"I no longer feel good about these family members," the "shocked and saddened" woman wrote in an anonymous submission to an advice column

"An entitled bride stalked others and myself for raffle prizes," a co-worker alleged on Reddit

The proposal comes almost five months after the soon-to-be bride and groom welcomed a daughter together

The elegant engagement party was attended by the groom-to-be's 4-year-old son, George

Seven years ago, the fan was celebrating Turner's three-run walk-off home run when his downstairs neighbor thought he was being attacked and ran to check on him

"We’ve been keeping a small secret…" the top-ranked British single's player wrote in her engagement announcement

"My heart literally sank to my stomach," wrote the bride, saying she "cried the whole night" over the situation

"We [wanted] all of our favorite local Hawaiian spots to be a part of our day. Every detail was intentional and showcased our love of Hawaii," the bride tells PEOPLE

The groom-to-be didn't know that McNeely was on the Netflix reality series until his second date with her

The bride and groom tied the knot on Dec. 20 at a venue overlooking the location of their proposal and first date

A 16-year-old beluga whale named Qinu stole the internet's heart with her sweet reaction to a couple's proposal in front of her tank

The couple tied the knot on Dec. 19, 2009, and share two daughters together

"It was a nightmare, we all had blood on our hands," said a friend of the bride, whose foot was pierced with a sharp pin during her final wedding dress fitting

"There was truly nothing that was going to rain on Scott and Stephanie’s parade — literally," photographer Katrina Cohen tells PEOPLE of the couple's big day

"She wanted to show me that they're getting married and basically explain that I was just like a placeholder or like a rebound," the groom's ex claimed

"We're 40 and in love so that’s plenty for me," the bride tells PEOPLE

The bride-to-be said the discomfort of such a large gathering makes her "physically ill," and maintains her wish for a smaller event is "not about the money"

"We are both looking forward to starting a family of our own," the newlyweds tell PEOPLE

"We are planning to have plenty of family and friends from both sides of the pond to celebrate our special day," King tells PEOPLE

"It was a powerful and unexpected moment that brought so much joy to everyone there," the bride tells PEOPLE of her wedding vow rap duet