Anstead is renovating a U.K. farmhouse on his discovery+ series 'Born Mechanic' and recently made a cameo on Haack's HGTV series 'The Flip Off' in February
The NBA player expressed his gratitude to his ex for continuing to help care for his younger brother, who has epilepsy and other medical conditions, despite them no longer being romantically involved
"I remember asking my doctor, 'Why? What happened?' And he's like, 'This is just one of those things where there is no answer to the why,' " said Doute