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I booked a $5,910 balcony cabin for a 7-day adults-only cruise. The 225-square-foot room screamed luxury.

A composite image of the author in sunglasses smiles in front of cruise ship and a bed with a white comforter and a red throw blanket is in front of floor-to-ceiling windows, with red and blue sheer curtains. The sun setting over the ocean is seen through the curtains.
Business Insider's reporter booked a sea terrace stateroom on a Virgin Voyages cruise.

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  • On an adults-only cruise with Virgin Voyages, I booked a 225-square-foot sea terrace room.
  • Starting at $844 a night, the room has a balcony and a queen-sized bed that transforms into a couch.
  • With a rainfall shower and smart controls for mood lighting and entertainment, it felt luxurious.

For seven mornings in a row, I took rainfall showers, prepped for the day in front of a mirror with an iridescent glow, and kicked back in a roomy hammock overlooking the Mediterranean Sea — all in a 250-square-foot cabin.

In the summer of 2023, I took my first adults-only cruise with Virgin Voyages, a luxury cruise line reserved for grown-ups.

For the seven-day Mediterranean adventure aboard Virgin Voyages' Valiant Lady ship, I slept in a cabin with a sea terrace. My room was so glamorous that I spent more time in my cabin than anticipated.

The cruise sailed round-trip from Barcelona to ports in Italy and France. It had a starting rate of $5,910 for a weeklong stay for two people, a representative for Virgin Voyages told Business Insider.

While this ship isn't sailing the same itinerary in 2025, the room is still available on all Virgin Voyages cruise ships.

Here's a look at every detail that made it worth the price.

Virgin Voyages' Valiant Lady ship has 1,408 cabins and suites. My room was toward the back of deck 12.
The end of a cruise ship come out of the left with the ocean on the right. There's a mountain range and cloudy skies in the background
The back of the ship docked in Marina di Carrara.

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I booked a third-tier stateroom with a balcony — a step above sea-view cabins, which only have a window, and two steps above an interior room with no view.

The room was 225 square feet, including the balcony. I thought the cabin made great use of the tiny space while including luxury details.
A bed with a navy headboard, white sheets, and white and red pillows as well as a red bolded blanket at the bottom seen from the side in front of a large window with red and blue curtains. There's a mountain TV on a wooden-planed wall to the left  and a wooden side table next to the bed.
A wide view of the stateroom.

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Inside, there was a queen-sized bed, a desk, a bathroom, and plenty of hidden storage compartments. Considering the room's small size, I was surprised by the ample floor space. I never felt cramped in my cabin.

The bathroom at the front of the cabin was stocked with toiletries and had storage spaces to keep the counter free of clutter.
Left: A bathroom with a toilet on the left and a sink on the right. The wall behind the sink is a mirror.
The bathroom had clever storage, toiletries, and a rainfall showerhead.

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The bathroom felt luxurious thanks to a rainfall shower head.

Across from the bathroom, a clever curtain hid the closet. Inside, I spotted a shelf with two empty bins for extra storage and a cabinet holding emergency life vests, towels, a safe, and drawers I filled with clothing.

Next to the closet, the desk against the wall had an ottoman tucked underneath it. I thought this made the room feel bigger.
A white desk with a mirror above it and a lamp on top. There's a red cylinder-shaped ottoman below it
The stateroom's desk.

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The circular mirror was layered over iridescent glass, which made getting ready feel like a luxurious experience.

Beneath the desk, I spotted a hidden mini fridge, which I used to keep my drinks cold.

At the back of the room, there was a comfortable queen-sized bed. Next to it, a thin nightstand was light enough to move around the room as needed.
A bed with a navy headboard, white sheets, and white and red pillows as well as a red bolded blanket at the bottom seen from the side in front of a large window with red and blue curtains. There's a mountain TV on a wooden-planed wall to the left.
The bed is at the back of the cabin.

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I learned from the Virgin Voyages app that crew members could transform the bed into a couch upon request. This made the cabin feel more like a living room during the day.

I didn't have to leave my bed to change the lighting or close the curtains.
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The author uses the tablet to watch a movie.

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The cabin also had an in-room tablet with entertainment and smart controls. From "Hangover" to "Photoshoot," different settings on the tablet changed the mood lighting around the room.

I thought the best part of the cabin was the balcony. It had a table and chairs as well as a large, netted hammock.
Left: A balcony with a clear barrier. There are two gray chairs across from each other with a small circular table in the middle. Right: A red hammock hung up on the right side of a balcony. There's a metal chair on the left.
A hammock, two chairs, and a small table on the balcony.

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I spent a lot of time on my balcony during the voyage. From fresh air to sunset views, I thought it was totally worth upgrading to a private outdoor space.

With multipurpose furniture and plenty of storage, I thought the 225-square-foot room was just big enough to keep two cruisers comfortable.
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The author enjoys the Virgin Voyages cabin.

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I traveled with a buddy on this cruise, and we felt like we had enough space for the two of us. I'd definitely book a sea terrace cabin with Virgin Voyages again. I'd also recommend it to any adult travelers who want to feel wrapped in luxury while at sea.

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15 bizarre creatures from the bottom of the ocean that look like aliens

Three grayish fishes with red, frowning mouths and wide flat noses
A tiro of blobfish on display in 2022.

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  • Sea creatures have adapted to help them thrive in extreme environments.
  • Unusual features allow them to live thousands of feet below the surface.
  • Underwater robots give researchers a glimpse at some of these elusive, fascinating animals.

Ghosts, goblins, spiders, and wolves don't just show up in fairytales. Some deep-sea creatures are named after frightening or mythical creatures thanks to their eerie appearances.

However, strange snouts, enormous eyes, and sharp teeth all help these animals survive the cold, dark depths of the ocean. So much is unknown about the deep sea, and these unusual adaptations can teach scientists more about what life is like thousands of feet beneath the waves.

Scientists need remotely operated vehicles to capture images and video of some of these species. Watching them in their natural habitat offers insight into the behavior of fish, cephalopods, and crustaceans that don't often surface.

Here are 15 bizarre ocean dwellers that show just how mysterious much of our own planet still is.

Known as a living fossil, the frilled shark has retained some of the features of its ancient ancestors.
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A frilled shark found by a Japanese fisherman in 2007.

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Decorative-looking gills inspired this animal's name. With its prehistoric-looking appearance, the frilled shark hasn't changed much in several million years. Biologists study them to learn more about how sharks evolved particular traits.

Though they're spread throughout the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans, they're rarely spotted, though fishers do catch them.

What's most unusual about this shark is the way it reproduces. Females give birth to live young after a 3.5-year pregnancy, one of the longest known gestations of any vertebrates, according to a 2020 study.

Growing to at least 6 feet long, these predators primarily prey on squid and fish.

Hagfish consume the decaying carcasses of other sea creatures by burrowing into them with tooth-like structures.
A pinkish, tube-like animal with a circular mouth and curled tail
A hagfish being researched at Chapman University.

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There are estimated to be 76 species of hagfish, some living 5,600 feet below the surface. Although they're fish, they are also known as slime eels because of the goop their bodies produce to ward off predators, according to Chapman University.

Researchers are exploring ways the gel-like substance could be used in industrial or medical applications, including healing burns.

Certain species of the jawless fish can grow to 4 feet long, while others are only a few inches.

Sharp, canine-like teeth explain why this species is known as the Atlantic wolffish.
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The Atlantic wolffish in a rocky environment.

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Typically feeding on scallops, hermit crabs, and sea urchins, this creature has several rows of pointy teeth, some protruding from its mouth. A powerful bite helps it break through hard shells.

You'll find the Atlantic wolffish along North America's Atlantic Coast. Preferring chillier water and rocky areas, it lives as deep as 1,640 feet. To survive frigid temps, they make a special kind of antifreeze so ice doesn't form in their bodies, according to a 2007 study.

Its eel-like body grows to around 3 feet long, though it can be up to 2 feet longer. Other names for the wolffish include the ocean catfish and wolf eel.

The goblin shark can have more than 100 teeth in its mouth.
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A goblin shark caught off the coast of New South Wales, Australia.

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You can identify goblin sharks, a rarely seen bottom-dwelling species, by the shape of their snouts, which are long and flat.

Inside their mouths is a mix of spiky, grooved teeth and flat teeth. There can be as many as 53 in the top jaw and 62 in the lower, according to the Florida Museum of Natural History.

When it chows down on bony fish, crustaceans, and squid, the shark uses a method called slingshot feeding. At the lightning-fast rate of almost 7 miles per hour, they protrude their jaws and snatch their prey. Scientists first reported observing the behavior in a 2016 paper.

A Japanese spider crab can weigh up to 44 pounds.
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A Japanese spider crab on display in 2012.

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Native to the Pacific Ocean, the Japanese spider crab grows up to 15 inches wide with legs that extend to 13 feet, according to Smithsonian Ocean. It's one of the largest known arthropods, a group of invertebrates that also includes lobsters, spiders, and insects.

Often, these crabs are found missing one or more of their spindly legs. Instead of hunting, they generally scavenge for food, drifting along the seafloor instead of swimming.

Their lifespan remains a mystery, but some estimates say they could live as long as 50 to 100 years.

Vampyroteuthis infernalis, the vampire squid's scientific name, means "vampire squid from hell."
A red squid with a translucent webbing connecting its arms
A red vampire squid seen in 2004.

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This cephalopod is neither a squid nor an octopus but has traits of both, occupying its own separate taxonomy or scientific classification.

Found over 2,000 feet down in the inky depths of the mesopelagic zone, the vampire squid doesn't feed on blood. Instead, this creature subsists on marine snow, organic material that falls to the ocean floor as dead animals decay.

The cephalopod gets its name from the webbing that connects its arms, creating the appearance of a cloak similar to something hanging in Dracula's closet.

At 12 inches, it's about twice as long as a typical sub sandwich. A small size doesn't mean it's defenseless. When predators approach, the vampire squid puffs out a cloud of bioluminescent mucus.

A bioluminescent growth on the anglerfish's head lures prey to its death.
A maroon-and-gray speckled fish with a string-like appendage emerging from the top of its head
An anglerfish specimen on display at the Hong Kong Science Museum in 2008.

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You can find this type of fish practically all over the globe. There are more than 200 species of anglerfish, coming in a variety of shapes and sizes. Some swim in coral reefs, while others stay far from sunlight in the ocean's midnight zone.

Only females possess the iconic, bioluminescent apparatus. Sometimes researchers refer to it as a fishing rod, which includes its own lure. Part of the dorsal fin extends from the head, with a tip of glowing bacteria that invites squids, worms, and other animals to get a little closer. That's when the anglerfish suctions in its feast.

Meanwhile, when some species reproduce, the male permanently attaches to the female as a parasite, according to Yale News.

Due to their long, tapered bodies, grenadiers are known as rattails.
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A grenadier seen near Puerto Rico in 2015.

NOAA OKEANOS EXPLORER Program, Oceano Profundo 2015; Exploring Puerto Rico's Seamounts, Trenches, and Troughs

Grenadiers are a family of fish containing over 300 species. Their range is worldwide in the bathyal and abyssal zones, as deep as 13,100 feet.

They skim above the seafloor, and some researchers believe they've adapted several traits, like gelatinous tissue and less dense muscles, to increase buoyancy at those depths.

Gigantic eyes help these fish spot bioluminescent prey in the darkened waters. If they aren't able to catch their dinner, many species will scavenge, sniffing out decaying animals.

The ghost shark bears an uncanny resemblance to Zero, the dog from "The Nightmare Before Christmas."
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A long-nosed chimaera seen in the Gulf of Mexico in 2017.

NOAA Office of Ocean Exploration and Research, Gulf of Mexico 2017

Like sharks and rays, ghost sharks, also known as chimaera, are cartilaginous fish. A protruding snout detects electric fields and movement as they hunt for prey in the sand. Near their dorsal fin, a venomous spine provides protection from predators.

Fossil evidence shows that chimera have been around for millions of years. The earliest specimen, a skull, was unearthed in South Africa and dated to about 280 million years ago, according to UChicago News. Their ancestors split off from sharks nearly 400 million years ago.

Scientists have found over a dozen new chimaera species in recent decades but worry that the fish will go extinct before they have a chance to learn more about them, The New York Times reported in 2020.

The sarcastic fringehead is an aggressive big mouth.
A fish with a wide-open mouth on the seafloor
A sarcastic fringehead opens wide.

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Due to its frilly forehead and tendency to get irritable when anything approaches, researchers dubbed this fish the sarcastic fringehead, The New York Times reported in 2022.

Native to the Pacific Ocean near California and Mexico, it's a kind of tube blenny, a type of small fish that takes over abandoned worm tubes. Fringeheads have also been known to take up residence in discarded soda cans, according to AAAS.

Though they're usually only 3 to 8 inches, their fluorescent-rimmed mouths can open enormously wide. It's a little like when the Dilophosaurus dinosaur expands its neck frill in "Jurassic Park." Researchers think this display acts as a warning to members of its own species.

The barreleye has a see-through, fluid-filled head.
A fish with a transparent head through which two green balls, its eyes, are seen
A barreleye fish spotted in 2004.

Monterey Bay Aquarium Research Institute

Scientists first described the barreleye in 1939, taking note of its light-sensitive eyes with vibrant green lenses. At the time, they thought the fish could only see what was directly above it.

Decades later, researchers at the Monterey Bay Aquarium Research Institute discovered that its large, tubular eyes could actually rotate. This ability allows them to look upward for potential prey or face forward to see what it is eating. Yellow pigment in the eyes helps them distinguish between sunlight and bioluminescence, making them better able to spot food.

Barreleyes may sneak up on siphonophores and nab some of their prey, researchers told The Guardian in 2022. The transparent shield may protect their eyes from their prey's whirling tentacles.

An online poll called the blobfish the "world's ugliest animal."
Three grayish fishes with red, frowning mouths and wide flat noses
A tiro of blobfish on display in 2022.

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A 2013 poll conducted by a British organization called the Ugly Animal Preservation Society gave the "world's ugliest animal" title to the blobfish. It belongs to the fathead sculpin family, a group of tadpole-esque fish that dwells in the Atlantic, Pacific, and Indian Oceans at between 330 and 9,200 feet.

When a blobfish is on land, gelatinous fluid under its skin droops like melting Jell-O. Fathoms below the sea, the water gives support and structure to the goo, making the blobfish look more fish-like.

Not only does the fish appear less strange underwater, but its jelly-like fluid helps it maintain depth without the aid of a swim bladder. Blobfish lack this gas-filled bladder, which some other fish use for buoyancy. 

An apex predator of the deep, the deepwater lizardfish can be cannibalistic.
A blue fish with a big eye, frilly fins, and sharp teeth
A deepsea lizardfish seen during the NOAA Windows to the Deep 2018 expedition.

NOAA Office of Ocean Exploration and Research, Windows to the Deep 2018

Two species, Bathysaurus mollis and Bathysaurus ferox, make up this genus. B. molis have been known to travel as deep as 16,085 feet.

Deepwater lizardfish can grow to be more than 2 feet long. Large eyes and a mouthful of teeth mean their likely ambush predators, National Geographic reported in 2017.

While much is unknown about these fish, they do eat their own species, according to NOAA.

The slender snipe eel can grow to be at least 4 feet long, but it weighs only a few ounces.
An eel-like animal with what looks like a duck bill
A snipe eel seen during a 2017 NOAA Gulf of Mexico 2017 expedition dive.

NOAA Office of Ocean Exploration and Research, Gulf of Mexico 2017

The slender snipe eel can grow to a length of 4 feet, with around 750 vertebrae packed into its ribbon-like body. Thanks to a long, narrow snout, its jaws resemble a bird's beak.

Scientists aren't entirely sure how this eel catches its prey, but they speculate that the process involves swimming with its mouth open. Crustaceans' antennae may catch on the snipe eel's inward-curving teeth, preventing escape.

Making its home in the open ocean, this fish is fairly enigmatic because scientists haven't had many opportunities to study it.

The teeth on Sloane's Viperfish create a cage, locking other fish inside.
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A Sloane's viperfish observed on NOAA's Papahānaumokuākea ROV and Mapping expedition.

NOAA Ocean Exploration, 2025 Beyond the Blue

The ocean's mesopelagic zone is also known as the twilight zone, roughly 650 to 3,300 feet below the surface. It's where Sloane's viperfish goes to hunt. While viperfish spend much of their time thousands of feet deep, they also vertically migrate, rising closer to the surface when it's time to feed.

Topping out at about 10 inches, they can gulp down larger animals by unhinging their jaws and expanding their stomachs. The predator uses its icicle-looking teeth to trap crustaceans and lanternfish. Researchers think these fish can do days without eating, especially after consuming prey that's larger than they are.

On their undersides, light-producing organs called photophores shine blueish green and yellow. It helps disguise them from predators below, while a bioluminescent lure may also draw in prey.

Sources for this article include the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration; Monterey Bay Aquarium Research Institute; the Natural History Museum, London; the Australian Museum; the Smithsonian Institution; Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution; the Marine Science Institute at the University of Texas at Austin; Hawaii's Division of Aquatic Resources; the Alaska Department of Fish and Game; the New Hampshire Fish and Game Department; the Maine Department of Marine Resources Recreational Fisheries; and the Georgia Aquarium.

This article was first published in April 2018 and was updated on May 27, 2025.

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5 pieces of popular career advice that you should ignore

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Climbing the corporate ladder isn't the only way to succeed in your career.

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  • Some career advice we've heard over the years doesn't hold up.
  • You don't always need to find your passion or ascend the corporate ladder to enjoy your work.
  • As some employers are reluctant to hire, it's important to know what advice to follow.

Your boss might not want to know the real you after all.

One of the many bits of career advice that emerged years ago and has somehow stuck around is the idea that we should bring our whole selves to work.

That doesn't always work, and it's looking a bit threadbare with age. Now that temperatures are rising, consider office attire:

"If you love wearing tight little leather outfits that are strapped on, I don't want to see that," said Margie Warrell, a leadership consultant and author of the book "The Courage Gap."

"That's not appropriate," she said.

The whole-self idea is just one example of bumper-sticker wisdom that was meant to guide us through our careers but often doesn't hold up.

It's especially important now that caution about the prospects for the economy is causing some employers to slow or pause hiring. That hesitation is also making it harder for people who want to change jobs. So, not screwing up at work is all the more important.

Here are five bits of trite work advice — and what to consider instead.

Follow your passion

The impulse to align your work with what you love makes sense. Yet, feeling like you have to "find your passion" can also set you up to fail.

"That's probably as vague as it gets," said Jochen Menges, a professor of human resource management and leadership at the University of Zurich. "It's not an actionable goal."

He told Business Insider that a better approach would be to set goals around the emotion you want to feel in your work, like pride, even though you won't necessarily experience that every day.

"If I align my emotional needs more with what I do — with my career prospects — then I'm a lot better off," he said. That, in turn, will accelerate your career, Menges said.

Climb the corporate ladder

On a ladder, you can only go up or down.

The idea of scaling a corporate hierarchy has become outdated for many workers, Christian Tröster, an Academy of Management scholar and a professor of leadership and organizational behavior at Germany's Kühne Logistics University, told BI.

Instead, he said, people might want to think of what he called a "protean" career — one that changes shape over time.

Tröster said that rather than ascending a ladder, a better aim for many workers would be to become "psychologically successful."

"The ultimate goal of your career is feeling proud and accomplished," he said.

One practical reason you might not want to climb the ladder is that a push among some corporate leaders for "flatter" organizational structures — and an elimination of middle management — can mean there aren't as many rungs for ambitious workers to grab onto.

"Careers today are no longer linear," Warrell said. Instead, workers might opt for a lateral move, a side gig, or a so-called portfolio career — where you take on multiple jobs to earn a living while maintaining flexibility.

Warrell said workers who chart their own paths are often more fulfilled and successful than those who try to grind their way up an org chart.

Don't job-hop

Career advice once often included the suggestion that workers avoid changing jobs for at least a year to avoid looking like they weren't committed to an organization.

While a string of frequent job changes can raise concerns among prospective employers, Warrell said prohibitions on moving around often have softened.

She said "smart" job changes — even in quick succession — that indicate you're taking on extra responsibility and developing new skills can add polish, not tarnish, to a résumé.

"It can be seen as a sign of ambition, adaptability — not instability," Warrell said.

Focus on tech skills

Technical mastery — especially in hot areas like artificial intelligence — can take you far and often leave you with your pick of jobs, yet it's not the only route to career success.

AI is already taking on some coders' work, for example. Salesforce CEO Marc Benioff has said the company might not hire software engineers in 2025 because of its success in using AI agents to boost productivity.

In surveys, employers often say they're after so-called soft skills — abilities like communication and teamwork.

Menges said one reason soft skills are important is that humans will often be needed to evaluate what AI produces.

To help do that, he said, workers will need to rely in part on emotion for guidance. Menges said that in the 20th century, workers were often told to sequester their feelings in the workplace.

"Now, you've got to bring those emotions back because whatever AI does needs evaluation, and that evaluation comes down to how we feel about what appears on our screens," he said.

Bring your whole self to work

While it might have been well-intentioned, critics of the idea of showing up at work as the unvarnished version of yourself have long found it problematic.

Business leaders from Google's Sundar Pichai to venture capitalist Marc Andreessen have pushed back on the concept.

Ella F. Washington, a professor of practice at Georgetown University, previously told BI a better way to think about the idea is to bring your whole professional self to work.

That might mean putting aside your politics or working with people you might not like. Or, Warrell said, it could mean pushing through a bad mood.

"If one part of your whole self is that you're short-tempered and grumpy in the morning, don't bring that self to work," she said.

Do you have a story to share about your job hunt or career? Contact this reporter at [email protected].

An earlier version of this story appeared on March 3, 2025.

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My 79-year-old wife was just accepted into Oxford. My job now is to figure out how to support her — financially and emotionally.

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  • At 79, my wife, Susan, has been accepted into Oxford University.
  • I'm trying to support her emotionally because this will not be easy.
  • I'm also trying to figure out how to finance her dreams, but it'll all be worth it.

After 25 years as a successful piano teacher, my wife, Susan, decided to go back to school for a master's degree in music theory — at 79 years old.

When I married Susan eight years ago, I knew she was a gifted teacher, one who puts in the hours needed to do her best and who genuinely cares about every student.

But then last year, Susan started to explore ways she could learn more about music and how she wanted to return home to the UK from Canada.

Almost on a lark, she applied to the oldest university in the English-speaking world: Oxford. In March, word came back that Susan had been accepted at the university that most British students dream of attending.

We couldn't be more excited, but her 80th birthday is fast approaching, and the road ahead is not easy.

Being a student at 79 will come with challenges

Susan has always been an accomplished woman. She studied the piano from the age of 5, played cello as a teenager in the National Youth Orchestra, and became a successful animator. She put her education on hold to raise a family and went back to school in Canada in her 50s.

Now, returning to university after 25 years as a self-employed piano teacher will most likely be difficult for Susan.

As a 79-year-old, completing assignments will take longer, and she can't pull all-nighters like younger students. She has to accept that seven or eight hours a day of school work will be the limit for her. Resting in between her lessons will be the most important thing for her.

Susan also has to manage her other commitments, such as doctor's appointments, a daily gym workout, and stopping for a bottle of wine on some evenings.

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Oxford University.

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I'm trying to hold everything else together

My job is to support Susan through this period. I will focus on cooking, cleaning, and shopping. I will also do the laundry, watch the bills, and make sure that we have paper and toner for the printer. When it comes to her schoolwork, I'll be a sounding board, a proofreader, and an editor.

At times, when the frustration seems too much, I take the brunt of the anger and doubt.

She often asks me, "Am I too old? Do I want to work in an academic setting?" At times, she even asks, "Will I even be around long enough to finish a degree?"

Those are difficult questions to answer, but I remind her of the sheer exhilaration I see in her when doing this work. I can see it when she suddenly learns a new idea and excitedly shares it with me. I can see that Susan was born to be an academic, to do this research, and to make these discoveries.

We're still figuring out how to afford this dream

Oxford won't be cheap. We both have small pensions, retirement savings, and income from teaching and writing. We also know it would be foolish to throw everything into chasing this one incredible opportunity.

That's why I've set up a GoFundMe to raise money to make this journey possible.

I'm confident that we'll find a way to make it happen. I know it will be tight, and there will be struggles, but to see Susan back home in Britain and to see her fulfill her dream of studying at Oxford will fulfill my own dream of seeing Susan proud, successful, and happy.

Now, she will get to spend her 80th birthday at one of the most prestigious universities in the world.

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No, AOC is not worth millions of dollars

Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez
Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez owns up to $46,000 in assets — and has at least $15,000 in student loan debt — according to her most recent financial disclosure. She makes $174,000 a year.

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  • People are making false claims about AOC's net worth. One viral post said she's worth $29 million.
  • The congresswoman disclosed she owned less than $50,000 in assets in 2023.
  • She also reports that she has student-loan debt.

People are making false claims about Democratic Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez's net worth again.

A viral post from Ted Nugent, the outspoken conservative musician, says that the New York congresswoman is worth $29 million. It's not the first time this has happened — Ocasio-Cortez is a frequent subject of misinformation about politicians' net worths.

According to the latest publicly available information, the congresswoman reported that she owns less than $50,000 in assets and has between $15,000 and $50,000 in student loan debt. Like other rank-and-file members of the House and Senate, her annual salary is $174,000.

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— Ted Nugent (@TedNugent) May 24, 2025

"I am not even worth $1 million. Or a half million," Ocasio-Cortez wrote in February, responding to a since-deleted post claiming she made tens of millions of dollars. "I am one of the lowest net worth members of Congress, trade no individual stock, and take no outside income."

Forbes estimated Ocasio-Cortez's net worth last year at about $125,000 with most of her wealth in a Thrift Savings Plan — a 401(k)-style investment vehicle for government employees that doesn't have to be listed in financial disclosures.

The Forbes estimate was based on the assumption she's been putting 5% away and getting matching funds — putting her account at just over $100,000 this year.

You can look this information up yourself

Disclosures filed by House members and senators are available online. They are required to file these documents annually and include information about lawmakers' assets, outside income, debts, and other agreements.

For example, here's the "Assets" portion of Ocasio-Cortez's latest financial disclosure, which was filed in August 2024 and covers all of 2023.

Ocasio-Cortez owned assets worth between $3,000 and $46,000 in 2023.
Ocasio-Cortez owned assets worth between $3,000 and $46,000 in 2023, according to the disclosure.

Clerk of the US House of Representatives

It shows four accounts, totaling a maximum of $46,000. The congresswoman reports that she does not own individual stocks and has no outside sources of income.

Sometimes, the disclosures contain interesting nuggets of information. For example, her most recent disclosure shows that trips she took to South America and East Asia in 2023 were paid for by a foundation and a think tank, respectively.

In 2022, she disclosed receiving an engagement ring from her fiancé worth slightly more than $3,000.

While there's a widespread notion that members of Congress are enriching themselves through corruption the reality is generally more mundane. Most often, it's things like book deals that allow lawmakers to make extra cash on the side.

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What did tech CEOs get for pivoting toward Trump?

Donald Trump shaking the hand of Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang at a White House event, April 2025
Tech CEOs like Nvidia's Jensen Huang have been investing time and money to make Donald Trump happy. Results have been mixed.

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  • Tech CEOs pivoted hard, and publicly, toward Donald Trump this year.
  • Sometimes, it looks like they're not getting anything for their time and money.
  • But it's more accurate to say Trump is helping them on some things — and fighting them on others.

Remember when all those tech CEOs lined up to give Donald Trump money and take photos with him?

They're not getting much for their efforts: Trump has frequently snubbed tech, or worse, since taking office.

That's a fairly standard take this spring, and we have been seeing a new round of it in the past few days, prompted by recent assessments of tech moguls and their relationships with Trump.

The New York Times points out that Apple's Tim Cook, who figured out how to manage Trump during his first administration, is now facing serious tariff trouble. And Bloomberg Businessweek reports that despite Mark Zuckerberg's ostentatiously pro-Trump pivot, Trumpworld remains suspicious of all things Meta — and notes that the federal government is still trying to break the company up.

All of which is true.

It's just that, as with many things Trump, you can't consistently sum up his attitude toward tech. Sometimes he's beating up the industry — and sometimes he's sticking up for it. And sometimes he changes his mind.

It's been a consistent contradiction.

For instance: The Trump administration has repeatedly yelled at Europe about fines and other punishments levied against US tech giants — something that's been a big focus for Zuckerberg and his peers.

And while Trump has once again been saying Apple will face tariffs unless it makes its iPhones in the US — despite overwhelming skepticism that this is plausible — that doesn't mean he'll keep saying it in the future. In April, for instance, Trump's administration removed impending tech tariffs on Apple — and then insisted they could return, all in one weekend.

The Times also says that Trump's recent vow to levy 25% tariffs on Apple comes after he brought up that Tim Cook didn't join him on his recent tour of the Middle East.

On the one hand, that's a bummer for Cook, who now has to clear his calendar for Trump's next junket. On the other hand: Cook visits China all the time because he has to keep China happy. So he can spend a little more face time with Trump, too.

Then yet again: Face time alone doesn't get you everything you want, all the time.

Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang did go with Trump on his Middle East trip, and Trump praised him for his presence. Not coincidentally: Nvidia is a partner in Trump-blessed plans for massive data centers in the Middle East.

But in April, Trump banned Nvidia from selling its most advanced chips to China — a move Nvidia says cost it $5.5 billion.

So maybe it's more accurate to say tech CEOS are getting something for all the time and money they're investing in Trump. Just not everything.

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The best sushi in Los Angeles, according to a British tourist and an American

"Food Wars" hosts Harry Kersh and Joe Avella travel across Los Angeles to find the best sushi in the city. They'll be visiting three locations in just one day to see what the city has to offer. This is "Food Tours."

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Ex-top Diddy exec Capricorn Clark tells jurors the hip-hop mogul kidnapped her at gunpoint

Capricorn Clark
Sean "Diddy" Combs' ex-assistant Capricorn Clark testified at his trial.

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  • Ex-assistant Capricorn Clark testified that Sean "Diddy" Combs kidnapped her at gunpoint in 2011.
  • She said Combs made her go with him to see Kid Cudi, "to kill him" for dating Cassie Ventura.
  • She also described death threats over missing jewelry and being pushed by Combs.

A former assistant and top executive to Sean "Diddy" Combs tearfully told a Manhattan jury Tuesday that he kidnapped her at gunpoint and made threats against her life.

Capricorn Clark, the former music tycoon's employee, testified at Combs' sex-trafficking and racketeering trial, that Combs was "furious" with her for keeping him in the dark about Cassie Ventura's 2011 relationship with rapper Kid Cudi.

Ventura, the R&B singer and the prosecution's star witness, dated Kid Cudi briefly that year while she and Combs — who dated on and off for a decade — were on a break.

Clark told the jury that Combs, armed with a gun, went to Clark's house in a rage in December 2011 and banged on the door.

"He just said, 'Get dressed, we're going to go kill'" him, Clark testified that Combs told her, using the N-word to refer to Kid Cudi, whose real name is Scott Mescudi.

Clark said Combs took her to Mescudi's Los Angeles home — and she characterized herself as "kidnapped."

"The way he was acting, I just felt like anything could happen," Clark testified through tears.

Last week, Mescudi testified that Combs broke into his house in December 2011 after Combs found out he was dating Ventura, who prosecutors allege is one of two women Combs sex trafficked.

Mescudi said at the time Clark called him to say that she was outside Mescudi's house — and that Combs was inside. Clark told him that Combs had "forced her physically" to drive there with him, Mescudi said.

"You have to tell Cudi to not tell the police that it was me," Clark said Combs told her.

"If you don't do that I'm going to kill all you motherfuckers," she said he threatened.

Mescudi ultimately did report the break-in to police, he previously testified.

In the days after the break-in, Combs repeatedly and angrily asked Clark when she knew about Ventura's romance with Mescudi and why she didn't tell him, Clark told the jury.

"He would say, 'I should just kill you bitches and I should cut her face,'" Clark said Combs said about herself and Ventura.

Prosecutors hope Clark's testimony will bolster the top two federal charges against Combs — sex trafficking and racketeering, which each carry a maximum sentence of life in prison.

A court sketch shows Sean "Diddy" Combs holding his hand to his head in a courtroom.
A courtroom sketch showing Sean "Diddy" Combs at his criminal trial.

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More threats and a week of lie detector tests

During her testimony, Clark told the jury that Combs had threatened her multiple times.

"I was terrified," she said as she described a time being forced to take a lie detector test after some of the rapper's jewelry was stolen.

Clark told the jury that at the time, a man who "looked like the size of two linebackers" told her that if she failed the lie detector test, "they were going to throw me in the East River."

"I was told I was unable to leave until they got to the bottom of this," testified Clark, who added that Combs' head of security, Paul Offord, had her take the lie detector test over the course of five days in a locked room.

She said she was asked whether she stole Combs' high-end jewelry, which included a large diamond cross that was out on loan from Jacob Arabo, better known as "Jacob the Jeweler."

"I'm not getting good readings. You better calm down. You're going to end up in the East River if he didn't get a good reading on this," the linebacker-esque man told her, Clark said.

Under cross-examination, Clark said she was on her way with Combs in a car to New Jersey's Teterboro when she realized that the jewelry, which had been in her purse, was missing.

Clark told the jurors that she didn't know whether the stolen jewelry was ever found, but that she continued to work for Combs, and he never mentioned it.

"I felt like if I had left it would have been written off as I had stolen it anyway," said Clark, who worked as Combs' personal assistant from 2004 until 2006 when she was promoted to the role of Combs' global brand director.

Clark said she briefly quit her personal assistant job in the summer of 2006 after Combs angrily pushed her during an argument at his Miami estate.

Combs' chef had relayed to him that Clark said, "I hate it here," Clark testified.

"If you hate it here, get the fuck out of my house," she said Combs kept repeating, pushing her through the kitchen, through the butler's pantry, and down hallways until he'd pushed her out the front door.

Clark also recalled that on her very first day working for the Bad Boy Records founder, he threatened her at nighttime in Central Park after he found out she had worked for Combs' longtime rival Suge Knight.

"He told me he didn't know I had anything to do with Suge Knight and that if anything would happen he would have to kill me," Clark said of Combs.

"I said we'll just have to see," Clark testified. "There was nothing I could do in Central Park to convince him that I was a trustworthy person."

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