The actress, 66, said that the "holiday industrial complex" makes us feel like we're "somehow not good enough" while appearing on the Dec. 20 episode of 'The View'
"I think you can shave 10 to 15 years off your birthday and that's like how you feel. I think it's all about how you feel and everything," the 'Real Housewives of Salt Lake City' star told PEOPLE
Hoda Kotb snapped selfies with morning show hosts Robin Roberts, Gayle King, Willie Geist, Harry Smith and Dylan Dreyer at Al Roker and Deborah Roberts' holiday party