For the "first time there wasn’t anything abnormal, nothing that needed an extra look,” the TV personality said in a new Instagram

For the "first time there wasn’t anything abnormal, nothing that needed an extra look,” the TV personality said in a new Instagram

Mellencamp and estranged husband Edwin Arroyave split on Nov. 1 and have since started "nesting" — cycling in and out of their house while their children stay put

Despite their divorce, Mellencamp shared that marrying Arroyave and having kids together is "one of the best things that [she's] ever done"

Arroyave said on the Nov. 26 episode of his podcast 'The Eds' that he's been “staying in faith” and “focusing on the children” following their split earlier this month

The former 'Real Housewife of Beverly Hills' star posted an Instagram Reel on Nov. 24 stating that she has "cried and mourned" in the weeks after filing for divorce