's Bridal & Special Occasion in Minden, Louisiana, said the price of gowns is already going up. Some manufacturers are raising the wholesale price of gowns by as much as 30%, while others are, at least for now, trying to absorb the cost.

"Now that it's over 100%, obviously those manufacturers and designers aren't able to absorb those costs," she told BI. "They're going to have to pass it down to us, which means we would have to pass it down to our brides."

Adams said some bridal stores might try to absorb the costs, but at the current tariff rate, it likely won't be feasible. Some might instead absorb 50% and then pass the other half on to shoppers.

Complicating the situation is that many bridal gowns are made-to-order, meaning some brides have already picked out and paid for dresses now being produced abroad. When those gowns are delivered, they could be hit with a huge tariff for which the bride or the bridal shop never planned.

Vanessa Gerstner, whose wedding is this September in Italy, told BI she's waiting for a dress she ordered in November to arrive from Australia — where tariffs on imported goods are 10%.

"I'm hoping that I won't get another huge charge on top of what I've already paid, but since it is being shipped directly to me and not a bridal salon, I think, from my understanding, I would have to eat that cost," she said.

She said the additional fee "isn't terrible," especially compared to other brides who are now opting for cheaper dresses than they originally planned due to the increased tariff costs.

Bridal consultant Alina Garza, who works at One Bridal in Annapolis, Maryland, said in a video posted to TikTok last week that dress designers have already reached out to her to say they'll be raising prices by up to 20%. Two are US designers that source fabric from India and China, she later told BI by direct message.

One commenter said she was "not able to sleep over this" and planned to have items from China shipped to Mexico, where she would pick them up. Another said the factory making her dress has paused all shipments.

Shifting production out of China

Trump has said one of his motivations for the tariffs is to encourage more manufacturing in the United States. But while big bridal companies are considering shifting production out of China, they aren't necessarily looking at the United States.

Kelly Cook, CEO of David's Bridal, the largest wedding retailer in the United States, told BI that the company is not "tariff-proof" but "tariff-resilient," in part because it has 36 design and production facilities around the world, including in Sri Lanka, the Philippines, and Myanmar.

In anticipation of tariffs, the company has been proactively shifting its production out of China over the past few months. Cook said the company has lowered its China-based production from 50% of its total just several months ago to 30% today.

The company is also working to help its partners, who primarily manufacture dresses in China, shift production to their facilities in countries that haven't been hit quite as hard by tariffs.

As of Friday, Cook said David's Bridal had not raised prices. "We want to do everything in our power not to pass anything on to the customer," she told BI.

The smaller bridal shops said they were also working with their manufacturers to avoid passing on costs to brides, but the longer the high tariffs remain, the harder that will be. Still, they said many bridal shops now have plenty of gowns in store that brides could take home, free of tariffs.

Adams, who owns the shop in Louisiana, said it's still too soon to tell how severe the impact will be and that she didn't want to cause fear among brides. "We don't want to freak people out and then a month later everything goes back to normal," she said.

Still, Adams is also concerned that if tariffs do raise prices, it could deter brides from visiting their local brick-and-mortar bridal stores, many of which are longtime fixtures on their local main street.

"We hope people in Washington will give a little," she said. "They don't want people to not get married and not celebrate life moments."

• My husband wanted to retire early, so I agreed to do the same, but I hated it.
• I went back to work while my husband remained retired and focused on saving money.
• Since I wanted to keep spending money, we often fought until we made a compromise.

I recently watched a webinar and was ready to push the "count me in" button and spend $3,000 on the program. However, I restrained myself because I value my marriage.

Dave and I used to be in sync as entrepreneurs. We ran his accounting firm and my consulting company out of the same office. We went to lunch daily, where we would share our goals, challenges, and wins. We freely spent money on business, pleasure, and family.

Dave loved his clients but not accounting itself, so he wanted to retire early at 55. I loved my clients and my work, so retirement was the last thing on my mind. But when Dave was ready, I agreed to give it a try.

It wasn't as easy as I thought it would be.

I retired with my husband, left the city, and started a new life

We went full-on with the retirement experience. We moved to a remote mountain ranch covered in redwoods, got three dogs, raised peacocks and chickens, bought a horse for our daughter, and took long walks in the woods.

Dave built fun things like a library, a teepee, a fully plumbed outhouse, and a gazebo nestled in the trees for our spa. He was in heaven.

I loved the lifestyle, but at 50, I missed the challenge of consulting and the satisfaction of teaching. Trees are great to look at, but they make lousy seminar participants and block the internet. My frustration was growing.

Retirement wasn't working for me

Dave called one morning. He was emptying our office and said, "I'm just going to get rid of all your training room chairs."

The words stabbed like a knife through my heart, and I lost it. I realized what that meant and fell into a chair, moaning that my life was over. No more clients, no more seminars, no more networking, no more anything — except trees, trees, and more trees.

Dave was dumbfounded. He said, "But we agreed to this." I told him I'd honor our agreement, but I didn't know how I could be happy letting my calling die in the woods.

He decided that we should move back to the city since I wanted to get back into action.

I was stunned. I knew how much he loved the mountain ranch, but I was grateful for the suggestion and agreed. We turned the ranch into a VRBO rental and returned to the city.

Back in the city, I restarted my business, our daughter went to school, and Dave continued his retired lifestyle. Retirement didn't just affect his activity level; it affected his mindset about money.

My husband is now in money-saving mode, while I want to spend

When we were both making money and could easily make more when we needed it, he was much less miserable. Now that he is on Social Security, he wants to spend almost nothing and make sure we have enough money to live on until we die.

My focus is the opposite. I don't want to hunker down. I want to expand. I see the business landscape changing at the speed of light, and I want to take every course, attend every conference, subscribe to every newspaper and magazine, and try every new gadget. All of these things take money.

When I first started rebuilding, Dave let me loot our retirement account, but then he put his foot down, and fireworks flew. After having the first real fights of our marriage, we finally came to a truce.

We agreed that I would no longer touch our nest egg, but I can spend anything I currently earn in any way I want. I only touch one bank account we set aside for my income and expenses. He handles everything else as if we are both retired.

I like to think that I'm the kite, and he's the string. It works for us.

• About 10 years ago, my husband and I decided to try homesteading.
• We wanted to be self-sufficient and moved to a 93-acre farm in rural Maine.
• Over time, we realized that it was harder than we thought and didn't actually save us money.

In 2015, my husband and I packed up our belongings — including half a dozen geese and a library of self-sufficiency how-tos — and moved our lives from two acres in a coastal suburb to a 93-acre farm in rural Maine.

My dream was to create a self-reliant life. Having grown up on stories of rural heroes from Thoreau to the Nearings, I wanted to embody an alternative to the life paths I observed around me. I did not want to climb any corporate ladders or buy into consumer culture. Instead, I believed I could scratch a more unconventional lifestyle out of Maine's rocky soil.

We started with chickens but realized that wouldn't actually lower the price of eggs

Like many beginning homesteaders, I was blissfully unaware of the cost of the lifestyle. In my mind, and according to all the books I read, we could reduce our income needs by limiting our expenses and cutting out 'wasteful' spending, like nights out and new clothes. Our needs would be further reduced by cutting out trips to the grocery store, instead growing our own food.

I knew that we would not be immediately self-sufficient. In fact, until the pandemic made working from home a necessity, I commuted in to work on rural country roads throughout our life on the homestead.

We started with chickens, like many other homesteaders do. Chickens have always been the 'gateway livestock' because they are small and easy to house, it's not hard to find someone to take care of chickens if you leave for the weekend, and chicks are relatively inexpensive at your local Tractor Supply. These days, chickens are more popular than they have ever been. With the price of eggs soaring, people believe that they can get 'free eggs' by putting some chickens in their backyard.

The problem is that chickens are actually a terrible way to get cheaper eggs. Over our years of homesteading, we learned that the costs to house, feed, and care for a few backyard chickens far outweigh the cost of simply paying for eggs, even at current record-breaking high prices. When we looked at our budget, we realized we were always paying more for chicken feed than we were saving on eggs.

Not only that, we quickly learned that chickens prefer to lay in spring and summer and sometimes don't provide eggs all winter, and they seemed to be a magnet for predators that would find any crack in the coop and decimate our flock. Birds can also be a health risk — we eventually lost our flock to Avian Flu in the spring of 2022, a disease that has grown more threatening to humans over the years.

The majority of our livestock choices ran us into similar problems. In order to get milk from goats, you have to breed them. That meant that every year, our Nigerian Dwarf goat would give birth to between one and five kids, and because we did not want an ever-expanding herd, we needed to sell them. The problem was, this was always a struggle; this adorable goat breed had become very popular, and every homesteader nearby had goat kids for sale. Visits from the vet were necessary to keep our herd healthy, and fencing was an ongoing cost — the saying among farmers is that a fence that can hold water can hold a goat. Because of their escape antics, goats also proved ineffectual at clearing brush, the fringe benefit we hoped they'd offer.

It's harder to be self-sufficient than I thought

My perspective on homesteading at the beginning may have been naive, but it was reinforced by countless homesteading writers and influencers who promote the lifestyle as sustainable. It took years for me to accept the realities of farm life. In the summer months, it was easy to replace many groceries with homegrown produce, but in winter, stored root vegetables and pickles became tiresome. While our animals did help us manage our land, they never did the work the way equipment could or saved us backbreaking labor. Few, if any, homesteads are truly self-sufficient. And those that are often only manage such a lifestyle through a radical lifestyle.

Even Thoreau — seen by many as the father of the self-reliance movement thanks to his seminal work Walden — had his mother do his laundry for him while he was living 'self-sufficiently' at Walden Pond. The Nearings relied on a steady stream of eager apprentices and income from books and speaking tours. A self-sufficient life did not mean frolicking with baby goats in the green fields. Instead, we learned the hard way that it looked more like spending early mornings injecting sick goats with medications, and crawling out of bed in the middle of the night to stoke the wood stove.

We had never expected it to be easy, but the continuous growth of to-do lists and tasks made it feel that for every bit of progress, there was more work to be done. Working constantly to keep up with our projects meant little time for anything else, from family and friends to pleasurable or intellectual leisure activities.

Some homesteaders I knew found lucrative side hustles, like promoting the lifestyle on social media or through writing, or happened upon another niche that provided income. For us, and most others, permaculture farm and small-scale livestock husbandry did not provide a livable wage. True self-sufficiency — the romantic vision of living off the land with little need for external income — proved to be an illusion.

Today, we still live on our remote farm. We keep a garden and even have a few goats that we neither breed nor milk but have as pets. We enjoy watching those goats kick about the yard and eat fresh fruit when it is in season, but we no longer strive to depend only on ourselves.

In the end, the real lesson of our time on the farm wasn't how to be self-reliant, but how to balance ideals with reality. And perhaps, most importantly, it taught me that rejecting one system doesn't mean escaping work — it just means choosing a different kind of labor.

• My parents divorced after 19 years of marriage.
• I had a hard time accepting that people I loved so dearly could grow to hate each other so much.
• Several years after the divorce, my parents moved in together and it's reshaped my view of love.

My divorced parents live together. It's something I used to be ashamed of and lie about whenever people would ask.

I'd say they lived separately or simply pretended they were still married. Now, I own it.

I don't know if this arrangement between my parents will last forever, but I'm happy they've found a way to make it work.

My parents lived apart for several years following the divorce

My parents divorced after 19 years of marriage when I was 17 and my sister was 10. It was a difficult time for everyone.

I found it hard to accept the idea that people I loved so dearly could grow so hateful toward one another.

The only thing that gave me solace was knowing they would no longer live together, so their arguments wouldn't ring through our adolescent ears.

My sister and I could try to have a relationship with both of them, separately and without bias. This, of course, took a while to achieve.

For the first few years after their divorce, me and my sister were in a constant battle of taking "sides." At one point, it felt like a competition of who — my mom or dad — could survive divorce better.

The financial struggle was apparent on both sides, and the resentment had overpowered everything of the happy life they once knew together.

Then, the pandemic hit.

My mom, a front-line nurse, developed debilitating long COVID and lost her job and income.

When my mom fell on hard times, it was my dad's idea to let her move into his home temporarily for a maximum of six months. Those six months have turned into four years.

At first, my sister and I felt like we were going through a second divorce

When our dad made the initial offer to our mom to move back in, my sister, who was living with my dad, and I — who lived out of state but came home often for monthslong stays in summer and winter — were beside ourselves.

At first, things were as you would expect for two divorcees living together.

They couldn't be in the kitchen at the same time. The fights were reminiscent of what we'd hear during their marriage.

It felt like we were going through a second divorce. However, within the second year, the situation started to improve.

In 2022, we even had Christmas dinner as a family for the first time in 10 years.

My mom made her famous lasagna and we watched "White Christmas" together in the family room.

They still have completely separate lives

Four years after they moved back in together, my parents are still divorced, and the divide between them is still there.

They have their own social circles and don't often hang out together unless me and my sister are present.

However, it's interesting to watch how preferences from 19 years of marriage can never fade.

My mom doesn't think twice before switching over my dad's laundry, and he always brings home an extra slab of ribs when he runs to Portillos, my mom's favorite meal.

It took a while for them to find the proper boundaries to make this living arrangement work, but eventually, they found a decent enough common ground.

I don't know if this situation will last forever, but it's shaped how I look at love

I never thought I would have hope when speaking about my parents' relationship.

Growing up, I always had a preserved idea of love. I would frequently ask myself, "Where does the love go?"

However, since my parents have learned how to cohabit, I've learned that love doesn't leave, it just changes shape, no matter the resentment or hatred that might be attached.

Although sometimes dysfunctional, their care for one another has found ways to overpower the hate.

I never thought I would experience the day where I looked at this situation as convenient. Yet, here I am, feeling lucky that I got both my parents back.

I now come home for the holidays to one family in one house. A reminder that love has the power to evolve into something that can still surprise and inspire.

• 42-year-old Vanessa Voss purchased a Cybertruck last year to help advertise her business.
• In the last two weeks, she and her business have received threats online, over the phone, and on Reddit.
• Voss spent $436 on a self-defense course for her office and directed her employees to leave before dark.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Vanessa Voss, a 42-year-old business owner living in Tacoma, Washington. Business Insider has verified her identity and recent harassment. This story has been edited for length and clarity.

Last year, we purchased a Cybertruck for solely business purposes.

It has our logo and branding on it, along with my photo on the front. We also have a Silverado and a Jeep Cherokee that is wrapped in my logo. It just made sense then to buy a vehicle that allowed further marketing and advertising for our business.

I'm the owner of Voss Insurance Group, an agency that helps people navigate retirement and transition to Medicare. We don't work for the federal government but we facilitate enrolling people in prescription drug coverage, Medicare supplements, and Medicare Advantage.

Part of what my agency does is do a lot of branding and advertising related to the enrollment and Medicare process by offering free guidance and local services.

The purchase was made before people set Cybertrucks on fire or took strong political stances on Tesla. The edges of the vehicle are flat and it allows for enough description and visual components to increase our branding.

As of two weeks ago, we have been harassed online, over the phone, and via email for having a Cybertruck.

Now, me and my business are under attack

The very first phone call that I received was from a gentleman saying that he was going to kill me.

The blocked caller also told me that I am a Nazi, cussed me out, and said I should kill myself. That day, I received a total of 12 phone calls, some of which were blocked and others that weren't.

I filed a police report over the phone after the initial death threat. I tried to report every number that called and we are still documenting calls and voicemails. There's not a lot the police can do as far as harassment unless someone shows up at our home or at our business and becomes violent. A police sergeant I'm friendly with recommended that I keep the Cybertruck in my garage until things subside though.

The calls have continued, although they've died down a little since that first weekend. The callers leave voicemails saying I should be embarrassed, that we need to take the trash out, and that I'm going to need a warranty because something is going to happen to it.

They even posted a picture of my vehicle in the driveway of my residence on Reddit so that people could further attack us on social media.

We also received three really terrible Google reviews and two on Yelp. We spent hours trying to get them removed and eventually were able to.

Most of the calls are directed at me, but some of my employees have also experienced harassment. One of my agents was speaking to someone who originally seemed interested in buying insurance and then started sending replies to her emails that were very vulgar.

We received a call this week from a gentleman who threatened to spread the word about my business negatively to the community. He was treated with professionalism but we did have to hang up on him for tying up our phone lines.

I believe it's a coordinated attempt since different people have been calling. They all communicate similarly, saying things like, "We'll tell everyone" or "We'll spread the word about you."

I hired a self-defense instructor to come to my office

I don't feel like I'm at the point where I am scared for my life, but I am certainly taking precautions to protect my staff. We are an office of four women and our building rests right on a busy street.

Soon after the harassment began, I paid $436 for a two-hour self-defense session. The instructor is scheduled to come to my office to teach my staff self-defense tactics in the event that the situation becomes violent, or if people physically show up here at my office or at my home. The session will focus on a number of methods including verbal de-escalation, active shooter and intruder response training, and escape from common holds.

My employees are a little uneasy. I work really hard to give them a really safe environment and make them feel welcome, but we can't control what society does. We had a conversation about protecting ourselves in the office and leaving before it's dark. We also made sure to tint the windows in the Cybertruck so people can't physically see us, although my husband is the one who drives it.

I feel disheartened

I am very disheartened by the fact that people think it's okay to attack any individual.

Under no circumstance is it okay to harass an individual. I don't think that these people really understand the role we play in helping people with Medicare and retirement. They're just assuming that we're adding to what's going on from a political stance.

If Social Security or Medicare were to dissolve, I would be the first out of a job. It doesn't make a whole lot of sense for me to support one way or the other. I just want to help people with Medicare and make sure that people who are retired have some peace of mind.

We all have opportunities and careers, but that doesn't mean we agree with everything that happens in the world.

I'm just more baffled than anything. These are behaviors exhibited by grown adults, which blows my mind. There is no level of respect that these people are giving us without even reaching out and getting our side of the story. It's just straight attack mode, which is really unfortunate.

I haven't considered selling the Cybertruck because it takes a whole lot of courage to consistently grow and work and strive really hard to be successful in business and help the community. I am not one that will be bullied. I'm just not going to allow a group of people to bully me into actually trading in my vehicle.

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Welcome back to our Sunday edition, where we round up some of our top stories and take you inside our newsroom. Aspiring entrepreneurs, take note: A new AI startup founded by Yale students aims to compete with LinkedIn — and we got a hold of the pitch deck it used to raise $3 million.

On the agenda today:

• Her father created Spider-Man. She was cut off from the Marvel empire.
• Microsoft is mulling job cuts that could happen as early as next month.
• Trump is reviled from Canada to China. American tourists are paying the price.
• Our reporter visited Hooters and saw why the chain is facing bankruptcy.

But first: House hunting is about to change.

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This week's dispatch

The Great Zillow Zap

Many of us lurk on real estate portals like Zillow and Redfin, even if just for fun. Now, users are coming across properties on these sites that appear to be "off-market" but are actually for sale … if you know where to look.

Our housing reporter extraordinaire James Rodriguez published a must-read story this week about how new rules for real estate agents are pushing listings away from catch-all platforms toward exclusive brokerage sites. I sat down with James to learn more — and to get his prediction for what's next in the housing market.

James, this week you wrote about changes that mean fewer home listings are making it onto sites like Zillow, or are taking longer to land there. That's no fun for lurkers! But overall, does this shift benefit buyers, sellers, both or neither?

Buyers are, for sure, the big losers: They just want to see all the homes available for sale, and it's getting tougher to do that. For sellers, they might benefit from a private test run within a brokerage before their property hits very public Zillow. But Zillow says it will penalize sellers who try to do this, and there is certainly a benefit to reaching the widest possible range of buyers. The true winners will be the big brokers and agents who end up controlling access to listings and boosting their bottom lines.

In the last year or so, the rules around brokerage commissions and listings have changed — are home buyers and sellers truly better off? Or not so much?

The short answer is not really. The status quo is hard to overcome: Agent commissions are roughly the same, and consumers are confused about all the new rules (or don't even know about them). That said, as the news continues to spread, there will be more opportunities for savvy buyers and sellers to negotiate better outcomes. That's why I've spent a lot of time breaking down these changes and what they mean for the average person.

You wrote in October that it looked like the housing market would de-freeze by spring. How is that prediction working out?

There are definitely some bright spots. Buyers have a lot more options this spring: I wrote that inventory would be the big figure to watch, and the number of homes for sale in March was up almost 30% from a year ago. But both sides are, understandably, cautious right now: The typical mortgage rate jumped this week to around 7%, and there's a lot of economic uncertainty, to put it mildly. Stay tuned!

Growing up Marvel

JC Lee has been widely portrayed as the villain of the Stan Lee story: the spoiled, impossible child who exploited her father, then failed to protect him in his final years.

People close to JC and her father tell a different story. "The main thing JC inherited from her father is she has a real knack for surrounding herself with con men," one of Stan's closest confidants said. Now, JC is ready to tell her side of the story.

The tumultuous life of Stan Lee's only child.

Microsoft mulls more job cuts

Another round of Microsoft cuts could come as soon as May, focusing on middle managers, non-coders, and more low performers, according to people familiar with the matter.

It's unclear how many roles will be slashed. However, some Microsoft organizations want to increase their "span of control" and decrease the ratio of product managers or program managers to engineers, sources told BI.

Inside layoff discussions.

Make America Hated Again

As spring and summer vacations roll in, some American tourists are finding an unseasonally icy welcome abroad. Treated with awkwardness, pity, or straight-up hostility, they're starting to rethink their travel plans.

For American expats, their home country becoming the global frenemy means some conversations about President Trump are unavoidable. Even when Americans leave the US, its politics follow them.

Warning: traveling while American.

What happened to Hooters?

Hooters of America filed for bankruptcy in March. BI's Alex Bitter went to one location to find out why. He said the signature tank tops hadn't gone anywhere, and the fries were underwhelming.

Hooters is known for its scantily clad waitresses, but the CEO of the chain's founding group wants to make the restaurants more family-friendly.

So long, "Bikini Nights."

This week's quote:

"I've been concerned about Elon Musk back since he was at PayPal, and then with the purchase and dismantling of Twitter."

— Actor Alex Winter, who helped kick-start the global Tesla Takedown movement.

More of this week's top reads:

• America is about to become one giant yard sale.
• Elon Musk's xAI is hiring workers to push its chatbot Grok to the limit.
• Mira Murati doubled the fundraising target for her new AI startup to $2 billion. It could be the largest seed round in history.
• Canada has billions in US real estate. Trump's threats put that at risk.
• A new wave of tech investors is supercharging a boom in female founders.
• MrBeast wants to build the next Disney. Here's what his company's CEO is pitching to investors.

• Jensen Huang shot down comparisons to Elon Musk and yelled at his biographer. The author told BI what Huang is like.

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• Business Insider spoke to 6 cybersecurity recruiters about the top names to have on your résumé.
• Recruiters said the companies can vary depending on the sector of cybersecurity you work in.
• Recruiters mentioned Palo Alto Networks, the NSA, Big Tech, and the Big Four consulting firms.

If you work in cybersecurity, having the right skill set is a top priority — but having a strong name on your résumé doesn't hurt.

Domini Clark, founder and CEO of Blackmere Consulting, told Business Insider that "it's not terribly important" for entry-level candidates to have the most well-known names on their résumés. In fact, working for small companies can sometimes help provide a broader understanding of the space.

But as you climb the career ladder, Clark said a well-known company can provide "credibility" and indicate strong leadership experience exposure to handling enterprise problems.

While success in some tech career paths can be closely tied to the major tech giants or FAANG companies, cybersecurity can offer more versatility since it's integrated across almost every industry. Many companies have their own internal cybersecurity teams, for example, which means professionals in the field aren't limited to working at firms specializing in cybersecurity.

Business Insider spoke to six cybersecurity recruiting experts to hear which companies are considered the most powerful names to have on your résumé. Several mentioned that while there are big names in the industry, the right skills and experience are the top indicators of talent.

Recruiters also told BI that what is considered a top name depends largely on the sector of cybersecurity.

"A chemical company would be less interested in someone coming from Meta," said Brent Stokes, director of recruiting at staff company Blue Signal Search. In that case, an industry-specific company like Westlake would be of more interest.

Here's what recruiters said.

Palo Alto Networks

Palo Alto Networks was mentioned by most recruiters BI spoke to. It partners with a number of companies worldwide, including Google, to help them cloud and AI adoption securely.

Janelle Bieler, the head of US tech talent at global tech talent and engineering company Akkodis, said that the company is "focused on complex defense strategies" and is known to operate in a "very active environment" which many employers in the space find attractive.

However, it's worth noting that different companies have different specialties. If a candidate is interested in working on the product side of cybersecurity, Palo Alto is considered a top name, Stokes told BI. If they want to be on the consulting side, then a Big Four firm may be a better fit, he added.

Cisco

Cisco is a leading technology company offering companies software, networking security, and computing solutions. The company's security business has recently experienced significant growth, specifically with products like Cisco Secure Access, a "zero trust" security solution.

Art Zeile, CEO of tech careers marketplace Dice, told BI that big names like Cisco are doing "cutting-edge work when it comes to securing networks of all sizes."

But it's the skills you learned at the job and how you used them that are the most important, he added.

Crowdstrike

Crowdstrike is one of the most well-known companies in the cybersecurity space, and it's used by Big Tech companies like Microsoft.

Last year, Crowdstrike made headlines when a global IT outage resulted in worldwide disruptions to travel, banks, and supermarkets, causing potentially billions of dollars in damage. The company seems to have maintained a strong reputation in the space though, as it made the top of the list for most recruiters BI spoke to.

While the Crowdstrike outage was the kind of incident cybersecurity firms want to avoid, in general, exposure to challenges in the field is considered beneficial for candidates. Clark told BI that "cyber leaders who have walked through the fire" make for the most compelling candidates.

"Someone who has successfully navigated a company through a breach or major security event has invaluable experience and perspective," Clark said.

Federal agencies and contractors

A number of cybersecurity executives BI has spoken to came from government agencies, including the military, prior to joining the corporate world. Some have said that it provided a way to get hands-on experience right out of the gate.

Patricia Karam, founder of employment agency Mission Recruit, told BI that experience with agencies like the National Security Agency or Department of Homeland Security can carry a lot of weight.

"The NSA historically has a tremendous program," Stuart Mitchell, founder and recruiter at Hampton North, told BI.

Additionally, Karam said companies that contract for the Department of Defense, like Raytheon or Lockheed Martin, are also highly regarded for their "threat intelligence and operating in high-compliance environments."

Big Tech

Mitchell told BI that "the real prestige in security is mostly in tech."

"Particularly Netflix, Apple, and Google, have tremendous reputations in security," Mitchell said. "If I could rank it I'd probably say Apple, Netflix, Google."

Microsoft was also mentioned by several of the recruiters BI spoke to. Stokes, at Blue Signal Search, told BI that when a hiring manager sees a candidate from Microsoft or Amazon's AWS, "there's an assumption that the candidate has been vetted, trained, and exposed to mature and complex environments."

However, the big logos aren't everything and Stokes said some hiring managers also want to know that a candidate can wear multiple hats or adapt to a small team environment.

The Big Four consulting firms

Some recruiters BI spoke to said they consider the big consulting firms a strong indicator of solid experience on a cybersecurity résumé. The Big Four references the largest accounting and consulting firms, which are EY, Deloitte, KPMG, and PwC.

Clark, from Blackmere Consulting, said she's seen some candidates come out of the cyber divisions at the major consulting firms, including Deloitte and EY.

"With those firms, a candidate has the opportunity to see the problems in multiple environments," Clark said. "It serves as sort of a crash course on the different types of issues in different industries, regions, tech stacks, etc."

• You probably know Blake Lively from her roles in "Gossip Girl" and "It Ends With Us."
• She's also famous for her standout fashion, which she's worn at the Met Gala, premieres, and more.
• That said, Lively has missed the mark with a handful of her outfits.

In addition to being a Hollywood name and the subject of countless headlines, Blake Lively is also a style star.

The 37-year-old actor has been making fashion statements since the start of her career, from dramatic Met Gala moments to streetwear that pushes the envelope.

And many of her outfits have been stunning — even iconic. Others, however, could have been better.

Here's a look at the best and worst looks she's worn so far.

Blake Lively's red ball gown at the 2018 Met Gala was arguably her best look of all time.

Atelier Versace designed her ornate ensemble for the "Heavenly Bodies: Fashion and the Catholic Imagination" event.

It had a gold corseted bodice embellished with crystals, a long pleated train, and metallic appliqués in intricate patterns all over its full skirt. It took the fashion house more than 600 hours to make.

Lively completed the iconic Met Gala look with a spiked headpiece, Christian Louboutin shoes, and Lorraine Schwartz jewelry.

On the other hand, her "Deadpool & Wolverine" premiere outfit was one of her worst.

Lively walked the red carpet in July 2024 wearing her own version of Deadpool's famous gear.

Atelier Versace designed her form-fitting catsuit, which had long, gloved sleeves, an off-the-shoulder neckline, and black lace embellishments across its shining fabric. She wore it with velvet pumps and statement jewelry.

Though red is definitely one of Lively's colors, the bottom half of the outfit had too much fabric and was bunching around her ankles. The overall look also felt more like a costume than a fashion statement.

Lively stunned in a sparkling blue gown at a 2024 Tiffany & Co. event.

In May 2024, Lively proved there's no better color to wear to a Tiffany & Co. event than blue.

She visited one of the brand's New York City stores that month in a beaded dress made in the 1960s. Its vibrant blue color complemented Lively's blonde hair, and its scalloped pattern showcased its old-school glamour.

The garment came from the vintage bridal shop Happy Isles, while her statement diamond jewels were courtesy of Tiffany & Co.

Her blue suit for a screening of "A Simple Favor" didn't work as well.

She exclusively wore suits during the "A Simple Favor" press tour in September 2018, which was both a smart business decision and the ultimate example of method dressing. Everyone was talking about her fashion.

Unfortunately, the specific set she chose for the film's Paris premiere wasn't her best choice — mainly because the look was ill-fitting.

First, her blue jacket with a black sequin pattern seemed too big. It had sharp shoulder pads that created a square silhouette and long sleeves that covered most of her hands.

Similarly, her matching slacks were so long that they gathered above her ankles. Some tailoring could have greatly improved the look.

The actor borrowed a colorful dress from Britney Spears last summer, and it looked equally pretty on her.

Versace designed the semi-sheer gown that Lively wore to the US premiere of "It Ends With Us" in August 2024.

The dress — originally modeled by Spears during Milan Fashion Week in 2002 — had a single strap that reached across Lively's collarbone, an angled V-shaped slit across the chest, and loose pleats at the bottom of its skirt.

It was also decorated from top to bottom with multicolored sequins in bright shades of pink, purple, blue, green, and yellow.

The dress was fun and timeless, and Lively's choice to wear it only added to its fashion history.

There was one big issue with the ball gown Lively wore to the Copenhagen premiere of "It Ends With Us."

She walked the red carpet in August 2024 while wearing a ball gown from Atelier Versace. Some elements of the gown were pretty, but there was ultimately too much going on.

Its full skirt, for example, was decorated with both an elegant blue pattern and gold detailing. Though it might have worked if paired with a solid bodice, it instead sat below a corset with sheer waist panels and a beaded chest.

The top half of the dress distracted from the garment's glamour and made the outfit appear incohesive.

Lively proved that florals and strapless gowns never go out of style at a UK movie premiere.

Lively walked the white "It Ends With Us" carpet in August 2024 wearing a Tamara Ralph couture gown. The strapless piece hugged her body, was covered in silver sequins, and was decorated with a beaded floral print that extended above the chest.

She also wore a vibrant red coat made with feathers, which added more color and another fun texture to her look.

The statement-making look was memorable and flashy.

The one-piece she sported at a 2023 fashion show appeared dated and needed some tweaks.

She attended the Michael Kors 2023 runway show wearing a tan catsuit from the designer. It had thin straps with a scooped neckline, all-over brown sequins, and flare pants.

The latter part of the garment was too long on Lively, with each pant leg gathering around her feet on the floor.

The garment's neutral color also blended too closely with Lively's skin and hair colors.

• Kasia Kovacs moved to Budapest from the States in her 20s and then to London five years ago.
• She was born to Hungarian and Polish parents in the US, but doesn't plan on moving back.
• Kovacs loves living in London regardless of the relatively high income tax and lower wages.

I'm the daughter of immigrants, born and raised in the US.

Seven years ago, I scrapped the American dream and moved back to the continent my parents left just before I was born.

I lived in Budapest for two years, improving my language skills and connecting with my family in Hungary and Poland. Then, in 2020, I moved to London.

Recently, several other Americans have had a similar idea.

Google searches for "dual citizenship," "expat," and "citizenship by ancestry" spiked the week after Donald Trump won the US election in November.

The UK Home Office released data in March showing that 6,100 US citizens applied for UK citizenship in 2024. 1,700 of the applications came in the last three months of the year, coinciding with Trump's reelection. This marked a significant jump from 2023 when fewer than 5,000 US citizens applied.

I've been in the UK for nearly five years — which means I can apply for British citizenship next year — and I've learned a lot about living as an American emigrant in that time.

Moving to the UK may not be the most financially savvy move

Wages are on average lower in the UK. In spring 2024, the median weekly salary in the US was $1,143, compared to $917 in the UK, according to data from the US Bureau of Labor Statistics and Office for National Statistics, respectively.

My friends ask how I make a smaller salary stretch in the city. London can be expensive if you want to live alone in an fancy area, but it doesn't need to be.

My lifestyle choices keep my costs manageable. I share a flat and walk, or take the bus wherever I go. I've learned which local pubs have the most affordable pints and rarely go to fancy restaurants.

I work in the news industry, and I was lucky enough to find both full-time jobs I've had in London within a few months. Ultimately, I didn't find job hunting more difficult in the UK than in the US. But it helped that I have a right to work in the UK with the pre-settled status I got through my EU citizenship.

There's another big financial factor to consider in the UK: taxes

In the US, you could pay anywhere from 10 to 37% in federal income tax; however, these jumps are incremental. In comparison, income tax ranges from 20 to 45% in the UK and 40% taxation applies to annual income over £51,271, around $65,750.

As an American citizen, I need to pay US tax on my UK income during the years when I don't qualify for the foreign-earned income exclusion. The silver lining to paying double tax is that I don't have to calculate and file my taxes in the UK; they are filed automatically through my employer.

I'm OK with paying the higher income tax rate in the UK because I know a good chunk of my taxes go to a social safety net, including the National Health Service (NHS), education, and welfare services.

I don't want to imply that the UK is a utopia.

For instance, the UK conservative party's austerity measures have hollowed out the NHS, leading to overworked doctors and long wait times. The current Labour government announced significant cuts to the welfare budget in March.

But in my day-to-day life, I appreciate the things my taxes fund: public transportation so I don't need a car, sidewalks, lots of green spaces so movement is integrated into my daily life and public healthcare. I also worry about my safety much less than when I was in the US.

For me, all this makes living in the UK worth it.

My life feels more fun and fulfilling on this side of the Atlantic

People often ask me when I plan to return to the US, the answer is: I don't. I feel like I live a good life here.

I love London. I have a much better work-life balance than in the US, so I can immerse myself in the city's history, parks, and pub culture.

My favorite time of year is summer when the sun appears, and the whole city vibrates with excitement for the European or World Cup football games — soccer to Americans.

I'm also grateful for the ease of travel. I've eaten tapas in Madrid on Thanksgiving, watched the sunrise in the Alps, and lounged in an Italian villa in the summer.

I try to keep my travel costs low by typically booking a budget airline and staying in modest accommodation or with family and friends.

The UK is a worthy travel destination too. There's a comprehensive train system that makes traveling around the country easy, and I often explore walking trails.

These aren't the hikes I'm used to in the US, but there's something charming about a long muddy walk ending with ice cream by the Cornish sea or a hot meal in a Lake District pub.

The key to feeling like you belong abroad is building community

Having lived in three countries during my adult life, I've learned a somewhat unwelcome secret: You must put yourself out there to meet people in a new place, even if it's nerve-racking.

I found some of my closest friends by showing up to meetups solo. I joined the 'London New Girl' Facebook group, attended events through a women's group called New Circle Society, and organized a meetup for fans of the Who Weekly podcast.

Over the years, strangers I've met at those events have become my community. I've grown to believe that cultivating meaningful relationships is a factor of a life well lived. These connections are part of the reason I'm staying put.

My advice for people considering living abroad is don't just think of it as a fresh start but as an opportunity to integrate yourself into another culture and community.

Sometimes, I wonder what life would have been like if I had stayed in the US. I miss my family and friends in America every day.

Truthfully, I feel more at home in the UK than I ever did in the US.

I feel lucky to make this choice — and anyone who can move abroad should acknowledge the value of that opportunity.