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Americans favor deporting undocumented immigrants, until they're asked how

Data: Axios/Ipsos poll; Chart: Erin Davis/Axios Visuals

Most U.S. adults (9 in 10 Republicans and close to half of Democrats) say they support mass deportations of immigrants living in the country illegally โ€” but that enthusiasm quickly erodes when presented with options over how to carry them out, according to a new Axios-Ipsos poll.

Why it matters: President-elect Trump has vowed to initiate one of the "largest mass deportations in U.S. history" starting early in his return to the White House. Beyond the logistical obstacles, costs and possible pain to the U.S. economy, the survey suggests Americans could quickly sour on deportations depending on how they are carried out.


By the numbers: Two-thirds of all Americans surveyed said they support deporting immigrants who are in the country illegally.

  • Among Republicans, support was at 93%, followed by 67% for independents and 43% for Democrats.
  • But just 38% of Americans support using active-duty military to find and detain undocumented immigrants in U.S. cities and towns; and only 28% want to use money allocated for the military to pay for deportations.
  • Just one in three endorse separating families or sending people to countries other than their country of origin in the interest of speed. And just one in three support deporting those who came to the U.S. as children.
  • The trends largely track with findings from a Ipsos-Syracuse University poll from November from which the questions were replicated. But the new survey shows even less support for use of active-duty military, or military funds, than the survey from two months ago.

What they're saying: "There's essentially broad agreement with Trump's position on these topics, but as soon as you start pushing into specifics, a lot of that dissipates," said Chris Jackson, Ipsos pollster and senior vice president.

  • The concept of mass deportations may work better for Trump in the abstract than in reality, Jackson said. "Immigration, in reality, is complicated, messy and difficult."
  • "The real question is going to be... does that level of support maintain or fragment as they confront the reality of what it means."

The other side: About one in 10 Americans โ€” and close to 1 in 5 Republicans โ€” said they'd support deporting immigrants who are in the country lawfully.

Context: Trump has said he would use the military to round up undocumented immigrants and would consider putting them into camps.

  • Trump also has said he would deport American citizens if that means it would keep families together since he wanted to deport their undocumented parents or spouses.
  • And he has indicated interest in deporting Haitian immigrants who currently have Temporary Protected Status.

The bottom line: To remove a sizable proportion of the estimated 11 million or more undocumented immigrants from the country, Trump would need not only broad but sustained public support.

Methodology: This Axios/Ipsos Poll was conducted Jan. 10-12, 2025, by Ipsos' KnowledgePanelยฎ. This poll is based on a nationally representative probability sample of 1,025 U.S. adults age 18 or older.

  • The margin of sampling error is ยฑ3.2 percentage points at the 95% confidence level, for results based on the entire sample.

16 photos show Tiffany Trump's style evolution, from New York socialite to first daughter

A side-by-side of Tiffany Trump in 2015 and 2024.
Tiffany Trump's style has evolved over her years in the public eye.

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  • Tiffany Trump has been in the public eye her entire life thanks to her famous father.
  • Her style evolved as she went from socialite to first daughter when Donald Trump became president.
  • She often blends professional and laid-back looks.

As Donald Trump returns to the White House, his youngest daughter, Tiffany Trump, 31, is expected to remain distanced from politics as she did during her father's first term.

Although her role โ€” or lack thereof โ€” in the Trump administration isn't changing, Tiffany's life has changed pretty dramatically since her father first took office. She graduated from college, entered law school, got married, and is expecting her first child.

Tiffany's personal style has also transformed since she first entered the public eye.

Take a look at her fashion evolution, from her time as a New York socialite to her life as a first daughter.

When Tiffany Trump first started attending red-carpet events, she often wore minidresses.
Tiffany Trump at a party in New York City in 2011.
Tiffany Trump at a party in New York City in July 2011.

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In July 2011, she attended an event celebrating the cast of "Love, Loss & What I Wore" in a black minidress.

The dress had a straight neckline with a V in the center. She wore it with strappy black heels.

Her looks often had a daring edge in her socialite years.
Tiffany Trump at a Fashion Week in September 2014.
Tiffany Trump at a Fashion Week in September 2014.

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Tiffany attended a New York Fashion Week event in September 2014 in a form-fitting blue minidress.

It had a chic halter neckline, and she paired the dress with black heels.

Tiffany was spotted in a sheer look in August 2015 โ€” shortly after her father announced his candidacy for president.
Tiffany Trump at the  VH1 Save The Music Foundation's "Hamptons Live" benefit in August 2015.
Tiffany Trump at the VH1 Save The Music Foundation's "Hamptons Live" benefit in August 2015.

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Trump's youngest daughter didn't immediately change her style after her father announced his candidacy for president in June 2015. In August 2015, she attended a VH1 benefit in a minidress.

The halter dress dipped low in the back and featured a sheer base. It was overlaid with a layer of see-through fabric covered in a blue floral pattern.

Nude shoes completed the beachy look.

By the Republican National Convention in July 2016, Tiffany looked every bit the politician's daughter.
Tiffany Trump at the RNC in July 2016.
Tiffany Trump at the RNC in July 2016.

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Tiffany gave a speech at the 2016 RNC, walking onstage in a blue dress.

It had a high, scooped neckline, a bow that cinched her waist, and a skirt that flared around her knees.

Tiffany and Ivanka Trump wore coordinating looks on election night in 2016.
Ivanka Trump, Jared Kushner, and Tiffany Trump on election night in November 2016.
Tiffany Trump on election night in November 2016.

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Both Trump sisters appeared alongside their father on election night in 2016 wearing light-blue minidresses.

Tiffany's silk column dress hit her mid-thigh. It was sleeveless, and sparkly gems trimmed the scooped collar. Nude heels completed her look.

The Trump sisters had another matching moment on Inauguration Day in 2017.
Tiffany and Ivanka Trump at Inauguration Day 2017.
Tiffany and Ivanka Trump at Inauguration Day 2017.

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Tiffany and Ivanka coordinated their looks for Donald Trump's Inauguration Day in 2017, both attending in white ensembles.

Tiffany wore a custom Taoray Wang coat and coordinating dress. The coat was stark white and double-breasted, and she accessorized the look with a double-strand pearl necklace.

Tiffany chose a more elaborate look on the evening of Inauguration Day.
Tiffany Trump at the inaugural Armed Services Ball in January 2017.
Tiffany Trump at the inaugural Armed Services Ball in January 2017.

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Tiffany tapped Simin Taghdiri of Simin Couture for her dress for the inaugural balls.

The strapless pink dress was form-fitting and flared to a mermaid skirt. It was covered in intricate floral embroidery with pops of blue, and textured embellishments adorned the trim of the neckline and waist.

The sparkly look contrasted the clean lines she wore earlier in the day.

After her father became president, Tiffany appeared in more professional dresses, as she did at New York Fashion Week in February 2017.
Tiffany Trump during New York Fashion Week in February 2017.
Tiffany Trump during New York Fashion Week in February 2017.

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Tiffany attended a few Fashion Week shows in 2017, sitting front row at Taoray Wang's presentation on February 11, less than a month after wearing the designer at her father's inauguration.

For the occasion, she wore a white sheath dress with a low V-neckline and a pleat running down the center. A pink and beige coat and gold heels added pops of color.

However, in September 2017, she showed off a more daring side of her style in a minidress with cutouts and sheer detailing.
Tiffany Trump in New York City in September 2017.
Tiffany Trump in New York City in September 2017.

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During a night out in New York City, Tiffany was photographed in a black dress that hit her mid-thigh.

Cutouts covered the top half of the long sleeves, and strips of silver and sheer fabric adorned the skirt's hem.

Tiffany added sparkly black heels to the look.

She rocked another see-through outfit during a night out in London in July 2018.
Tiffany Trump in London in July 2018.
Tiffany Trump in London in July 2018.

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Tiffany and her mother, Marla Maples, stepped out at The Arts Club in London in July 2018.

Tiffany wore a powder-blue blazer and trousers, but her sheer, high-neck top was the standout aspect of her look. The black top featured a subtle striped pattern.

She added open-toe black shoes to the outfit.

She arrived at the 2019 Trump Christmas celebration in a semi-sheer lace dress.
Tiffany Trump and Michael Boulos at Mar-a-Lago in December 2019.
Tiffany Trump and Michael Boulos at Mar-a-Lago in December 2019.

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The base of the dress was blue and strapless. It was covered with a sheer overlay adorned with floral black lace.

The lace formed off-the-shoulder sleeves, and Tiffany's black shoes matched the gown.

A sparkly shirt made Tiffany's outfit for the August 2020 RNC pop.
Tiffany Trump at the RNC in August 2020.
Tiffany Trump at the RNC in August 2020.

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Tiffany spoke at the virtual Republican National Convention when her father ran for president in 2020, selecting a powder-blue suit.

The wide-legged trousers had pleats on the sides, showing off a strip of darker fabric. Tiffany also added a sparkly blue shirt to the look, blending the professional silhouette with textures she favors in her streetwear attire.

Tiffany chose a more muted ensemble when Donald Trump left office in 2021.
Michale Boulos and Tiffany Trump arriving in Florida on Inauguration Day 2021.
Michael Boulos and Tiffany Trump arriving in Florida on Inauguration Day 2021.

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Tiffany was photographed exiting Air Force One in Florida in January 2021 after her father left the White House. She was wearing a knee-length black dress.

The double-belted sweater dress had a high neckline. She wore it with an oatmeal coat and sunglasses.

Ahead of her 2022 wedding, Tiffany was spotted in a blue floral dress, looking every bit the bride.
Tiffany Trump ahead of her wedding in November 2022.
Tiffany Trump ahead of her wedding in November 2022.

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Tiffany was spotted with her father before her November 2022 wedding at Mar-a-Lago.

She wore a white dress covered in blue florals. It cinched at the waist and flared out before hitting her mid-calf.

After keeping a low profile in 2023, Tiffany reemerged at the 2024 RNC in a chic two-piece.
Tiffany Trump at the RNC in July 2024.
Tiffany Trump at the RNC in July 2024.

Andrew Harnik/Getty Images

Tiffany wore white throughout the 2024 RNC, including a coordinating white set from Amanda Uprichard.

The outfit consisted of the sleeveless $247 Hughes vest, featuring buttons down the center, and the $172 Hope skirt. Both featured a subtle ruching pattern.

And she wore another white look on election night in 2024.
The Trump family on election night in November 2024.
The Trump family on election night in November 2024.

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Tiffany appeared alongside her family on election night in a simple cream dress.

The short-sleeve dress had a high neckline and a flared skirt that hit her mid-calf. It belted at the waist, with a subtle gold buckle cinching in the center.

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BI Today: A remake at Meta

Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg
Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg

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Welcome back to our Sunday edition, where we round up some of our top stories and take you inside our newsroom. No prestigious pedigree? No problem. This one-time Big Tech staffer detailed how he managed to nab jobs at Google and Meta despite being what he describes as lacking a "top tier" rรฉsumรฉ. He mapped out four steps that would be useful to most anyone in business.


On the agenda today:

But first: Trump is back.


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A new era

Donald Trump
One top Republican senator says that "lives depend" on getting Trump's national security nominees confirmed quickly.

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It's happening.

We're about to go into a new administration, a new party, a new president.

And Business Insider is going to be there for you.

We already have been.

Here at BI, we're focused on what politics means for your pocketbook, your taxes, your investments, and your career.

And we've already been all over these subjects.

Take Meta. Ahead of the inauguration, and as its CEO celebrates Donald Trump's election, our team has brought you scoops on Meta's process for cutting low-performing employees and how the cuts could become an annual tradition.

We also gave you insights into how Meta's employees feel about the changes, from their thoughts on Mark Zuckerberg's "year of intensity" to their reaction to Meta backing off DEI efforts. If you need a recap, check out our piece here on Zuck 3.0.

On taxes, we're getting ahead on what you need to know depending on what happens with Trump's tax cuts.

The fate of TikTok has been wrapped up in politics for years, and we've brought our readers numerous angles and insights, including Friday's big Supreme Court news.

This is just a sampling of how we plan to approach Trump coverage this year โ€” what it means for your money, your work, your life.

What do you think? I always want to hear from you. Please email me at [email protected].

I expect to be at the Davos conference all week, unlike some billionaires and CEOs who are jetsetting between Washington and Switzerland. I'll be joined by Dan DeFrancesco, your weekday anchor, and some of our other fantastic colleagues. We'll share the Davos dish, what we're hearing about the new administration, TikTok, AI, and more. Please stay in touch!


Meta is done playing nice

Mark Zuckerberg

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The social media giant internally announced plans to cut 5% of its workforce, focusing on its lowest-performing employees. It's a more aggressive approach to workforce management but one Amazon has embraced for years.

It also marks a departure from Silicon Valley's traditional talent retention strategy, where tech companies overpaid workers to steer them away from competition. Now, lean, high-performing teams appear to be the new Big Tech trend as companies like Microsoft and Google look to make similar performance-based job cuts.

A page out of Amazon's workforce playbook.

Also read:


On Fridays, WFH means OOO

Partial view of a calendar highlighting Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. A 'shhh' emoji appears under Friday, while palm tree emojis are placed under Saturday and Sunday.

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Instead of one last push before the weekend, "quiet Fridays" are becoming a sneaky personal day for some remote workers.

The four-day workweek dream remains out of reach for many, but fed-up remote workers are taking back the day for themselves. Fridays also remain the least popular day to commute, even as office attendance creeps back up.

Three-day weekend, every weekend.


'If I'm being brutally honest'

Anthony Scaramucci

Anthony Scaramucci, SkyBridge Capital; BI

Anthony Scaramucci is a vocal Trump critic. The hedge-fund founder, also known for his 11-day stint in Trump's first administration, hasn't held back on the former president.

Even so, Scaramucci predicts a sunny economy under the president-elect. He told BI that pro-growth policies like Trump's tax plan and potential clarity on crypto legislation are boons for the country.

But he's still worried about some of Trump's other moves.


The world's worst career advice

Jack Clark

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Business Insider's Alistair Barr was an editor at Bloomberg in 2016 when his reporter Jack Clark told him he was quitting to work at OpenAI. At the time, it was a relatively obscure nonprofit that was less than a year old.

Barr told him it wasn't a good idea. Clark had a pretty stable job as a reporter on Bloomberg's Big Tech team and OpenAI didn't seem to have a clear direction. In the end, Clark ignored him and went to OpenAI anyway.

Now, he's set to become a billionaire.


This week's quote:

"People get sick. They change their mind or family circumstances. So even if you thought you knew today, you couldn't be completely sure."

โ€” JPMorgan CEO Jamie Dimon on picking his successor.


More of this week's top reads:

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The main thing cellphone users can't live without, according to a 'dumb phone' maker

Light Phone 3
The Light Phone 3 is getting a feature that its predecessors lacked.

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  • Light unveiled its Light Phone 3 with a new back camera feature.
  • "Dumb phones" have targeted users seeking a break from high-tech gadgets.
  • Intentional tech use will be on the rise in 2025, Amazon's Werner Vogels said.

"Dumb phones" are devices with much less functionality than the typical smartphone. However, they still have a high-tech feature that their users can't stand to lose.

Light announced the third iteration of its simplified cellphone in June 2024. It doesn't look much different from its predecessor, which started shipping in 2019, and the company says it didn't change much in terms of software.

It spent most of its time and resources on introducing a particular aspect of the Light Phone 3: the back camera.

The new Light Phone is "a little bit bigger, a little bit faster, and a slightly different screen, but the camera is definitely the new feature," Joe Hollier, the cofounder of Light, told Business Insider.

The Light Phone 3 can call and text and has smarter features such as fingerprint ID, rear- and front-facing cameras, and the potential to support a digital wallet, the company said.

The other available tools, according to the company, include an alarm, a timer, a calculator, a calendar, a directory, directions, notes/voice memo. There's the option to add music and podcasts to the device by connecting to a computer and downloading them from the Light website.

Smartphone makers have also been working on improving their cameras. Apple's latest phone lineup, the iPhone 16, has an "Ultra Wide" camera and autofocus for photos that can be edited using AI. Samsung's Galaxy S24 Ultra has an AI-powered camera that can improve low-light photography.

Light doesn't expect their new camera to compete with an iPhone, which Hollier acknowledged can shoot commercials, but it's a "very intentional" tool, he said.

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Hollier said the camera was built to have a nostalgic feeling.

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It saw a need to add a new camera with a "nostalgia feel." Hollier said his interest in film photography was a "North Star" for the Light Phone 3's new back camera. Photos from the dumb phone don't look quite as clear as those from the iPhone, but Hollier said they weren't designed to be.

Users have turned to dumb phones for a break from the bright and colorful smartphone displays and all the distractions they offer. That's similar to a trend Amazon CTO Werner Vogels highlighted for 2025. As artificial intelligence charges ahead, people will turn to more intentional tech use, Vogels wrote in a blogpost.

Although Hollier said adult Gen Zers are becoming more interested in dumb phones, it remains the smallest portion of its user base at 12%. However, their older siblings, Zillennials between the ages of 25 and 34, make up 38% of Light Phone users.

Light has set out to reduce the "infinite feed," as Hollier put it, by guaranteeing that its phones will never have email, social media, or an internet browser. The company treads a careful line when deciding what to offer in Light Phones.

That's at odds with the many companies trying to evolve by incorporating AI into their operations. Apple launched Apple Intelligence in 2024, and Samsung's S24 is a lineup of AI-powered phones. Hollier said Light has no current plans to bring AI to its phones.

The Light Phone 3 is available for preorder for $599 as of January 16โ€” a $200 discount from its retail price. Shipping is expected to begin in May.

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I'm an heir to the Anheuser-Busch fortune. I learned about manual labor on my family farm and am passing those lessons on to my kids.

Black and white image of Billy Busch sitting with a white background.
Billy Busch is an heir to the Anheuser-Busch fortune.

Photo credit: Busch Family Farm

  • Billy Busch is an heir to the Anheuser-Busch multi-billion-dollar fortune.
  • He said he learned through manual labor on his family's farm full of exotic animals.
  • His inheritance plan is designed to avoid family feuds like those that embroiled his siblings.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Billy Busch, founder of the Busch Family Brewing & Distilling Company and author of "Family Reins: The Extraordinary Rise and Epic Fall of an American Dynasty." It has been edited for length and clarity.

I learned the value of hard work laboring on my parents' farm. But their farm was no typical operation. Grant's Farm was a sprawling estate that had been home to my family since 1903. In 1954, my parents opened it up to the public to promote their brands.

The farm had elephants, monkeys, and almost any other animal you could imagine. It was also home to the famous Clydesdale horses, which were intertwined with Budweiser thanks to my Dad's brilliant marketing.

My siblings and I were charged with maintaining the farm, keeping it beautiful so that when the public came through they would see a place that was well taken care of. On a typical day, I might go from slopping out the pig pen to running elephant shows. The reputation of the Anheuser-Busch brand was always top of mind for my parents, especially my father. The business was his love, and he felt a huge responsibility for the legacy left by his father and grandfather.

My parents kept us grounded through farm work

My parents didn't talk much about money, but we understood it should never be wasted. There was a sense that even a great fortune could be lost if we didn't care for it. I learned to always turn the lights off so I didn't rack up the electric bill.

My parents wanted my siblings and me to be grounded. My dad was always in favor of getting us up early to do chores. He wanted us to know it took hard work to build anything, much less a dynasty.

My parents didn't just teach us to do what we were asked โ€” they wanted us to do twice what we were asked. Anything we do should be done to perfection. That was very important to them.

In addition to these lessons, I learned a lot about hard work from the employees on the farm. My parents were running a massive business, so it sometimes felt like I was raised by the workers around us. Our farm manager worked for Grant's Farm for more than 50 years and had a huge influence on me, teaching me about plants, animals, and machinery.

I had a trust to live off so I could pursue my passions

My dad had 11 kids, including five sons. It was always assumed that his oldest son, my half-brother, would take over the business. My oldest full brother was also groomed to be involved with Anheuser-Busch. I was never pressured to work in the brewery.

When I was 18, my father gave me a trust. It was enough money that I could live on it comfortably, which freed me to work in areas that I was passionate about. I went to the University of Missouri to study agriculture and animal husbandry. I also became a champion polo player, sponsored by Anheuser-Busch.

Later, I invested in a bar business and a distribution company, where I worked in the warehouse and drove trucks. It was very interesting learning about a different aspect of my family business.

I received the rest of my inheritance in 1989 when my father died. I was about 30.

Luck of the draw will determine my children's inheritance

I took a similar approach to inheritance with my seven kids, who range in age from 18 to 33. When they turned 18 they received a small trust that they could use for investing or starting a business.

I want my children to be financially intelligent and understand hard work. I've taught them about investing. I want them to have a trusted team around them but to always make their own financial decisions. When you rely on someone else to make your decisions for you, you're setting yourself up for a big mistake.

My dad's will caused strife between my siblings and me that we still haven't recovered from. I wanted to create a very black-and-white inheritance plan. That's hard, but I know it will save my children a lot of heartache and lawyer's bills in the future.

I'm heavily invested in land. So, I've split my land assets up into seven parcels. When I pass, each of my children will pull a number from a hat, and that will decide what parcel they get. I hope that will lead to no arguments, and an inheritance that's as even as possible.

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I changed my parenting style after I saw what helicopter parenting was doing to my eldest. Now, all 3 of my kids are thriving.

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Thanks to the lessons I learned raising my eldest, I get to watch my three children thrive growing up.

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  • I was a helicopter parent to my firstborn but learned that it wasn't the best approach.
  • My firstborn was frustrated, anxious, and struggled to do simple tasks.
  • I started implementing age-appropriate independence and my three kids are better for it.

It's been nine years, but I can still clearly remember the first time we got a bike for my 2-year-old son. What was supposed to be an exciting new milestone turned into a disappointment.

Being a first-time mom who was consumed by "what ifs," I let my overprotective instincts take over. Despite his protests, I loaded him up with protective gear from head to toe โ€” knee pads, elbow pads, a padded vest and shorts, and a fitted helmet.

After just a few minutes of riding, he frustratingly told me that he wanted to go inside because all the padding was making him uncomfortable.

That bike ride was just one of countless examples of my helicopter parenting. I decided what he would eat and wear, and who he would befriend. I made sure he didn't mingle with strangers and was always quick to jump in to help, even unprompted.

I thought this was how a mother's love should be, not realizing how it would impact his emotional growth years later.

My need to control was ruining his joy in exploring and trying new things

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Thanks to the lessons I learned raising my eldest, I get to watch my three children thrive growing up.

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As he grew older, my eldest struggled to make simple decisions, like choosing new clothes, and he was often a bit too anxious about hypothetical scenarios, like what if our car ran out of fuel in a deserted area.

He lost interest in reading because we would always read what I chose for him. Even ordering meals when we went out was tough because he felt uncomfortable speaking to unfamiliar people.

My apprehensions kept causing hindrances for him, until one day, he couldn't hold back anymore.

"Mama, you won't ever let me do anything on my own," he cried after I stopped him from playing football with a few unknown kids at the park.

Hearing that was painful but necessary. I realized I needed to make a change for him and my secondborn.

I started with small, subtle changes

I loosed the reins and started giving my eldest the freedom to choose what to wear, eat, and read. I also stopped saying no so often, especially when he offered to help.

Some changes came more slowly than others. His anxiety over hypotheticals, for example, diminished pretty quickly.

However, it took years for him to build up his self-confidence starting with small activities like helping me fold laundry and make sandwiches for him and his little brother.

It didn't matter if his attempts were imperfect, I made a point to praise and thank him. And I stopped helping him all of the time.

Once, he was struggling to make a bridge with his engineering toy set. It kept collapsing, but I resisted the urge to help and watched instead. Eventually, he figured out what was wrong and built a sturdy bridge all by himself. His face lit up with pride.

Milestones like these made me realize the value of loosening the reins so that my kids could experience struggle and learn resilience by themselves.

My eldest, now 11, is a confident, caring big brother for his siblings. He is the wisest when it comes to spending his allowance. He makes well-thought-out choices, and his adventurous restaurant orders always bring a smile to our faces.

All of my children became more confident as I changed my parenting style

My younger kids also benefit from the lessons I learned raising my eldest. I became a more relaxed parent.

I allowed my secondborn to mingle with unfamiliar kids when he wanted and to choose his own clothes and books.

As a result, from a very young age, my secondborn was not scared of risks like trying new rides and foods. He makes friends quickly and even helps new classmates who struggle to adapt.

My youngest, my 3-year-old, surprises us with her strong will, crystal-clear choices, and self-assured demeanor at such a young age.

My eldest taught me the importance of endorsing age-appropriate independence over helicopter parenting, and because of that, I've had the joy of watching my kids thrive as they grow up.

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