My husband and I are both from hardworking families, and we both used to work a lot.
After having our third child, our priorities changed, and we now both work 4-day workweeks.
We have less money but more time to spend with our family, and we're happier.
I first met my husband Sam when he was 24 and I was 21. Back then, he worked six days a week. At the time, he had his own remedial massage business on the Gold Coast, in Australia, and he believed that as a young business owner, he had to put in long hours to succeed.
Sam was raised in a hardworking, middle-income Australian family. His dad worked for the government, and his mom worked in retail. They taught Sam about the importance of having a strong work ethic, budgeting, and investing wisely.
I was also raised in a family of hard workers. For as long as I can remember, my dad worked 12-hour days, five days a week, as an agricultural spare parts salesman, while my mom worked part-time in advertising to help support our family of six.
As soon as I could, I started working and got a job at the age of 14 at our local ice cream shop to earn my own money. I continued working throughout school and while I was at university. Before I'd even graduated, I'd already lined up an internship at the local newspaper.
We traveled together for years and worked full-time when we returned home
In our 20s, Sam and I traveled for several years and did odd jobs while overseas. When we returned to Australia in 2013, we were pretty broke, so we started working full-time again and trying to fill up the coffers, so to speak.
I got a job as a print journalist at a newspaper in Melbourne then started my own copywriting business, while Sam opened a remedial massage and myotherapy clinic in Melbourne (he'd closed the Gold Coast business in 2011 when we went travelling).
It was during the pandemic that our priorities really shifted. When the 2020 lockdowns began in Melbourne, Sam had to close his clinic, while I continued working from home as a copywriter. He homeschooled our kids. I took over as the main breadwinner for the family.
I was working extremely long hours, and while it was financially lucrative, deep down, I knew our family life was suffering. By that stage, we had two children, and I felt like I was missing out on quality time with them.
By late 2021, the pandemic lockdowns had stopped, and life was pretty much back to normal. Sam and I were both working full-time again. Then, I became pregnant with our third child. She was born in August 2022.
We knew something had to change and decided it was our work schedules
Around Christmastime that year, we chatted about what was important to us. We decided we'd rather have less money if it meant having more time with our three children, who were then 7, 4, and four months old.
So, in 2023, we made some big changes. When I went back to work after maternity leave, I cut my hours back to four days a week, and my husband also cut his work hours back to four days a week. Having our own businesses meant we could dictate our own rosters, so we were extremely lucky in that regard.
We're still both only working four days each week, and our system is working really well for us. My husband and I tend to tag-team with the kids. One or the other of us will take care of our youngest (who only goes to day care three days a week) in the mornings and then work in the afternoon. We also take turns doing school pick-ups, so our kids know that either mommy or daddy will always be at the school gate waiting for them at the end of the day.
Rather than paying for childcare, which is expensive, we get to be the ones to take them to extracurricular activities and birthday parties, do homework with them, and watch their swimming lessons or dance recitals. Those moments are invaluable to us.
Working four days a week means my husband and I have had to adjust our spending habits quite a lot. We've felt the cost-of-living pressures in the past couple of years and have had to learn to budget better. But we believe it's worth it.
We know we'll probably never have the flashiest house or the best cars. But what we will have are plenty of memories with our children while they're still young and want to spend time with us. For us, those memories are worth their weight in gold.
I recently stayed at Hotel Bel-Air, one of the most legendary hotels in Los Angeles.
The iconic pink hotel is full of Hollywood history and luxurious suites.
I was most impressed by its new culinary vision, including a brand-new on-site bakery.
If Hotel Bel-Air's signature pink stucco walls could talk, they'd be full of Old Hollywood's secrets.
The luxury resort, located in one of Los Angeles' most exclusive neighborhoods, was beloved by the likes of Grace Kelly, Elizabeth Taylor, and Marilyn Monroe. Ronald Reagan's daughter said "I do" in the garden, and King Charles once said he slept better in a bed there than in any other hotel in the world.
Hotel Bel-Air's star-studded guest list is now private, but its reputation remains esteemed. It's ranked No. 35 on the World's 50 Best Hotels list β one of just four resorts from the US to make the cut.
I've always wanted to see if Hotel Bel-Air was worth the hype. And with a brand-new culinary program led by a Michelin-starred chef, I knew it'd be the perfect time to visit.
Hotel Bel-Air feels like an escape from the moment you walk in.
As I walked across the bridge connecting the valet to the lobby, I admired the hotel's massive garden. The air smelled of jasmine, and swans were gliding across the lake. A waterfall was softly burbling in the distance. It was all incredibly lush and idyllic.
After checking in, I wandered past gorgeous pink buildings on the way to my room.
Hotel Bel-Air's signature pink stucco walls have remained unchanged since the 1940s, even through the hotel's major renovations.
The playful and cheerful hue transported me to the Mediterranean, as did the Spanish archways. Palm trees swayed in every direction, their fronds framing the nearby canyons. Dozens of pink and fuchsia flowers added bright pops of color, while a koi pond filled with orange and white fish shimmered under the sunlight.
I was spending the night in Hotel Bel-Air's canyon suite.
Rooms at the Hotel Bel-Air start at $900 a night, while my suite was priced at $3,500. (Business Insider received a media rate for the one-night stay.)
As I walked into my 600-square-foot suite, I was immediately struck by the change in vibe. The bright pink and green hues that filled the hotel's exterior had been swapped for deep earthy tones like olive green and burnt sienna.
The shift in design initially took me by surprise and was more subtle than I expected. But it's clear that the canyon suite is meant to be a peaceful sanctuary.
Plus, when you're confident in your natural glamour, you can be low-key about it. Isn't that the true meaning of quiet luxury?
Christoph Moje, the hotel's general manager, told BI that the "refined interiors of the Canyon Suite are aligned with the hotel's overarching design aesthetic, which is to provide guests with a welcoming yet luxurious environment that is the perfect retreat from LA's busy scene."
"Its look and feel is contemporary and fresh while also reflective of old-world glamour and understated elegance, much like Hotel Bel-Air itself," Moje added.
The spacious suite features a bedroom, two bathrooms, and a private patio.
The bedroom's color palette was the same as the living room's, and a wood-paneled ceiling added warmth to the space.
The leather bed frame had built-in book lights, which I thought were a cute touch. The king bed was topped with one of the plushest comforters I've ever slept with.
The real stars of the suite were the stunning views and heated plunge pool on the patio.
A retractable glass wall in the living room offers a full view of the huge patio, which features sun beds, lounge chairs, and a fireplace. It was easily my favorite part of the suite.
I had lunch at Hotel Bel-Air's restaurant, which is simply called The Restaurant.
Hotel Bel-Air's culinary director, Joe Garcia, told me there were two dishes that would never be removed from The Restaurant's menu: the chopped salad inspired by Nancy Reagan and the tortilla soup.
I opted for the soup, which debuted at The Restaurant in 1980. The delicious broth is light on the tongue but rich in flavor, with just a hint of creaminess thanks to the sour cream and knobs of avocado. The roasted chicken is tender and plentiful, while the wisps of saffron add a luxurious touch.
Then, I wandered through the pink halls to check out the hotel's pool.
Hotel Bel-Air's pool was once a horse-riding ring, hence its distinct oval shape.
The water is always heated to 82 degrees, and tall palm trees provide ample shade and a postcard-perfect backdrop.
I also stopped by the hotel's brand-new lounge for a cocktail.
The Living Room is hands down my favorite part of the Hotel Bel-Air.
It's a beautifully decorated space with stylish but comfortable velvet couches and chairs. A fire is always roaring in the center of the room, while big windows offer views of the fairy lights that twinkle from the trees at night.
Chef Garcia told me The Living Room was conceptualized following requests from locals and guests who wanted a place at the hotel where they could get glammed up and enjoy cocktails. So, Garcia set out to create a playful menu that still fit the atmosphere.
"I wouldn't put chicken wings on the menu," he said. "You're sitting on a $70,000 sofa."
I returned to The Restaurant for dinner, which began with one of the best bread baskets I've ever tasted.
The Restaurant's bread and desserts are clearly in good hands with executive pastry chef Christophe Rull, a world-renowned chocolatier who helped open the hotel's patisserie, the only bakery in Bel-Air.
I quickly learned that Rull's dedication to his customers is unparalleled. When one local wanted their almond croissant baked a certain way, Rull personally went to his house to try to get the flavor just right.
Rull's croissant skills are also on display at The Restaurant, where he offers a savory garlic version with perfect flakiness. I was also a huge fan of his truffle brioche, which instantly melted in my mouth.
I was very impressed by Garcia's dinner menu.
Garcia had big shoes to fill when he became Hotel Bel-Air's culinary director in December 2023, following an 11-year stint by the legendary Wolfgang Puck.
But the chef told me he was up for the challenge, shifting The Restaurant's fusion-leaning menu to dishes that feel more seasonal and show off his classical French training.
I loved the indulgent white truffle pasta and the lamb chops served alongside an elegant ratatouille. The Michelin-caliber dinner was delicious and creative.
Hotel Bel-Air is a splurge, but even stopping by for a drink or dinner is worth it.
The five-star hotel obviously isn't in everyone's price range, but Hotel Bel-Air isn't just coasting on its reputation.
The brand-new culinary program, plus the delicious patisserie and beautiful lounge, have infused the space with vitality and turned the resort into a dining destination.
Whether you're looking for an Old Hollywood escape or just want some delicious food and cocktails, the Hotel Bel-Air should be on everyone's LA bucket list.
Real estate investors share the strategies they're using in 2025.
One investor is buying mobile home parks for tax incentives.
Another is leaning into mid-term rentals, which tend to cash flow more than long-term rentals.
Prudent real estate investing can create long-term wealth, and while every investor has their own unique circumstances β from how much risk they're willing to take on to how much cash they have accessible β there are lessons to be learned from veteran investors.
Business Insider asked top real estate investors who have achieved financial independence or are on their way to doing so about their plans for 2025.
Here's a look at how they are positioning themselves as we head into a new year and what trends are driving their decisions.
Ludomir Wanot is buying mobile home parks for the tax incentives
They can be depreciated at a faster rate than other investment properties and significantly reduce an investor's taxable income, he explained: "The government actually allows you to depreciate at least up to 60% of the purchase price of the value of the asset in year one. I bought a million-dollar property in New York. I was able to depreciate up to $600,000 of that in the first year, and so that basically reduced my taxable income to zero."
It's a win-win, he added: "I'm providing housing for people that only make maybe $1,000 a month and I'm providing it to them at a significantly lower rate, around $200 a month. They get to live in a good community, I get to rebuild a community, and I get this crazy incentive from the government."
Mike Zuber is looking for motivated sellers
Mike Zuber, who built a portfolio of rentals in Fresno that allowed him to retire early, is expecting to see "more motivated sellers" in 2025.
"I think there are some people that will just have to sell β life events, death, divorce, all of that," he said. "And unless the house is perfect, no owner is going to buy it. The general public is basically out of the housing market. So if you have a house that's a little dated, a little old, a little bit too close to busy streets, you're going to eventually have to sell to an investor."
That's good news for Zuber and other property investors looking for deals. He's prepared to "write offers that make sense at a high cost of capital."
Dion McNeeley is considering selling a property and capitalizing on an IRS rule
Dion McNeeley, who spent over a decade carefully building a portfolio of rental properties throughout Washington State, has never sold a property.
"I'm the slow, boring investor: Save up a down payment, buy the next place; save up a down payment, buy the next place," he said.
That may change in 2025, partly due to an intriguing tax benefit he'll be eligible for.
McNeeley's most recent real estate project was buying and rehabbing a duplex. He lives in one unit and rents the other. In July 2025, he'll have owned and lived in the duplex for two years, which qualifies him for the Section 121 Exclusion, an IRS rule that lets taxpayers exclude up to $250,000 of the gain from the sale of the property. The main requirement is that you must use the home as your main residence for at least two of the five years preceding the sale.
"I could sell it, make a couple hundred thousand dollars in profit, and not have to pay a penny in taxes β and either go and repeat the process somewhere else or go buy something with the gains and have a bigger, nicer place," said McNeeley, who plans to make a decision in July after doing an appraisal.
Nyasia Casey is testing a strategy she might want to scale: Building tiny homes
Nyasia Casey, who lives in New York City and owns investment properties in Baltimore, is excited about a new 2025 project: building a tiny home on a plot of land that her friends own in upstate New York.
"I'm going to buy a trailer and build a tiny house. I'm going to keep it on wheels so I can transport it if I wanted to go somewhere else with it β if I buy my own land," said Casey, who is starting the build in the spring.
She'll likely experiment with listing it on a short-term rental platform like Airbnb, she said: "I like the idea of it being a more affordable option for people to go and explore instead of renting something for $300 a night. So, it's something that I'm testing out and then if it works, I will definitely consider buying land and doing a couple more."
Dana Bull is experimenting with mid-term rentals
Massachusetts-based investor Dana Bull built wealth by following a specific strategy: buying quality properties with upside in solid areas and filling them with long-term tenants.
However, with the most recent property she purchased and renovated in 2023, she decided to experiment with operating a mid-term rental, which is a lease agreement that typically lasts between three and nine months.
"It's my first experience with something other than a long-term rental. I'm kind of in uncharted waters, but it's been great," said Bull, who plans to test out the mid-term rental strategy for at least 18 months. It's more work than managing a long-term tenant, but she said she's bringing in more revenue, which is helpful since she bought when interest rates were relatively high.
Bull has already refinanced once, which shaved about $250 off of her mortgage.
"I'd love it if they dropped again and I could save another 250," she said. "At that point, I probably would transition it to a long-term rental because it would be lucrative enough and less of a headache, but right now I'm just experimenting for my own curiosity and I want to understand more about this niche."
Karina Mejia is expanding her portfolio, starting with a BRRRR
Karina Mejia, who owns investment properties in Boston, where she lives, and Augusta, Georgia, sat out 2024 in terms of acquisition but plans to expand in 2025.
"I definitely would like to continue purchasing property primarily because of the tax advantages," she said. "This year, I didn't close on anything, and so I'm really going to see the effect of that on my taxes."
She's under contract for a three-family home in Boston and plans to close at the end of January.
"I'll end up renovating and BRRRR-ing it," said Mejia, who is also an agent and jumped on this property when she saw it. "I have it under agreement for 850 and the appraisal came back already at 930 in its as-is condition. I'm projecting to put some money into it and I know that the ARV, or the after-repair value, will end up being over a million so I may even be able to get back more money when I refinance than I'm putting into it, which would be great because then I get my money back and I can invest that in another property next year."
Peter Keane Rivera is leaning into his rent-by-the-room strategy
Part-time investor Peter Keane-Rivera, who owns single-family homes in the greater Seattle area, is leaning into his rent-by-the-room strategy.
"I'm looking to expand my single-family home, room rental portfolio," he said. "My strategy will be to accelerate my purchasing of real estate while learning how to scale my room rental operations."
Finding tenants to share a space hasn't been a challenge yet for Keane-Rivera, who lists his rooms on Roomster, Roomies, and Facebook Marketplace.
"There are a lot of different subgroups looking for something more economical: people coming out of college, people getting their first job, people who just got divorced," he said. "I would say everyone that rents with me is looking to save money."
The room rental strategy produces generous positive cash flow, around $1,000 a month per property, and lowers his risk, he said: "You diversify your cash flow by having four tenants under one roof instead of one. Very rarely will you have all your tenants move out, and if you do, that's indicative of some bigger problem that you should probably go fix."
The plane was bound for Russia from Azerbaijan β but veered off course after sustaining some kind of damage, crossing the Caspian Sea to crash-land at the airport in Aktau, Kazakhstan.
At a press briefing Thursday, Karabayev said Kazakh authorities heard of the disaster from a Russian air-traffic controller. They said an oxygen cylinder had exploded in the passenger cabin of the aircraft, and that some passengers were losing consciousness.
Karabayev said this triggered an emergency response in Aktau. Rescuers were quickly on the scene and managed to rescue 29 of the 67 passengers.
The plane departed from Baku, Azerbaijan, early Wednesday, heading for Grozny, Russia.
Business Insider reported Thursday, citing reports from Euronews and The New York Times, that Azerbaijani investigators believed Russia shot the plane down.
Those sources pointed to a Russian Pantsir-S air-defense system.
Russia has said the plane diverted after a bird strike, and denied playing a role β an explanation analysts were swift to dismiss.
Osprey Flight Solutions, an aviation security firm, said in an alert sent to its clients and shared with BI that the flight was "likely shot down by a Russian military air-defense system of unspecified type/variant over the North Caucasus Federal District."
Kazakhstan's transport ministry didn't immediately respond to a request for comments.
Movie studios have new competition β from Madison Ave.
A slew of brands got behind films and TV shows in 2024 as they try to combat ad fatigue.
Here's what marketers from Walmart to H&R Block say about their approach to the format.
People are increasingly tired of seeing ads, so big brands, from Walmart to Chick-fil-A, have been getting behind filmed entertainment as a way to grab their attention.
Brands' dollars and ability to promote projects have been welcomed by Hollywood, which is still hungry for programming but hasΒ less money to buy it.
"Brands, platforms, and partners, they're all open for business more than I've ever seen," said Paul Furia, head of content and creative packaging at ad agency Media by Mother. "Everyone's having conversations."
2024 brought many new iterations of the branded content trend to life.
Mattel's success with 2023's "Barbie" notwithstanding, brands' comfort zones have largely been unscripted formats like documentaries. But 2024 saw some branch out to new formats like reality TV and game shows, which are cheap to make, crowd favorites, and lend themselves to product integration. Brands have also been getting into shoppable shows, a trend that's likely to continue as brands figure out how to get people to buy things straight from their TVs.
New players are trying to capitalize. Many Hollywood production companies are actively pitching their talents to brands, fromΒ Michael Sugar's Sugar23Β to Ron Howard and Brian Grazer'sΒ Imagine EntertainmentΒ (which produced "The Day Sports Stood Still" alongside Nike) and Anonymous Content. New ones like Sonic Gods Studios are going a step further, using brands to fully finance TV shows from the start.
Top talent are no longer turning up their noses at brand films (or their money). Saint Laurent, for example, paired with Pedro AlmodΓ³var and David Cronenberg to make films.
Streamers are willing partners in brand films. As streamers increasingly look to ad dollars to become profitable, they're rolling out the red carpet for brands. And brands want the distribution because it legitimizes their projects and helps ensure they get seen (and in some cases, even make a profit). They're also becoming more systematic about tracking measurement and results.
An unticketed passenger was caught on board a Delta Air Lines plane, officials from the airline said.
The incident reportedly occurred on Christmas Eve at Seattle-Tacoma International Airport.
It comes weeks after another person tried to fly from New York to Paris without a boarding pass.
A Delta Air Lines passenger was caught trying to fly to Hawaii without a boarding pass on Christmas Eve, several media outlets reported.
An unticketed passenger was discovered as Delta flight 487 was taxiing to the runway at Seattle-Tacoma International Airport, Delta said in a statement to CBS News.
The Port of Seattle told CNN the plane then returned to the terminal, where the suspect departed. Police located them in an airport restroom using video surveillance, it added.
The passenger went through the usual security screenings but bypassed ID verification and boarding status stations, the Transportation Security Administration told CBS News.
The Port of Seattle Police told the outlet that investigators determined the unticketed passenger had passed through a security checkpoint the day before.
They were arrested for criminal trespass, the Port of Seattle said, per CBS News.
The Airbus A321neo departed more than two hours later than scheduled, according to data from Flightradar24. CBS reported that the TSA carried out additional security checks and rescreened customers while the aircraft was swept by K9 dogs.
"As there are no matters more important than safety and security, Delta people followed procedures to have an unticketed passenger removed from the flight and then apprehended," Delta said in a statement shared with multiple outlets. "We apologize to our customers for the delay in their travels and thank them for their patience and cooperation."
Delta, TSA, and the Port of Seattle did not immediately respond to requests for comment from Business Insider, which were sent outside regular working hours.
After a similar incident last month, 57-year-old Svetlana Dali was charged with being a stowaway on an aircraft after sneaking onto a Delta Air Lines service to Paris. If found guilty, she faces up to five years in prison.
The complaint against Dali, which BI has seen, says she boarded a Delta flight from New York to Paris without a boarding pass or a passport.
It added that she was able to pass through security by entering a special lane for airline staff. Dali is also said to have admitted in an interview with authorities that she intentionally evaded TSA and Delta staff to board the flight.
The incident is said to have occurred in late November, during another busy holiday period when Thanksgiving travel set records.
The TSA said it expected to screen nearly 40 million people at airports from December 19 to January 2, up 6.2% from 2023.
It said the busiest days would be December 20, 27, and 30.
Before leaving, travelers pay for vaccines, visas, and necessary supplies for the trip.
Once on a safari, costs like tipping and road transfers add up.
Whether you're staying in a five-star canvas tent at the edge of Tanzania's Serengeti National Park or heading on a budget safari in South Africa's Kruger National Park, a safari vacation is dotted with hidden costs.
These fees start before you even arrive at your destination. On a two-week trip across Tanzania, I encountered eight hidden costs that added thousands of dollars to the total of my trip. Take a look.
Before embarking on a safari, travelers are hit with hidden costs. One major one is vaccines and medication.
Vaccines and medications might be required for travel, depending on the destination. Uganda and Kenya, for instance, require a yellow fever vaccine before entering.
I was overwhelmed when I pulled up the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's website to figure out what vaccines I needed for Tanzania. Over a dozen vaccines were listed. While some were routine, others were diseases I had never heard of.
To be safe, I met with a travel nurse who researched where I was going and advised me on what I did and didn't need. Altogether, I spent $250 on malaria medication, a Typhoid fever vaccine, and the consultation. That, along with over-the-counter medication, sunscreen, and bug spray, put this unexpected cost closer to $300.
Visas also aren't cheap. Tanzania's tourist visa, for example, costs $100.
In Tanzania, travelers apply for a yearlong tourist visa, which costs $100. If they're heading to Tanzania's Zanzibar Island, visitors are required to pay another $40 for mandatory travel insurance.
Altogether, I spent $140 just to be able to start my safari vacation.
Safari-goers are encouraged to wear certain clothes and colors, which might require some shopping.
Whether it's a travel agent or a TikTok video you're referencing for packing advice, the source is bound to mention bringing neutral colors for your trip.
Visitors are encouraged to wear olive, tan, brown, and khaki colors for safaris. They should avoid blues and blacks because they can attract tsetse flies, which can carry a sleeping sickness disease. Meanwhile, bold colors can scare off animals.
While you might have some athletic clothes in this color palette, chances are you'll need to do some shopping for the trip.
For example, I didn't have a neutral-colored sweater or pair of pants for the trip. By the end of my shopping spree, I had spent nearly $150 on clothes β a number I didn't factor into my original budget.
The season you travel in will also have a major impact on the cost of your trip.
Lodges across the Serengeti typically price their accommodations based on the season. Some lodges have two categories: high season and low season. Others divide prices by peak, mid, and low season.
In the Serengeti, the high season includes June through October and the end of December. During this time, guests can expect to pay more for accommodations.
Depending on the lodge, peak prices cost travelers hundreds of dollars more than low-season prices.
Once you're in the country you're traveling to, hidden costs continue. Quick bush flights and road transfers can add up.
Tanzania is home to a myriad of ecosystems and habitats. The Serengeti is a main draw for tourists, but nearby areas like the Ngorongoro Crater, Lake Manyara National Park, Mount Kilimanjaro, and Zanzibar Island are also popular stops on a Tanzania itinerary.
While many of these areas are short drives or flights away, the costs of road transfers and bush flights can add up if you're visiting multiple areas on vacation.
For example, a flight between Arusha and Zanzibar cost me $75, and a road transfer between two Zanzibar properties was $100. Within the Serengeti, a 30-minute bush flight between two lodges costs $300.
Transfers ended up being a major part of my safari budget, and I hadn't realized they would be so costly when I started planning the trip.
The rates for lodges often don't include conservation and park fees.
When researching the cost of a lodge or safari accommodation, travelers often see a sticker price for a night at the lodge.
While this price might include game drives, meals, and laundry services, it often doesn't include government levies, taxes, park fees, or conservation fees.
Those fees can add up. For example, I paid $283 in park and camping fees for a two-night stay within the Serengeti. At another lodge, the national park and concession fees were $271 for two nights.
Depending on the length of the trip, an extra $130 a night can quickly add up.
Some activities, like guided walks and community visits, might not be included in the stay.
A guided walk in the bush, for instance, will give travelers a whole new perspective on the ecosystem. They'll see insects, birds, and plants that can't be spotted from a safari vehicle.
Similarly, community visits to learn about the history and culture of the Indigenous populations living in Tanzania offer new perspectives and global connections the average traveler doesn't get every day.
These activities were some of the highlights of my two-week Tanzania trip. While they had payoffs, they also cost extra. For example, I paid $100 for a community visit one day and $60 the next for a guided walk.
Tipping is another major cost to factor into your budget.
Tipping is customary across most of Africa; who you tip and how much you tip can quickly add up.
Meg van Niekerk, a safari planner for Go2Africa, explained that these tips support lodge staff, who often have spouses, parents, and children back home to support as well.
"It's like a blessing," van Niekerk said.
Fortunately, these costs are standardized, so it's something you can budget for ahead of time.
For example, Go2Africa recommends tipping $20 a day for your safari guide, $20 for general hotel staff, $15 for a butler, and $15 for your safari tracker.
There's also bound to be a few more people you didn't factor in β like the driver for a road transfer or a guide for a community visit. I found $100 to be a fair amount to budget per day for tips during my safari.
Van Niekerk added that this is "just a guideline," and travelers can tip more or less depending on their budget and the service they receive.
Research and talking to a travel agent before a trip can help you plan for hidden costs.
Sure, I knew a few bush flights and tips would impact the overall cost of my first safari, but I didn't know by how much.
Thankfully, conversations with travel agents helped me better understand just how much I could expect to pay for a safari vacation.
While the unexpected costs of a safari felt overwhelming at times, the experience was all worth it.
Van Niekerk put it best when she told me, "It starts with it being a once-in-a-lifetime trip, but you will come back."
Regardless of hidden fees, I don't doubt van Niekerk, and I'm sure I'll be back.
At first, my financial habits clashed with my husbands. He prioritized saving over spending.
He was able to retired at 40 by making smart choices and enjoying a modest lifestyle.
Now that he's gone, I'm teaching our sons his financial strategies so they can live comfortable lives.
One of the first disagreements my husband and I ever had was over a pair of boots. They were creamy cocoa, knee-high suede, with a slender heel. I told him they were half-off the original $700.
"You spent three hundred and fifty dollars on a pair of shoes?" he asked, aghast.
It spiraled into a tedious argument, and I said what you should never say in any financial quarrel: "I spent my own money."
"That's not the point," my husband retorted. "When we have kids, we must be united on what we prioritize."
He was the saver, I was the spender.
After decades in sales, my husband was able to retire at 40, several years before we met. People assumed he'd had some stroke of fortune and that he now spent his time playing golf or buying art. But there was nothing glamorous about his choice. Long ago he'd calculated the passive income needed to support a modest lifestyle and stopped working once he hit that number. It was enough for a single man with limited expenses. Once I entered the picture, I kept working.
He was set in his ways
Over the years, I slowly absorbed his frugal habits. He scrutinized every credit card bill and regularly renegotiated cable and insurance rates. He drove the same car for 18 years. He only owned two pairs of shoes at any time. He bought his clothes at Goodwill β and he did that only on Tuesdays when seniors got 10% off. He railed against consumerism, fast-forwarding through commercials and firmly believing that most people need only a fraction of what corporate America tries to sell them.
Adjusting to his mindset wasn't easy. I'd been a fashion editor, where a designer wardrobe was part of the job. I loved luxury hotels, roomy airline seats, and instant solutions β like buying a new dining set when a chair broke. (My husband would simply pull a spare chair from the garage, unconcerned that it didn't match.)
He wanted to teach our kids to be savers
After our sons were born, my husband opened custodial accounts, bought them piggy banks, and read them illustrated books about saving.
While thrifty, he was never cheap β especially when it came to his family. He bought organic berries and antibiotic-free chicken. When our older son showed promise on the piano, my husband enrolled him in $200-an-hour master classes. (Now 23, that son is a professional pianist and composer with millions of TikTok views.) When our younger son became fascinated with aviation, my husband booked discovery flights and invested in remote-controlled airplanes. (At 19, he's now a flight instructor.) Fundamentally, my husband believed money should support a sterling interior life β physical well-being, emotional wholeness, a refined intellect β not "flash and fripperies," as he'd say.
Now I'm carrying on his lessons
My husband passed away from a heart attack during COVID. In the lockdown, my career as a freelance writer languished. The boys were entering periods in their lives when we had to think about college, cars, and the hellish landscape that is auto insurance for young drivers. My husband had always believed in saving for a rainy day and in his passing, we were in the middle of a downpour.
Luckily, our sons have their father's mindset. They shop on eBay, and live at home to "stack cash." I opened brokerage accounts for them. They have yet to embrace a long-term view, rolling their eyes when I explain compound interest and what they could save by 40. "We'll probably be living in a post-apocalyptic world anyway," they say.
"Be that as it may," I reply, "just stash a few dollars a day and see what happens. It's what your dad did."
For me now, saving is the new spending. When I recently needed a winter coat, I drove past the alluring store windows, and straight to Goodwill. And, in my husband's honor, I waited till Tuesday.
Damola Adamolekun, CEO of Red Lobster, shares three books that influenced his career in 2024.
Adamolekun was formerly CEO of P.F. Changs, which he helped generate $1 billion in revenue a year.
He describes "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius as a timeless guide to leading.
At 35, Damola Adamolekun is the youngest CEO of Red Lobster of all time. The former Goldman Sachs investment banker and Harvard Business School alum was appointed CEO in August, just months after the seafood chain filed for bankruptcy.
Investors are likely hoping Adamolekun will recreate the restaurant resurgence he accomplished during his tenure as CEO of P.F. Changs from 2019 to 2023, during which he helped the struggling chain generate an estimated $1 billion in revenue a year.
The Nigerian-American businessman shared with Business Insider the three books that helped him navigate his career in 2024.
Business Insider: What three books have shaped your career and leadership this year?
1. "Unreasonable Hospitality" by Will Guidara
Damola Adamolekun: "Unreasonable Hospitality" by Will Guidara is a masterclass in creating memorable experiences through relentless care and attention to detail.
Guidara's approach to hospitality isn't just about service β it's about going above and beyond to make people feel valued. The idea of "over-delivering" resonated deeply with me, reminding me that exceptional hospitality, like exceptional leadership, often lies in the thoughtful, unexpected gestures that leave a lasting impact.
Whether in a restaurant or the boardroom, this book is a compelling reminder that relationships and culture are built on doing the little things with great intention.
2. "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius
"Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius is a timeless guide to leading with wisdom, resilience, and humility.
Marcus's reflections on discipline and self-mastery have shaped how I approach challenges β focusing on what I can control and letting go of what I can't. His emphasis on serving the greater good is a powerful reminder that leadership is ultimately about responsibility, not power.
This book's enduring relevance lies in its ability to ground leaders in principles that foster clarity and purpose, even amid chaos.
3. "The Winner Within: A Life Plan for Team Players" by Pat Riley
"The Winner Within: A Life Plan for Team Players" by Pat Riley is a motivational book that shares leadership lessons and teamwork strategies, using stories from his NBA coaching career to inspire individuals and organizations to achieve success through unity, resilience, and continuous improvement.
As a former college athlete at Brown University, this book's story of perseverance, adaptability, and ambition echoes the mantra that I've carried from the football field into the boardroom as a CEO.
This story is part of an end-of-year reading list series that seeks to highlight the best books influential CEOs and business leaders read in 2024.
Mark Cuban tried to invest in Musical.ly, the platform that would become TikTok.
Cuban says the platform lost its spark, becoming "corporate."
In an interview, Cuban said focusing on monetization often harms the user experience.
Mark Cuban tried to invest in TikTok's precursor years ago, but said the company turned him down.
Cuban told content creator and journalist Jules Terpak in an interview on her YouTube channel that he enjoyed using TikTok when it was called Musical.ly.
"I loved it because I could just turn it on and there would be 15,000 people live immediately that I could talk to," Cuban said of Musical.ly.
"It was insane. I loved it. And then, as it got into the dances and everything, it was fun."
Cuban told CNBC he tried to invest in Musical.ly but was unsuccessful because the company wasn't looking to raise more funds at the time.
Cuban told Terpak he thinks TikTok is less fun than it used to be and "more corporate."
He said that the dance-focused version of the app was losing billions of dollars, "and so at some point, they had to start trying to make some money."
"I liked it better when it was dances and music," Cuban said. "Now it's a business."
Cuban said TikTok's early beauty was that its algorithm served users with more of what they liked than any other platform.
"Now it's corporate," he said. "It's how many followers can you get and how can you engage those followers."
There's "a diminishing return" for users when platforms monetize, Cuban said, driven by business realities.
"At some point, if you're there to make money, you have to figure out how to make money," he said.
Cuban's thoughts hit on an increasing frustration many users have with TikTok, where they are flooded with ads and many see the platform as a pseudo-shopping channel.
Cuban has a TikTok account himself, where he has 1.1 million followers β though he doesn't post often.
"You want to put that in a money market account earning five, maybe more, percent and watch that sucker grow," he said. "That'll make you feel a whole lot better than that extra latte that you had that day."
Some criticized the advice for being unrealistic and out of touch with the majority of people.
Cuban didn't address the critics, only posting another tip of the day to "be nice" and "smile."
Startups and automakers are racing to build EV batteries that can charge in five minutes or less.
Ultrafast batteries would solve one of the biggest issues customers have with EVs β charging times.
Analysts say China's dominance in the battery industry means it is winning the race for five-minute charging.
Lengthy charging times are holding back the EV revolution, but that might be about to change.
Charging is frequently cited as one of the main reasons drivers are reluctant to go electric, with charging times in the US ranging from 20 minutes to 50 hours β far longer than it takes to simply fill up with gas.
But automakers and startups across the globe are now racing to build EV batteries that can charge in under 10 or even 5 minutes.
"It will change the entire customer experience," Ramesh Narasimhan, executive vice president at battery startup Nyobolt, told Business Insider.
"Charging would go from being an annoyance and requiring a downtime of 40 minutes to an hour, to having the same experience as what you have today in a fuelling situation," he added.
Developments over the past year suggest that dream is getting closer.
Rory McNulty, a product director at Benchmark Mineral Intelligence, told BI that advances in battery chemistry and software design had allowed manufacturers like CATL to optimize their batteries for faster charging without damaging them.
He added that new battery designs, such as silicon-based and solid-state batteries, which are expected to hit the market in the next few years, will accelerate the move toward faster charging.
"We're on the cusp of introducing new materials, which intrinsically should charge quicker," McNulty said.
Nyobolt demoed its battery technology in a prototype EV in June. The battery successfully charged from 10% to 80% in four minutes and 37 seconds, achieving a range of 120 miles after four minutes.
The UK-based startup is in talks with eight companies about incorporating its technology into high-performance EVs, and Narasimhan said he hoped to see them in passenger cars by the end of the decade.
Fully charged
Rolling out ultrafast-charging EV batteries will not be without challenges.
Narasimhan told BI that automakers face a dilemma between building EVs with large batteries that can travel huge distances, or prioritizing smaller fast-charging batteries with less range.
"Carmakers are still struggling between fast charge versus energy density and having an oversized battery that can go a thousand miles," he said.
Narasimhan added that, as batteries are by far the most expensive part of an EV, smaller batteries would mean cheaper vehicles β the lack of which is another factor that has put off some consumers from going electric.
The other major hurdle is charging infrastructure. Batteries that can charge in 5-10 minutes require high-powered 350kw electric vehicle chargers to hit maximum charging speeds.
There are currently around 30,000 charging ports with a maximum output of 350kw or more in the US, according to Department of Energy statistics.
A study from the National Renewable Energy Laboratory released last year estimated the number of fast chargers will need to grow to around 182,000 by 2030 to support EV demand.
"Charging infrastructure is the next frontier," said McNulty.
"You can have the best battery in the world, it can charge in five minutes, but if your charging port or charging infrastructure doesn't have the capability to match that, then you're always going to be limited," he added.
China races ahead
One thing is almost certain: the first widespread ultrafast-charging EV batteries will likely be Chinese.
"China's battery industry is 10 years ahead of its Western rivals. They built a whole infrastructure around batteries which is nigh-on impossible to replicate," Andy Palmer, a former Aston Martin and Nissan executive, often called "The Godfather of EVs," told Business Insider.
As a result, the East Asian superpower now has a stranglehold over the global battery supply chain. McNulty estimates that China dominates 95% of the global market for graphite, a key mineral for EV batteries.
China also has the advantage of scale. The Chinese market accounted for 60% of global EV registrations in 2023, per the IEA, and the country has rapidly built up its charging infrastructure to keep up with demand.
"The charging infrastructure bottlenecks that were a problem a couple of years ago are not anymore. You have fast chargers everywhere. I have probably 10 of them just around where I live," Cosimo Ries, a Shanghai-based analyst for Trivium China, told BI.
Ries added that the brutal competition in China's EV market was putting pressure on automakers to cut charging times and roll out fast-charging models at lower price points.
"The competition is so fierce; if you don't come up with faster charging batteries at cheaper prices, you're just not going to survive," Ries said.
"We're starting to see fast-charging move toward the kind of mid-tier or even lower-end segment of the markets. I think we're probably much closer to five-minute charging than previously expected, at least in China," he added.
Matt Phillips is an assistant VP in AT&T's benefits department.
He shared 5 tips for making the most of your employee benefits.
He touched on how to avoid redundant dependant coverage and utilizing HSAs.
This as-told-to essay is based on a transcribed conversation with Matt Phillips, 45, the assistant vice president of benefits, health operations at AT&T, from Dallas. Business Insider verified his employment with documentation. The following has been edited for length and clarity.
The benefits enrollment process is a two-way street. My department spends a lot of time on our package, but employees also need to understand and engage with those benefits so they can make the most of them.
I've worked in the HR benefits department at AT&T for over 10 years. We spend a lot of time trying to educate and inform employees on what they need to know about their benefits.
Prior to that, I worked as an actuarial consultant, where I consulted on post-employment benefits, such as pension and retiree health, and also worked for a nonprofit.
Since joining AT&T in 2013, I've worked in multiple areas of our benefits department, including in strategy and in running savings plans. Five years ago, I moved into my current role, overseeing all health and well-being operations.
1. Ask yourself key healthcare questions and consider virtual options
Asking yourself key questions can help you pick the best health plan during enrollment season.
For example, do you want to pay more or less now for your health plan?
Choosing a high-deductible plan that's cheaper in terms of what comes out of your paycheck exposes you to higher out-of-pocket costs throughout the year. I think a good idea is to pair a plan like this with an additional ancillary medical plan, like a critical illness, hospital indemnity, or accident insurance plan.
For example, my son runs cross country, and in 2022, he fractured his tibia. There were significant costs for urgent care, imaging, and a specialist appointment, but through my accident plan, I got a payment from the insurer to provide more financial security at this time.
Also, virtual care has come a long way. I often hear employees say they don't have time for preventive check-ups with primary care physicians. However, it's possible to establish an ongoing relationship with a primary care physician virtually, so I'd encourage employees to look into virtual benefits options.
This can also include virtual mental health counseling. If you feel you don't have time in your day to go see a therapist or coach, you may be able to do it over the phone.
2. Go beyond a medical plan
I spend a lot of time telling employees not to just focus on their medical plan but to ensure they're taking advantage of all the other benefits available to them.
For example, at AT&T we offer employees a robust legal plan. If you may need to do something like write a will or set up an estate plan, a legal plan can help provide services around that.
My family has also benefited from an elder care planning service under my benefits plan. The company paid for a professional to come and meet with my wife, her cousin, and me about making a plan for caring for my wife's aging aunt.
While you do have to specifically enroll in something like a legal plan, companies may give other benefits to all employees automatically. Our dependant care and mental health benefits are given to all employees without a need for enrollment, for example. Ask the HR or benefits person at your company what you're entitled to that you don't even have to enroll in.
3. Max out your 401(k) contributions and use retirement planning tools
My advice for those thinking about retirement is to make sure you're not leaving any free money on the table.
Look into your company's 401(k) match and make sure you're maxing that out.
Many employers also have a retirement planning tool that can help you. We have an online one where you can say, "I want to retire at this age, I want this much money in retirement," and it helps you build a plan for how much you should contribute to hit that goal by the time you retire.
People should also be thinking about healthcare expenses for retirement. That's likely to become a larger share of your out-of-pocket expenses once you leave a company, especially if you retire before you become Medicare-eligible. Make sure you speak about this with your advisor and think about leveraging a Health Savings Account for that.
You don't lose your HSA when you leave a company. You can contribute tax-free, interest is tax-free, and if you use it on qualified healthcare expenses, it comes out tax-free. Plus, your employer might offer to contribute to or match your HSA contributions as part of a benefits plan.
4. Avoid redundant dependant coverage
When both spouses work and have children, it doesn't make sense to cover the children under both benefits plans. You'll end up paying double out of your paychecks but not necessarily getting double the benefits out of it.
If one parent's insurer agreed to cover or make a payout for a claim, then the other parent's insurer likely wouldn't, on the basis that the family has already received coverage and potentially a payout for the claim. Insuring dependents under both parents' plans could cover potential gaps in one parent's coverage, but it's often not worth it.
Instead, parents should compare potential costs under each plan and pick the best option.
5. Reach out to people in your company who can help you
There's usually someone in your company you can contact to talk about benefits options. If it's not your direct HR person, because you're at a really large company, they will have hired resources to help you. Call that phone number, download that app, or chat with that person.
Your company will hopefully have invested in those resources to help you navigate the process; you just need to reach out and take them.
Are you a professional or consultant with advice for employees to maximize their employment? Email Charissa Cheong at [email protected]
Ashley Dunham's experience of the festive season changed after she started using a weight loss drug in 2022.
Semaglutide, one of several appetite suppressing drugs called GLP-1s, helped dampen her "food noise."
Several of Dunham's family members are also on GLP-1s, and their Thanksgiving food bill is much lower now.
The holiday season used to be conflicting for Ashley Dunham.
It was a joyous time to get together with family and friends over delicious food and drinks. But as someone who wanted to lose weight, navigating that brought internal turmoil and what felt like tests of her willpower.
Between Christmas and Thanksgiving, she expected to gain 15 pounds "just by eating pretty regularly, how I would typically eat for the holiday," she told Business Insider. And then came the grueling diets in January.
Now, everything is different.
In August 2022, Dunham, 33, from St John's, Florida, started taking a compounded form of the buzzy weight loss drug semaglutide (marketed as Ozempic and Wegovy).
The appetite-suppressing medication silenced the "food noise" in Dunham's head, meaning she ate less without trying and no longer felt guilty when she did eat. She also found she had more mental capacity to think about things aside from weight loss.
With family and friends now also on similar medications, known as GLP-1 agonists, Dunham's festive get-togethers have changed drastically, she said.
Her family isn't alone: The KFF Health Tracking Poll estimated in June 2024 that one in eight Americans either take or has taken one of these medications. While the drugs have been game-changing for many, others have experienced negative side effects, such as nausea and constipation that was so bad that they came off them.
Dunham experienced nausea, migraines, and constipation in her first few months on the medication but they faded with time.
Dunham used to gain weight every holiday season
2024 is Dunham's third holiday season on the weight loss drug.
In 2022, the year she started semaglutide, injecting it once a week, she lost 12 pounds between Thanksgiving and Christmas. "I could barely finish my plate," she said.
After 17 months on the medication, Dunham transitioned to what she described as a maintenance dose, which she continues to take every 10 to 14 days. In 2023, she was able to finish her plates of food, but prioritized protein and was satisfied without overindulging. Those on GLP-1s are advised to eat a high-protein diet and regularly exercise, including strength training, to minimize muscle loss.
Before taking semaglutide, Dunham used to tell herself she couldn't have any festive treats and then feel guilty if she did.
Now, she said she can happily go to festive events, enjoy one drink and one cookie, and be satisfied.
"I'm not scared that the cookie is going to have some negative repercussion," Dunham said. "I've lost a lot of the guilt from enjoying the holidays."
Dunham's Thanksgiving food shop was significantly smaller this year
At her Thanksgiving table this year, half the group was on a weight loss medication, Dunham said.
This meant that instead of buying and preparing green beans for 10, for example, Dunham cooked for six to reduce food waste, she said.
Dunham lives with her husband and six-year-old son, and since he started using GLP-1s five months ago, the family's grocery bill has dropped by about 50%, Dunham said.
"On a crazy month, we would typically spend $1,200 or Β£1,300 on groceries, but now we spend more like $600 or $700," she said.
She no longer makes weight loss New Year's resolutions
Before taking semaglutide, Dunham would resolve to lose weight at the start of every year.
"I don't really recall a year, even when I was in a smaller body, that I didn't have a resolution to lose weight," Dunham said. "Even when I was really skinny, it was always just about losing weight."
At the turn of 2024, for the first time, Dunham decided she no longer needed to.
Dunham said semaglutide has also come with cognitive benefits, such as improved focus. Her goals were to read more books and achieve things that had nothing to do with her weight, food, or calories.
"It was so freeing," Dunham said, "and a little jarring too because when your life no longer revolves around your weight, you have so much more brain space to actually achieve for your greater good, and even the greater good of society. Who knows?"
The AI computing market may shift in 2025, opening opportunities for smaller companies.
Nvidia dominates AI computing. Evolving workloads could benefit competitors.
Companies like Groq, Positron, and SambaNova focus on inference to challenge Nvidia's market hold.
In 2025, the tides may turn for companies hoping to compete with the $3 trillion gorilla in AI computing.
Nvidia holds an estimated 90% of the market share for AI computing. Still, as the use of AI grows,Β workloads are expected to change, and this evolution may give companies with competitive hardware an opening.
In 2024, the majority of AI compute spend shifted to inference, Thomas Sohmers, CEO of chip startup Positron AI, told BI. This will "continue to grow on what looks like an exponential curve," he added.
In AI, inference is the computation needed to produce the response to a user's query or request. The computing required to teach the model the knowledge needed to answer is called "training." Creating OpenAI's image generation platform Sora, for example, represents training. Each user who instructs it to create an image represents an inference workload.
OpenAI's other models have Sohmers and others excited about the growth in computing needs in 2025.
Simply put, if the models think more before they answer, the responses are better. That thinking comes at a cost of time and money.
The startups vying for some of Nvidia's market share are attempting to optimize one or both.
Nvidia already benefits from these innovations, CEO Jensen Huang said on the company's November earnings call. Huang's wannabe competitors are betting that in 2025, new post-training strategies for AI will benefit all purveyors of inference chips.
Business Insider spoke to three challengers about their hopes and expectations for 2025. Here are their New Year's resolutions.
What's one thing within your control that could make 2025 a big year for alternative chips?
Mark Heaps, chief technology evangelist, Groq:
"Execution, execution, execution. Right now, everybody at Groq has decided not to take a holiday break this year. Everyone is executing and building the systems. We are all making sure that we deliver to the opportunity that we've got because that is in our control.
I tell everyone our funnel right now is carbonated and bubbling over. It's unbelievable, the amount of customer interest. We have to build more systems, and we have to stand up those systems so we can serve the demand that we've got. We want to serve all those customers. We want to increase rate limits for everybody."
Rodrigo Liang, CEO, SambaNova Systems:
"For SambaNova, the most critical factor is executing on the shift from training to inference. The industry is moving rapidly toward real-time applications, and inference workloads are becoming the lion's share of AI demand. Our focus is on ensuring our technology enables enterprises to scale efficiently and sustainably."
Thomas Sohmers, CEO, Positron:
"My belief is if we can actually deploy enough compute β which thankfully I think we can from a supply chain perspective β by deploying significantly more inference-specific compute, we're going to be able to grow the adoption rate of 'chain of thoughts' and other inference-additional compute."
What's one thing you're hoping for that's not in your control for 2025?
Heaps:
"It's about customers recognizing that there are novel advancements against incumbent technologies. There's a lot of folks that have told us, 'We like what you have, but to use the old adage and rephrase it: No one ever got fired for buying from β insert incumbent.'
But we know that it's starting to boil up. People are realizing it's hard for them to get chips from the incumbent, and it's also not as performant as Groq is. So my wish would be that people are willing to take that chance and actually look to some of these new technologies."
Liang:
"If I had a magic wand, I'd address the power challenges around deploying AI. Today, most of the market is stuck using power-hungry hardware that wasn't designed for inference at scale. The result is an unsustainable approach β economically and environmentally.
At SambaNova, we've proven there's a better way. Our architecture consumes 10 times less power, making it possible for enterprises to deploy AI systems that meet their goals without blowing past their power budgets or carbon targets. I'd like to see the market move faster toward adopting technologies that prioritize efficiency and sustainability β because that's how we ensure AI can scale globally without overwhelming the infrastructure that supports it."
Sohmers:
"I would like people to actually adopt these chain of thought capabilities at the fastest rate possible. I think that is a huge shift β from a capabilities perspective. You have 8 billion parameter models surpassing 70 billion parameter models. So I'm trying to do everything I can to make that happen."
What's your New Year's resolution?
Heaps:
"In the last six months, I've gone to a number of hackathons, and I've met developers. It's deeply inspiring. So my New Year's resolution is to try to amplify the signal of the good that people are doing with AI."
Liang:
"Making time for music. Playing guitar is something I've always loved, and I would love to get back into it. Music has this incredible way of clearing the mind and sparking creativity, which I find invaluable as we work to bring SambaNova's AI to new corners of the globe."
Sohmers:
I want to do as much to encourage the usage of these new tools to help, you know, my mom. Part of the reason I got into technology was because I wanted to see these tools lift up people to be able to do more with their time β to learn everything that they want beyond whatever job they're in. I think that bringing the cost down of these things will enable that proliferation.
I also personally want to see and try to use more of these things outside of my just work context because I've been obsessively using the o1 Pro model for the past few weeks, and it's been amazing for my personal work. But when I gave access to my mom what she would do with it was pretty interesting β those sort of normal, everyday person tasks for these things where it truly is being an assistant."
Navigating a career can be challenging, especially at the start.
BI asked senior Wall Street leaders for their best pieces of advice for climbing the ranks.
Interviewees hold top positions at Goldman Sachs, JPMorgan, BlackRock, and more.
What does it take to get to the top? Well, who better to ask than those who are already there?
Navigating a career can be challenging, especially in a rapidly changing economy. But those in senior leadership roles on Wall Street have cracked that code, climbing the ranks through their decades of experience.
Because these top Wall Street money managers, economists, and strategists are among those best-positioned to offer career advice, BI asked them in recent interviews for the top pieces of wisdom they would pass along to those just starting out.
David Kostin, chief US equity strategist at Goldman Sachs
Takeaway:Prioritize going to the office
"Show up in the office," Kostin said. "I can't imagine how a young person is going to actually absorb all the dimensionality of what's happening in the client relationships and with their work and colleagues and not be in the office."
Kostin's advice is simple, but it comes at a time when a massive debate is raging about various companies' RTO policies. In Kostin's view, working in person is critical to developing your career early on.
Mike Wilson, CIO and chief US equity strategist at Morgan Stanley
Takeaway: Bet on yourself, and be OK with being wrong
"You've got to be willing to go take a stand on stuff, whether it's in a meeting, with people you report to, pointing out things that you don't agree with, kind of making a firm stance," Wilson said.
Wilson says this boils down to being open to taking on "personal risk," or the chance that the argument you're making could be wrong β or right.
"On Wall Street, personal risk often means taking contrarian views because that's where the real money is made and accepting the idea that you're going to be wrong along the way. I think ultimately how you deal with those consequences will determine whether you're successful or not," he added.
Rick Rieder, CIO of global fixed income at BlackRock
Takeaway: Understand how technology is trending
As the biggest firms in the world pour money into AI development, Rieder said that those who are early in their careers should think about how the economy might look in the years ahead as robotics and AI increasingly augment our lives.
"For young people today, understand where that's going to happen and how you take advantage of that β I think it's a really, really big deal," he continued. "I think we've left status quo, and we're moving to a whole new era."
Anna Wong, chief US economist at Bloomberg Economics
Takeaway:Be curious despite consensus, and come to a conclusion only after stress-testing it
"Constantly being curious, even if there might not be an obvious payoff to it," Wong, who previously worked at the Federal Reserve, said for her first piece of advice. "If investing is about finding what the market has not priced in, then what people have not priced in usually are in the details. For me, I have learned to be attuned to that little voice inside my head that sounds a tiny alarm in cases where I am about to make some broad assumptions."
Second, when it comes to forecasting, Wong said to consider if a conclusion is still valid after considering multiple arguments and points of view.
"The way I decide on whether to make an out-of-consensus call is to see whether it's possible to arrive at a forecast in many different ways," she said. "Most times I take as the forecast the middle of those ways β and that could at times be totally out of consensus, and at times be smack in the middle of consensus."
One of Wong's current out-of-consensus calls is that there's a 60% chance the US economy is headed toward or already in a recession.
Michael Feroli, chief US economist at JPMorgan
Takeaway:Treat every job as a learning opportunity, even if it's not what you see yourself doing long-term
Landing your dream job at the very start of your professional life is a rare occurrence. More often than not, you may find yourself at a job that isn't a great fit or isn't aligned with your long-term goals.
However, there's a lot to be learned while figuring out your career. "Do your hardest at the job you're currently at, even if it's not the job you love," Feroli said. "Whatever you're doing now will help you get to where you want to be."
Rob Arnott, founder of Research Affiliates
Takeaway:Enjoy what you do, and challenge widely accepted beliefs
"First piece of advice: Do what you love," Arnott said. "Because if you don't do what you love, you probably won't be very good at it. And if you do what you love, you're going to have fun even if you're not wildly successful."
He continued: "Second: Never accept conventional wisdom as true. Always be curious. I've made a career out of listening to conventional wisdom and thinking, 'Gosh, has anyone tested that?' And I go and test it, and half the time it turns out to be true β and fine β and half the time it turns out to be a myth."
Invesco, PIMCO, and Charles Schwab all use Arnott's alternative indexes as the bases of various mutual funds and ETFs they offer. Arnott recently told BI that market consensus around AI could be too bullish, and large-cap growth stocks may be in for a rough patch.
Wei Li, global chief investment strategist at BlackRock
Takeaway:Take time to explore interests outside of work
It may seem counterintuitive, but the key to Li's career success has been making time for new experiences outside work.
"Don't only spend time on the things immediately useful to you in your seat right now," Li said. "The world is so unpredictable. Other things you could absorb may end up being helpful to you in ways that you don't even know."
Hobbies that she's picked up over the years, such as learning about cryptocurrency or studying Italian, have opened doors in her life that she could not have foreseen.
Li believes having diverse experiences is especially important in a post-AI world: "These days, I really force myself to experience things that have nothing to do with my job because it trains my brain in ways that my job doesn't. Who knows, it could become useful in the future and in an environment where we just don't know where the future is," she said.
Institutionalization was one of the biggest themes in hedge funds this year.
A once-scrappy industry is starting to resemble private equity and venture capital.
The biggest firms and new launches have evolved significantly from the days of a couple of guys and a Bloomberg.
The game has changed.
Hedge funds, led by the industry's biggest names who set the agenda for the multi-trillion-dollar sector, were once known for their scrappiness, speed, and reliance on the brains and vision of their founders.
Now, as the industry's investor base has shifted to long-term institutions from wealthy families and small funds-of-funds, hedge funds have become institutions of their own. 2024 may be the turning point for the space that, in 10 years' time, industry observers will look back on as the beginning of the next era.
The biggest managers in the space are preparing for life beyond their founders, long-standing funds are becoming more formulaic and bureaucratic, and new entrants need to raise more money than ever before.
Multistrategy managers like Millennium, Citadel, and Point72 have long been moving in this direction, but recent moves by each of the firms' founders point to a world in which these giants outlast their larger-than-life leaders.
Ken Griffin, Citadel's billionaire founder, said in November that he would be open to selling a stake in his $66 billion Miami-based asset manager. Millennium and the world's largest asset manager BlackRock have reportedly had talks about the latter taking a stake in the former.
Both firms are set to outlast their founders, with built-out infrastructure and leadership teams littered with former Goldman Sachs partners. $72 billion Millennium, for example, created the office of the CIO in late 2022 and promoted longtime executive Ajay Nagpal to president, providing investors with a clear line into the next level of leadership beyond founder Izzy Englander.
The legendary founder of $35 billion Point72, meanwhile, has stepped away from trading his own book of stocks, which is how he burst onto the scene decades ago.
While Steve Cohen spends plenty of time and money on the baseball team he owns, the New York Mets, a person close to the firm said the decision to step back from running a book was not an indication that he's spending any less time working at his manager.
In a recent internal town hall, this person said, he described no longer having a book under his purview as "freeing" as he can spend more time on strategic initiatives for the firm. Without a portfolio to manage, the market's hours no longer dictate Cohen's schedule β a flexibility he appreciates as he balances running the manager and his baseball team.
For example, in mid-October, Cohen was set to appear on a panel at investment consultant Albourne Partners' annual conference in New York, but canceled because the Mets had gone on a run in the playoffs, people familiar with the event told Business Insider.
Succession, quality launches, and a promising environment
Beyond the main multistrategy names, a number of long-running firms across the industry are, structurally, starting to look more like peers in private equity than smaller rivals in the hedge fund space.
Places like Elliott Management centralized decision-making and created more internal structure, which has frustrated some veterans of Paul Singer's asset manager but provides the needed hierarchy.
Meanwhile, firms like Two Sigma and Bridgewater have officially moved on from their founders with new leadership. Brevan Howard's billionaire founder Alan Howard no longer trades for his firm.
At the other end of the industry, the bar for new launches has increased substantially, and the next generation of industry leaders are starting the firms with a much more institutional feel than even five years ago. Bobby Jain's $5.3 billion launch in July, for example, had plenty of big-name hires and titles right from the start.
In 2023, the average fund launched with $300 million, according to Goldman Sachs' prime brokerage division. PivotalPath, the industry data tracker run by Jon Caplis, said in an end-of-year report that it expects 2024 to be similar, driven by the increase of multi-managers allocating externally.
It's been driven by a focus from allocators on "quality" launches, PivotalPath's report states; the firm is tracking 145 new funds launching between the start of 2024 and the second quarter of 2025 with founders who come from funds with more than $1 billion.
If you're able to command enough capital β either from a platform like Millennium or big allocators like pensions, sovereign wealth funds, and endowments β it should be worth it. Longtime industry players and investors believe it is shaping up to be a strong period for the industry thanks to increased volatility that will allow actively managed investment firms to shine.
"Our underlying hedge fund managers are active, fundamental stock pickers who seek to identify the best opportunities and offer differentiated exposure," wrote New York-based fund-of-funds Old Farm Partners in a recent note that focused on why active management should shine in the coming years.
"Given the argument that we have laid out in this paper, we think the current market backdrop should provide a favorable setup for our strategy going forward."
Crisis PR is in the spotlight after Blake Lively filed a blockbuster complaint against Justin Baldoni.
Lively's suit alleges Baldoni smeared her in the press in retaliation for harassment complaints.
Crisis management experts say tough tactics are part of the game but warned against going too far.
What started as the story of a bombshell lawsuit from a famous actor against her director and costar has since turned into a tale of two PR campaigns and a reckoning in the broader public relations industry.
After Blake Lively filed a complaint Friday accusing Justin Baldoni of sexual harassment on the set of their film "It Ends with Us" and a retaliatory smear campaign in the press, publicists were abuzz picking apart how both camps responded to the news.
A key asset in Lively's suit is the reams of messages included that paint a picture in which Baldoni, his publicist Jennifer Abel, and crisis management expert Melissa Nathan detail plans to direct the conversation away from Lively's sexual harassment allegations by enlisting journalists and an online fixer to create, publish, and amplify negative stories about her.
The messages in the suit β and its allegations of astroturfing, a controversial practice in public relationsthat exists in a legal grey area β offer a peek behind the curtain of crisis PR, one that industry figures who spoke with BI say is giving their profession a bad name.
"Who is the real victim behind the smear campaign?" Molly McPherson, a crisis communications manager, said in an Instagram post breaking down her thoughts on Lively and Baldoni's ordeal. "It's PR. It's public relations."
The lawsuit introduced crisis PR and the practice of astroturfing to the general public
Hollywood is full of public relations firms big and small. Most work with studios, distributors, or directly with talent in the day-to-day grind of promoting their work, building relationships with the media and influencers.
Crisis management is an entirely different animal. They're called in when a controversy or scandal hits the client that's too out of hand for the publicist to deal with on their own.
"A crisis management person is hired to make sure all the assets are protected," a veteran crisis management publicist told BI. Unlike regular publicists, who "don't want to get their hands dirty," crisis PR firms are trained for this very purpose. "I know how to bob and weave, jump in and jump out," the source added.
The proposed campaign to damage Lively's reputation, as outlined in her complaint via quotes from Nathan's messages to Abel and Baldoni, included "social manipulation" on platforms like Reddit and "full social account take downs." In the messages, Nathan suggested having a full social crisis team on hand to "start threads of theories" about Lively and Baldoni's rumored feud, and the "creation of social fan engagement to go back and forth with any negative accounts, helping to change [sic] narrative and stay on track."
"All of this will be most importantly untraceable," Lively's suit quotes Nathan as saying.
Lively's lawsuit argues that these tactics in Abel and Nathan's alleged smear campaign on behalf of Baldoni went "well beyond standard crisis PR" by deploying the controversial practice of astroturfing, a tactic that, when applied to public relations, involves publishing sentiments on the internet or in the media to falsely create the illusion of public consensus or a "grassroots movement."
"Millions of people (including many reporters and influencers) who saw these planted stories, social media posts, and other online content had no idea they were unwitting consumers of a crisis PR, astroturfing, and digital retaliation campaign," Lively's suit reads, adding that the campaign blurred "the line between authentic and manufactured content, and creating viral public takedowns."
The crisis management experts who spoke to BI didn't see anything wrong with Baldoni's team coming up with worst-case scenarios for how to change the narrative were Lively to take her harassment allegations public. Several PR people say tough tactics are part of the game. But they were split on the tactic of astroturfing.
"It's not frowned upon, just amateurish," the veteran crisis management publicist said. "It gives experts a bad name. Like they saw it work in a movie and thought it was a brilliant idea."
Other Hollywood publicists were more stern in their assessment.
"I honestly thought it was used more in politics than entertainment," one longtime entertainment publicist told BI. "That's just a dirty tactic."
Baldoni's lawyer Bryan Freedman called Lively's claims against Baldoni "completely false, outrageous, and intentionally salacious."
In a follow-up statement, he said Nathan's company The Agency Group (TAG PR), which was hired by Baldoni, "operated as any crisis management firm would when hired by a client experiencing threats by two extremely powerful people with unlimited resources," a reference to Lively and her husband Ryan Reynolds.
"The standard scenario planning TAG PR drafted proved unnecessary as audiences found Lively's own actions, interviews and marketing during the promotional tour distasteful, and responded organically to that which the media themselves picked up on," the statement added.
BI contacted Abel and Nathan and didn't receive a response about PR tactics.
Experts say Baldoni's camp also made one key mistake
For all the PR wizardry happening as both sides respond to the story in the press, there's one move Abel and Nathan made that the veteran crisis management publicist said was a huge mistake.
"Never put anything in texts," the vet crisis management publicist said. "That was a rookie move."
The consequences are still unfolding. On Tuesday, Stephanie Jones, the owner of the publicity firm that represented Baldoni before Abel broke out on her own, sued the actor, Abel, and Nathan accusing Abel and Nathan of orchestrating a smear campaign against both Lively and herself behind her back and accusing Abel of covertlystealing Jones' clients when exiting the firm.
In an email Tuesday, Abel provided BI with a different account of how she left Jones' firm, including text messages showing she submitted her resignation and was open with plans to start her own public relations firm.
Now, even crisis managers need crisis managers to repair the profession's image.
"It does give the industry a black eye, and I think it should be a cautionary tale," a prominent industry figure who runs a crisis management firm told BI.
"If you don't know that you can't go that far," the person said, if you don't know that you can't "dupe media, that's troublesome."
More than 3,400 older Americans have shared their financial and other regrets with Business Insider.
Some older adults reflected on how parenthood shaped their finances.
This is part of an ongoing series about older Americans' regrets.
For many people, raising children is the most fulfilling aspect of their lives. But dozens of older US parents told Business Insider that knowing what they know now, they might have made different financial decisions.
Since mid-September, over 3,400 Americans ages 48 to 96 have responded to Business Insider reader surveys or emailed reporters about their life regrets. One survey included the question "What advice would you give someone trying to decide when β or if β they have children?"
Hundreds of respondents said they had children when they were too young and financially unstable, delayed their career to raise a family, or spent too much or too little on their kids. Many said their decisions as young parents had lasting effects. Though many more mothers shared their parenting regrets than fathers, both shared very similar parenting regrets.
It's not all bad, though. ManyΒ parents said theirΒ financialΒ and professionalΒ sacrificesΒ were worth it to build strong relationships with their children. Others saidΒ that they did the best they could but that some parenting costs were unavoidable.
All of them stressed that despite having some financial or professional regrets, they love their children and had few regrets about how they raised them.
BI identified five common financial parenting regrets and interviewed seven parents. This story is part of an ongoing series.
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Some parents wish they'd waited to have children until their careers were more established
Many respondents said they wished they had waited to have a baby until they were more financially stable. The high costs of childcare and housing made it difficult for some parents to set aside savings for emergencies or retirement, especially early in their careers. An analysis by Northwestern Mutual last year found that the average cost to raise a child until age 18 wasΒ about $300,000.
Judy Taylor, 72, told BI she loves her children but regretted having them in her early 20s. Taylor, who lives in Georgia, said she and her husband weren't established enough professionally to afford children and build savings for retirement. When they divorced after 16 years, Taylor shouldered additional costs as a single parent.
Taylor said she had little savings left and relied on slightly over $2,000 in monthly Social Security. If she missed a check, she'd be "dead in the water," she said.
"Babies are so precious," Taylor said. "But having another life to be responsible for can be overwhelming. Just be sure you're ready for that."
Jessica Douieb, the head of wealth partners at JPMorgan, advised that families build a wealth plan focused on short- and long-term goals that factors in education, tax planning, cash-flow management, investments, charitable giving, insurance, and estate planning.
"A frequent misstep is failing to plan for the long term," Douieb said. "In many cases, having children can delay retirement, requiring parents to work longer to support their children, which can affect financial security in later years."
Roxanne Lewis, 61, a mental-health case manager, relied on child support and food stamps to pay her bills as a single mother, though she later remarried and held stable jobs. She said she wished she'd had a nest egg and an established career before having the first of her seven children.
"When I was younger, I didn't think about retirement," Lewis said. "It was mainly about getting the bills paid, making sure the children had clothes and food. It wasn't even a thought in my mind, and nobody had ever mentioned it."
Lewis, who lives in East Texas, said she didn't often speak with them about retirement savings. She intends to work until 67, and while her finances improved after a raise in 2022, she's worried about how retirement may look with a few thousand dollars in the bank.
"I wish that I spent more time with my kids," Lewis said. "Money was a big thing for me, focusing on having enough money so they had what they needed, so I was always stressed."
Some said they spent too much on their children
A few dozen respondents said that while they felt that many of their financial investments in their children were worth it, they regretted spoiling their children β such as buying them a car when finances were tight β or not encouraging them to become financially independent. A few said they were burdened by letting their children live with them after college or stay on their insurance plans.
"I cannot emphasize enough the importance of having ongoing, open discussions about money, reinforcing values like responsibility and self-sufficiency," Douieb said. "When they reach the right age, teaching children about saving, investing, and planning can help them become financially literate and independent, which will help them in the long run."
Some divorced parents described the financial toll of raising children alone or with limited support
Several respondents said divorce and single parenting affected their retirement plans. Some said they struggled to support a family without a second income or with limited child support, while others said being a stay-at-home parent meant they didn't have much savings after a divorce.
A BI analysis of 2023 individual-level census data found that divorced people had lower average 401(k) balances, less savings, and a more limited monthly retirement income than married people. It also found that just 38% of divorced people had a retirement account.
Nina Teasley, 65, lives on less than $2,000 in Social Security in Bethesda, Maryland. Teasley, a mom of four, was a stay-at-home mom for most of her adult life but divorced about 25 years ago. Though Teasley's children are now adults, she said she still felt the financial impact of her divorce.
Teasley said that while being so present in her children's lives was wonderful, she had no savings or retirement plan. When she and her husband split, Teasley took a customer-service job to support herself and her children, but the income wasn't enough to build a nest egg. Now Teasley isn't sure she can fully retire and worries about becoming a financial burden on her adult children.
"I thought I would be married forever," Teasley said. "I married a man who wanted to take care of me and the kids. But I wish I had not let that be. I wish I had decided to go to work and stay at work."
Michelle Patello, a vice president and wealth-management advisor at TIAA, said that there isn't one single approach to raising children after a divorce and that splitting expenses equally isn't always the answer.
"It's important to consider the different income levels when splitting costs," she said.
Some said they regretted being stay-at-home parents
The Pew Research Center found in 2023 that about four in five stay-at-home parents were women. Spending time outside the workforce to raise children meant many moms had less income to build savings and lower Social Security checks.
Older Americans' monthly Social Security income is based on the years they spent in the workforce. Stay-at-home parents' time spent raising children isn't counted toward their retirement benefit.
Wendy DeBord, 73, said she returned to work too late after having her children. DeBord, who lives in Toledo, Ohio, had her first child at 23 and had two more by 28. For 12 years she was a stay-at-home mom and ran a day care at her house. At 45, with little work experience, she took a job as a receptionist at an orthodontist's office. She worked her way up to becoming a public-relations coordinator.
"When I entered the workforce at age 45, I had to start on the bottom rung, so I barely made it to the middle of the ladder by age 70," DeBord said, adding she had a divorce at 50 that hurt her retirement planning.
She said that staying home with her children still felt like the right move, and she cherished watching them grow up. But she said that she started building her 401(k) late and that she reached $300,000 in savings, which she described as sufficient, at 70. She gets about $2,000 monthly in Social Security, which she claimed at 70.
Douieb stressed that stay-at-home-parenting considerations go beyond a parent's finances.
"A child's financial future will be more determined by instilling strong values around money management and savings from an early age," Douieb said. "Parents can create a nurturing environment where financial literacy is emphasized, teaching children the importance of budgeting, investing, and responsible spending."
Adults without children have regrets, too
Though many older parents said they regretted how they handled finances while raising a family, few said they regretted having children. "Every parent wants their child to have a better life than they did β he is the one thing I did right," one survey respondent wrote.
Others said they were happily child-free. "I have no children and no regrets," one person said.
Christopher Gilbert, 61, said he helped raise his nephew but might have been more fulfilled if he had raised children of his own, even with the financial burden. He said he couldn't start a family because of laws banning same-sex marriage, which became fully legal in the US in 2015.
Now gay people "can get married and have kids," Gilbert said, "but that came a little bit late for me."
Gilbert, who lives in Bradenton, Florida, said that while he had some retirement savings, he planned to work his job at a convenience store for as long as possible because it keeps him active and social.
Patello said that Americans should proactively plan for retirement regardless of whether they're parents. "The earlier, the better," Patello said. Even reducing your contributions but continuing to save can make all the difference for you and your family."
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Research identifies digital hoarding as a subtype of hoarding disorder, affecting mental health.
Digital hoarding is linked to anxiety, causing stress and disorganization.
Accumulation of digital photos and videos over the years has caused me severe stress.
"No way, I'd completely forgotten about this video! I'm so glad you held on to it for so many years!"
I used to love hearing my friends tell me any variation of this sentence. It was a glowing affirmation that holding on to my 6TB iCloud storage plan was the right move.
For years I'd taken it upon myself to be the group historian, to record the small moments at every event.
Then one day, I found myself curled up sobbing on the floor after being locked out of my 867 GB-strong Google Photos app.
Surely that was an extreme reaction, my friends said" "They're just pictures. Wait, you said how many GB?!"
I looked it up, and their concern was warranted. It turns out, I may be a digital hoarder.
What is digital hoarding?
Digital hoarding was first introduced as a potential subtype of hoarding disorder in 2015 after a case report in the British Medical Journal described a man who took thousands of pictures a week and showed reluctance to discard any of them.
The paper described digital hoarding as the "accumulation of digital files to the point of loss of perspective, which eventually results in stress and disorganization."
Although hoarding disorder has been documented as a mental illness in the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, there has been very little research done on the digital aspect of it, save testimonials on the internet.
In a 2022 study with 846 participants, Darshana Sedera, assistant Dean at Southern Cross University, found that there was a definite link between digital hoarding and anxiety.
Nick Neave, director of the Hoarding Research Group, told me it was a sort of chicken-and-egg situation.
"A person whose levels of anxiety are slightly higher anyway tends to be driven toward digital hoarding and then tends to be more anxious when things start to unravel," said Neave.
"You want to take a very good picture, but you're anxious that you take the wrong picture or that you would delete that picture by mistake, so that you take many more pictures."
"Then you get even more anxious because you start to worry about storage, you start to worry about the cost, and oh no, what happens if all of those pictures get deleted?" he continued.
The signs were all there
He said that even though there's no formal diagnosis, I "ticked all the boxes" for being a digital hoarder.
When I looked back, the signs were all there. A screenshots folder filled to the brim with chat snippets from a decade ago, multiple Instagram accounts I created to upload my memories onto in case my Google Drive storage ran out, hundreds of GB worth of video call screen recordings I never once watched again.
The worst part is the accumulation over the years means that it will take me a long, long time to sit and delete the things I don't want anymore β and that doesn't just apply to photos and videos.
The internet seems bent on building up digital assets on my online presence with every minute.
Do you want to make cute compilation videos about the trip you just went on? Better be ready with about 50 different clips and 20-ish backup ones to be safe.
Instagram and TikTok let you post at least 20 pictures on one single carousel post now.
My bills all come online, which means I download the PDFs but also take screenshots because what if I can't find the PDF when I need it? My inbox is full of spam, but I can't hit "delete all" because what if there were useful promo codes in there, or my flight tickets went to the wrong folder and accidentally got deleted?
What's the alternative? Sift through hundreds of emails to find the three useful ones and delete the rest? Best to hold on to all of it, I told myself, ignoring the red notice that I've used up 96% of my storage.
Unpacking why exactly I can't part with my towering stash is probably best addressed through multiple therapy sessions, but my digital hoarding tendencies definitely have something to do with an underlying fear of forgetting and being forgotten.
How it all started
I know it started from a good place. Every time I saw a picture of little Hannah or heard my brother's voice before its current cracked adult iteration, I would smile and be infinitely glad I saved it.
Every time I chanced across a conversation from my teenage Google Hangouts phase, I sent it to my friends and we laughed about who we used to be and how far we've come.
I'm not sure when exactly it intensified into the obsession that it became, one that sent me into a weeklong spiral when I realized Instagram story archives from five years ago had irreversibly turned all my videos into static frames.
It genuinely felt like chunks of my memory were gone forever.
"The onus is largely and squarely on the online storage providers to provide us with indexing," said Darshana Sedera, adding that it would help with categorizing digital assets and make it easier to decide which ones to let go of.
He also said that setting aside time regularly to declutter your digital life is crucial to minimizing buildup.
Down the minimalist decluttering rabbit hole I go then. Hopefully, I come out the other side with a happier headline and several TBs lighter.
South Korea's national assembly impeached acting president Han Duck-soo on Friday.
Han took over from President Yoon Suk Yeol on December 14.
Yoon was impeached after declaring martial law for several hours.
South Korean lawmakers impeached the country's acting president, Han Duck-soo on Friday, just two weeks after he had taken up the post.
Han, who is also the country's prime minister, took over from President Yoon Suk Yeol. Yoon was impeached after declaring martial law in South Korea on December 3.
The Democratic Party, South Korea's main opposition party, filed a motion to impeach Han on December 26.
While impeaching a president requires a two-thirds majority in the 300-seat National Assembly, impeaching a prime minister only requires a simple majority of lawmakers. 192 lawmakers voted on Friday to impeach Han.
Han has been suspended from his duties immediately. The country's finance minister, Choi Sang-mok, is next in line for the acting presidency.
The opposition moved against Han after he refused to appoint three judges to fill the nine-member constitutional court bench.
The constitutional court is the bench that will rule on Yoon's removal from office.
There are currently six justices, and six votes are needed to remove Yoon. This poses a potential obstacle ousting Yoon permanently, as the loss of one vote will allow him to continue to remain president.
The South Korean won on Friday fell to its lowest level against the dollar since 2009.
This story is developing, please check back for more updates.