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We didn't see our 11-year-old son at a holiday event for hours. We were never worried about him.
- Our family looks forward to a busy holiday event attended by thousands in our town each year.
- We've given the oldest of our four kids more independence, even at this crowded event.
- We use technology and the trust we have in our community to keep our kids safe.
Each year, on the first Saturday of December, our town hosts its annual holiday light-up night to kick off the festive season. Our quaint main street is packed with vendors, goodies, local musicians, and reindeer games. Local businesses sling seasonal cocktails for the grownups and set up craft stations for the kids. The town kicks off the evening by welcoming Santa and Mrs. Claus to the town center where everybody cheers as the massive Christmas tree comes to life with thousands of twinkling lights. If I'm being honest, it's a scene straight out of a holiday movie.
My husband and I have been attending this event for a decade, ever since we relocated to the tiny Pittsburgh borough of Bellevue with infant twins and a toddler in tow. Since our first light-up night, the event has grown substantially β and so has our family. I'll admit it hasn't always been easy helping four kids navigate a main drag packed with a couple of thousand neighbors, but we trudge the two blocks to the center of town religiously every year. It's a chance to hug neighbors, let the kids run free, and celebrate the loving community we are so thankful to be a part of.
We created our village
I often hear other moms bemoan the "loss of the village," and the way modern motherhood can feel insular and lonely. This is true on many levels. Shifts in the fabric of American society have left today's mothers with less support than our moms had, and the 24-hour news cycle has left even more mothers fearful of leaning on their community.
Thankfully, that has not been our experience. While I would like to say we magically found our "village," the truth is that sometimes we have to create one.
It's not easy to lean on neighbors (or strangers), but I've learned over our decade in this little town that people are willing to look out for each other, if you open up your heart and let them.
A few years ago, we briefly lost our youngest child at this very same holiday event. While those moments when she wasn't in our eyesight were terrifying, I knew in my gut during those frantic moments that the adults in our town were looking out for her. As a neighbor I barely knew hoisted my kiddo above the crowd so I could find her, I teared up. This community we are a part of looks out for one another.
Giving our kids independence
Our kids are older now; 13, 11 (twins), and 6. We've given our big three more independence in our walkable town throughout the year. With kid-safe cell phones in hand and kid-friendly debit cards at their fingertips, we trusted our village enough to set them loose on the main street once that giant evergreen was shining brightly at the center of town. While my 13-year-old and one of my 11-year-old twins spent some time with us throughout the evening, our son Ezra disappeared into the festive fray almost immediately. I wasn't surprised. He's extroverted and confident and has never met a festival he didn't love.
For many parents, not seeing their fifth grader for two hours on a dark and chilly evening may induce panic, but this village we've built and come to rely on gave us the confidence to let him test his wings. The location dot on his cell phone let us know he was still at the event, and a few spending notifications told us he was well hydrated and warm, thanks to a pair of LED gloves he purchased from a street vendor.
It seems like our son had a great night
We heard snippets about Ezra's evening from others. Our town librarian heard the DJ say his name at one point, and another friend let us know he helped pass out raffle baskets to the winners at the end of the evening. A fellow parent let me know she told his friend group to move their horseplay away from some younger kids, and they readily complied. I thanked her for being willing to offer guidance when I didn't have eyes on him. "Sure," she said. "I would want you to do the same if you saw my kid being a knucklehead, too." We laughed, but I know she means it.
Once the festivities had concluded, Ezra sent us a text asking if he could help the adults in charge clean up the event. We often say his big personality is paired with an even bigger heart. Of course we said yes.
Once he finally burst through our front door at the end of the evening, brought home by a friend's older cousin, he was cold and exhausted. It was after 10 p.m. and he crashed quickly into bed. I asked him how his night went since we had not seen him for over two hours. "It was fun," he said. "I think I did everything they had to do." Within minutes, he was out cold.
I'm glad we can trust our children β and our town β to do the right thing
A few days later, a local photographer shared a photo album from the festivities. Within an hour I had a dozen text messages telling me to take a look. I opened the link and gasped. There was Ezra, on stage, holding a tambourine. The thousand-watt smile on his face says it all. He had the best night. I have never seen a photo that better encapsulates my son.
Modern parenting is designed to provoke anxiety. From online urban legends and hysteria to a general lack of trust in our neighbors, it's easy to give into the temptation to clip our kids' wings and worry about how the world may harm them.
I know the world is scary. I worry every day about my kids' safety. I worry about gun violence, online bullying, and the general divisiveness and hatred that seems to permeate today's culture. Rather than give into the temptation to shelter them at home, though, I've found strength in leaning on our community and working hard to foster independence in our kids. With a bit of help from modern technology and a whole lot of help from trusted adults, teaching our kids to navigate the world on their own feels like the best possible tool we can give them.
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What Christmas looks like in every state
- People across the US celebrate Christmas differently.
- Drive-thru light displays are popular in Connecticut, Louisiana, and West Virginia.
- Meanwhile, Alabama and Idaho are known for having lavish Christmas trees in front of their capitols.
The song goes, "It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas everywhere you go. " The best part is that Christmas can look a little different as you travel from coast to coast.
Sure, there are traditional symbols like Christmas trees, snowmen, and candy canes, but each state puts its own local twist on the festive celebrations.
Whether you're planning to spend your holiday on the sunny beaches of Hawaii with Shaka Santa and his wife Tutu Mele or ice skating at Rockefeller Center in New York, here's a peek at how each state makes the holidays special.
It's been widely reported that Alabama became the first state to make Christmas a legal holiday in 1836.
These days, the state celebrates with a tree outside the state capitol in Montgomery, Alabama.
In 1952, Con and Nellie Miller set up a trading post outside Fairbanks, Alaska, and called the town North Pole. The Miller family built Santa Claus House, a general goods store there.
In the Arizona desert, some people decorate cacti for the Christmas season.
In 2018, the Associated Press reported that a family in Phoenix built their Christmas tree from a cactus skeleton. They called it a "Phoenix Christmas tree."
Every year, Fayetteville, Arkansas, hosts the "Lights of the Ozarks" Christmas light display.
This year, the display will be up from November 22 to January 1, and according to ExperienceFayetteville.com, it's free to visit every night until 1 a.m.
California is home to the original Disneyland, which hosts several Christmas-themed events during the holiday season.
This year, through January 6, the park will be transformed into a winter wonderland. Even Sleeping Beauty's Castle gets the holiday treatment with wreaths and lights of its own.
Every year, Denver turns into a holiday wonderland for an event known as "Mile High Holidays."
Throughout November and December, the city is decorated with a 110-foot-tall LED light tree, while the botanical garden and zoo are transformed with lights.
In 2021, software company Porch conducted a study that found that people in Connecticut spend the most time decorating the exteriors of their homes, using an average of seven hours and 36 minutes to do so.
One of the most popular houses to visit was that of the Setti family in Norwalk, who decorated their home into a Christmas village for 26 years before retiring in 2014.
Nemours Estate is typically decked with elaborate Christmas decorations in Wilmington, Delaware.
According to theΒ estate's website, visitors can tour the 77-room 20th-century mansion, the Chauffeur's garage, and the gardens, complete with their holiday displays through December 29.
Universal Studios in Orlando transforms for the holidays every year with holiday lights, Christmas trees, and other festive decor.
In the Wizarding World of Harry Potter section, guests can sip hot butterbeer while the Grinch hangs around Seuss Landing.
Every year, Atlanta hosts "Skate the Station," where a large, temporary ice skating rink is installed at Atlantic Station.
This year's rink is in operation through January 15.
Shaka Santa and his wife, Tutu Mele, are fixtures of the holiday season inΒ Honolulu.
Every year, the pair of 21-foot statues are placed in front of city hall or Honolulu Hale. The city is also known for the "Honolulu City Lights" celebration.
Every year, Idaho's state Christmas tree is lit in front of the statehouse in Boise.
According to a local news station, this year's tree is a 36-foot-tall blue spruce that weighs about 3,750 pounds.
ChicagoΒ and Aurora, Illinois, will host the Christkindlmarket this year.
It's the 28th year the market has been held in Chicago, and over those years, it's become a popular attraction for residents looking to buy gifts, ornaments, and food from around the world.
Indianapolis decorates the Soldiers and Sailors Monument with 4,784 Christmas lights to make it look like a giant Christmas tree in an event known as the "Circle of Lights."
Keokuk, Iowa, hosts the "City of Christmas Display of Lights", a light display in Rand Park that visitors can drive through.
About 20,000 cars drive through the park annually to see more than 150 light displays, including the nativity scene, Santa's workshop, reindeer, and elves.
Botanica, The Wichita Gardens, is a public garden that hosts the holiday light show "Illuminations."
"Illuminations" features up to two million lights and has music, carousel rides, treats, and an opportunity to see Santa Claus. This year's display will be available through January 4.
Visitors of Lexington, Kentucky's Triangle Park, can enjoy an ice skating rink through January 20, 2025.
"Celebration in the Oaks" is an annual tradition where the city of New Orleans covers 25 acres of New Orleans City Park in Christmas lights.
The display spans the Park, Botanical Garden, Storyland, and the Carousel Gardens Amusement Park.
Since Maine is known for its lobster, it's fitting that residents build special Christmas trees focused on the sea creature.
In 2018, Rockland, Maine, residents built the world's largest tree out of lobster traps, reaching 40.5 feet. The tree included 155 lobster traps, 180 lobster buoys, and 2,500 lights, News Center Maine reported.
The Hampden neighborhood ofΒ BaltimoreΒ attracts visitors every year thanks to its elaborate Christmas decorations, which are displayed in a display called "Miracle on 34th Street."
Almost all the homes on the block are covered in Christmas lights, candy canes, Santa dolls, and other holiday displays.
Boston transforms during the holiday season, with hundreds of Christmas lights covering the trees in the Public Garden, Copley Square, the Prudential Center, and the Common.
Millions of lights become the focal point at the Detroit Zoo's "Wild Lights" event. According to its website, the zoo features more than 500 immersive displays. Some of the massive light displays include a lion, whale, fox, and snake.
Decorated in various Christmas lights, the Canadian Pacific Holiday Train stops in more than 20 towns throughoutΒ MinnesotaΒ to raise money, awareness, and food donations for local food banks and pantries.
Though visitors can't actually ride the train, they're treated to a concert of holiday songs and popular originals. Some of this year's performers include Alana Springsteen, American Authors, Clerel, and Tiera Kennedy.
While most of the country decorates houses for Christmas, some residents in Mississippi decorate their boats with Christmas lights and other holiday decor.
The boaters show off their festive vessels at the Biloxi Beach Water Boat Parade, culminating in a fireworks show over the water.
Union Station in Kansas City, Missouri, is decorated with Christmas lights, falling snowflakes, a Christmas tree, and toy trains for the holiday season.
People also come to the station to take in the holiday-themed shows, which include piano recitals, pageants, and caroling.
Volunteers in Bigfork, Montana, called the Bigfork Elves, are known for decorating the town yearly.
According to Bigfork.com, the volunteers "deck the town with over 10,000 feet of garland and lights" and have been active in the area for over 40 years.
Residents also gather for a tree-lighting ceremony and host other festive events.
"Christmas at the Cody's" is an annual celebration at the mansion of "Buffalo Bill" and Louisa Cody in North Platte, Nebraska.
The property is part of the Buffalo Bill Ranch State Historical Park, and guests can enjoy Christmas lights, carols, and horse-drawn carriage rides.
In 2019, Business Insider named Las Vegas one of the most festive places to spend the holidays, and the annual Las Vegas Great Santa Run might be part of the reason.
The event draws thousands of people dressed in Old Saint Nick costumes to the city's downtown area to run or walk the course.
Though residents in Connecticut win for most time spent on exterior decorations, New Hampshire residents spend the most time decorating overall, with an average of 17 hours dedicated to the activity, according to Porch.
Loudon, New Hampshire, is also home to the Gift of Lights, a 2.5-mile drive with hundreds of light displays.
Christmas Day looks a bit different for some in New Jersey because they re-enact George Washington's famous crossing of the Delaware River.
The event starts at the Washington Crossing Historic Park in Pennsylvania and ends in Trenton, New Jersey, just as the former president did in 1776.
Every Christmas Eve, the streets leading to the Mesilla town square are lined with paper lanterns.
The square is also decorated in lights, as local choirs sing Christmas tunes, visitors enjoy holiday treats, and a vigil is held for fallen service members of the local fire department.
Rockefeller Center was completed in 1939 and has since become one of New York City's most popular tourist destinations. Millions of peopleΒ visit the Christmas tree every year.
According to NBC, the tree is completed with a 900-pound Swarovski star with 70 spikes, 3 million crystals, and plenty of lights.
According to a 2022 report by the USDA, North Carolina produces the second-most Christmas trees of any state in the US, with more than 3 million trees.
This year, Williston, North Dakota, celebrated its 10th annual Christmas tree lighting ceremony with a 41-foot-tall Colorado Blue Spruce.
In addition to the tree lighting, guests enjoyed a bonfire, music, and fireworks.
"A Christmas Story" was released in 1983 and quickly became a cult classic during the holidays.
The house seen in the movie is still standing in Cleveland, and across the street, there's a museum that houses props, costumes, and other artifacts from the film.
Every year, the Heart of Oklahoma Chamber of Commerce hosts the Purcell Christmas Parade in Purcell, Oklahoma.
One key detail for parade participants: No one can dress up as Santa Claus β that responsibility belongs to the Heart of Oklahoma Chamber of Commerce.
Beating out North Carolina for Christmas tree production is Oregon.
According to the USDA, the "Beaver State" produced more than 4.5 million Christmas trees in 2022 to earn the top spot in the country.
In Philadelphia's Love Park, you'll find the Christmas Village, an open-air market with small business owners' booths, a Ferris wheel, treats, and the second-annual Festival of Trees fundraiser for the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia.
Newport is known for its famous mansions like The Breakers, The Elms, and Marble House.
The Preservation Society of Newport County welcomes visitors every year inside these homes to tour the Christmas decorations. You will find wreaths, poinsettias, white candles, and elaborate Christmas trees inside.
The Poinsettia Christmas Parade has been a Greenville, South Carolina, tradition for over 75 years.
This year, the best walking group award was given to the Bike Walk Greenville "Poinsettia Pedalers and Pedestrians."
According to Travel South Dakota, the state's "Christmas at the Capitol" tradition started in 1981 with 12 Christmas trees and now features almost 100 trees decorated by different organizations, cities, and businesses.
Business Insider's Priyanka Rajput reported that the Gaylord Opryland Resort in Nashville has hosted "A Country Christmas" for 41 years.
To celebrate the holidays, the hotel prepares for six weeks to decorate the space with everything from life-size ice sculptures and hand-tied ribbons to elaborate Christmas trees.
The AT&T Performing Arts Center in Dallas hosted the "Reliant Lights Your Holiday" festival earlier this month. The free event included live music, local vendors, a drone show, fireworks, cookie decorating, and more.
Founded in 1847, the Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square (previously known as the Mormon Tabernacle Choir) tours the world for most of the year but returns to Salt Lake City for its annual Christmas concert.
This year's guest artist is Tony Award winner Ruthie Ann Miles.
House Beautiful named Woodstock, Vermont, one of 2024's "most charming Christmas towns" in the US.
One of its attractions is Wassail Weekend, a festival with a parade, Christmas tree lighting, caroling, ice skating, and more.
Williamsburg, Virginia, is known for having a variety of festive activities, including markets, fireworks shows, performances, and Busch Gardens Christmas Town.
Like other major cities, Seattle hosts an annual Christmas market with artisans, food, drinks, and more. The city also participates in SantaCon, a bar crawl where people dress up as Santa.
The "Oglebay Winter Festival of Lights" dates back to 1985 and takes place in Wheeling, West Virginia. Today, it includes more than 100 light displays across 300 acres,Β WBOY-TVΒ reported, and this year's display also features lights choreographed to music.
At the Mid-Continent Railway Museum in North Freedom,Β Wisconsin, visitors can ride two holiday-themed trains: the Santa Express and the Holiday Flyer.
According to the museum's website, passengers aboard the Santa Express will take a 55-minute ride and receive a visit from Santa and a small gift, while passengers on the Holiday Flyer will receive hot chocolate and treats.
The Jackson Hole Town Square is famous for its arch made of antlers.
After Thanksgiving, the city holds an event β with Santa, cookies, candies, and carols β to watch the antlers light up with Christmas lights for the first time in the season.
I left NYC after 20 years so I could live near Disney World. Florida's been great despite some big drawbacks.
- I relocated from New York City to Florida to be closer to one of my favorite places, Disney World.
- I visit the parks at least three times a week and love spending time with my friends there.
- I'm still adjusting to the severe storms and dealing with a little homesickness.
As someone who lived in New York City for over 20 years, moving to Florida was a significant change.
I live about 15 minutes away from Disney World, and though I love visiting the parks, I definitely miss some things about NYC.
Here are a few of the best and worst parts of my move.
One great thing about living so close to Disney World is that I can go to the parks whenever I want, as long as reservations are available for annual passholders.
I usually visit three or four times a week because the parks bring me so much happiness.
I enjoy meeting the characters, so if I'm having a hard day and want to see Mickey Mouse or a princess, I don't have to commute very far.
Most of the friends I made during my time in the Disney College Program in 2018 now live in Florida.
Since moving, I've met with them to watch the parades, visit characters, and eat snacks in the parks.
It's nice to go to the parks, enjoy each other's company, and not feel rushed during every experience.
The creative snacks are one of my favorite parts of visiting Disney World.
I love trying the different cupcakes, brownies, and Mickey crisped-rice treats that celebrate holidays like Halloween, Christmas, and Father's Day.
I often enjoy the Mickey ice-cream sandwiches and bars, especially when the heat is unbearable.
I was born and raised in New York City, so I was taught not to make eye contact or say hello to most people when walking on the street.
One of the first things I noticed when I moved to Florida was how friendly many people were, especially the staff at Disney World.
Whenever I pass by people at my apartment complex or in the parks, a wave or a "hello" is often involved.
Though this initially felt strange, I've become more comfortable interacting with strangers.
I never thought I'd be able to see Magic Kingdom's fireworks from my apartment, but now I can.
Though I don't have a complete view of the shows, I see at least a couple of magical fireworks each night.
I thought I knew what heavy rain was like living in New York, but I didn't realize how extreme tropical storms and hurricanes could be until I moved to Florida.
Although New York has been hit directly by a handful of hurricanes in the past few years, Florida is the most hurricane-prone state in the US.
The storms in Florida can get pretty extreme. When I had to evacuate my apartment complex and ride out Hurricane Ian, my first big Florida storm, I chose to stay at Disney's Wilderness Lodge.
It was a frightening experience, but I thought the park employees did a great job ensuring guests were as comfortable as possible.
Still, I try to stay on top of extreme weather warnings and upcoming storms more than ever now that I'm in Florida.
Florida is known for its high temperatures and strong sun rays, so I apply sunscreen much more often than I did in New York.
Many of the attractions and shows at the theme parks are outdoors, so if I forget my sunscreen, I get a harsh sunburn that lasts for several days.
After living in New York for about 20 years, I grew accustomed to the taste of tap water.
Since I made drinking tap water a habit, I usually bring my reusable water bottles with me when I visit the theme parks.
However, I find that Florida's tap water doesn't taste as great.
I moved to Florida with my sister but often miss my parents and family back in New York.
It's hard knowing I can't take a 40-minute train ride to see my parents on the weekends like I did in college.
It's nice when my parents do come to visit, though.
This story was originally published on January 16, 2024, and most recently updated on December 23, 2024.