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Making my own bread is my favorite way to save money on groceries. Here are my top 8 sourdough tips for beginners.

1 March 2025 at 04:26
loaf of sourdough bread on display
I've learned a lot of tips for making sourdough bread at home.

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  • I love to bake and am particularly fond of making my own sourdough bread.
  • It isn't the easiest process, but I think there are simple ways for beginners to get started.
  • Investing in a mixer and figuring out your favorite seasoning blends can speed up the process.

Baking my own bread has been a great way to save money β€” I don't have to drop $5 or more on a nice loaf at the store. Plus, spending time in the kitchen is a phenomenal stress reducer for me.

Sourdough is one of my favorite things to bake. However, getting it right can be tricky.

Unlike most breads, sourdough doesn't use the kind of dry yeast you can buy at the store. It rises with the help of a starter, which is a fermented mixture of flour and water that, over time, develops its own wild yeast and bacteria.

The live culture is what gives the loaves their delicious sour flavor.

Here are my best beginner-friendly tips for making your own sourdough at home.

Be patient with your starter.
jar of active sourdough starter
It takes a bit of time to develop a strong sourdough starter.

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It can take between one and two weeks for a new sourdough starter to become strong enough to use in a recipe. Luckily, the actual process of making one is pretty easy.

I like to start by mixing ΒΌ cup warm water and Β½ cup whole-wheat flour in a large jar. Cover the mix with plastic wrap and let it rest for one day in an environment between 70 and 75 degrees Fahrenheit.

On day two, uncover and stir your mix. Cover it for another day.

On day three, discard half of the contents of your jar. Then, "feed" the starter by adding Β½ cup of all-purpose flour and ΒΌ cup of water back and mixing it together.

Cover the mixture, and let it rest for another day.

Repeat this every day until your starter has essentially doubled in size from day one. You can measure this by placing a rubber band around the initial level of the starter.

You'll know it's strong if it's fluffy and full of bubbles with a nice scent.

While feeding your starter, use the discard for other recipes
sourdough rolls on a counter
I like to make discard sourdough rolls sometimes.

Meredith Schneider

Every time you feed your sourdough starter, you have to discard some of the mixture to make space in your container.

Some people choose to feed their refrigerated starter once a week, while others will feed it once or even twice a day. It just depends on your needs.

If having to literally throw away this flour and water mix feels too wasteful to you, you can use the discard to make something else.

There are so many great discard recipes out there, from crackers, granola, cinnamon rolls, and cookies to flatbread, biscuits, bagels, and pancakes.

If you don't have time though, you can also compost the discard.

Choose your utensils wisely.
a plastic bowl and a rubber spatula
I like to use a ceramic bowl and a silicone spatula.

Meredith Schneider

There's much debate in the sourdough community about whether it's safe to use metal bowls and utensils while making the bread. In some instances, like with aluminum, the metal can be corrosive, which doesn't mix well with the acidic starter.

However, for the most part, 100% stainless steel won't impact your dough.

That said, stainless steel can be expensive, especially if you don't already have a good collection in your kitchen. I prefer to bypass metal entirely and use a glass or ceramic bowl, wooden spoon, and silicone spatula to mix my ingredients.

Always sift your flour.
hand mixing flour in a metal bowl
Sifting the flour can lead to an airier sourdough loaf.

Meredith Schneider

If you're trying to achieve a fluffy, airy texture with many holes throughout your loaf β€” a big draw of sourdough bread β€” sift your flour before mixing it with the other ingredients.

This essentially aerates it and helps to create a fluffier texture in your bread. If you don't have a fine mesh strainer or sieve, you can just use a whisk or fork to toss the dry flour around.

I also like to sift the flour I add to my sourdough starter each time I feed it to enhance its texture.

Invest in a mixer.
black kitchenaid mixer on a counter
I love my KitchenAid mixer.

Meredith Schneider

A stand or handheld mixer can be really helpful while making sourdough. It gets the mixing done without leaving me with messy, sticky hands.

I'm especially grateful for my KitchenAid mixer on high-volume baking days. Mixing everything by hand requires a lot of effort.

I highly recommend looking into investing in one if you're making sourdough as your main source of bread.

Don't forget to season your bread.
three seasoning blends lined up on a table
Seasoning blends make things even easier.

Meredith Schneider

I'm not an expert at scoring my loaves or making fancy designs on top. However, I do strongly believe you should season sourdough.

I simply scatter a seasoning blend across the top of the loaf before baking to add style and flavor.

My favorite blend to use right now is an Asiago-flavored everything-bagel seasoning, but sprigs of rosemary and fancy salts are just as attractive, tasty, and fun.

Perfect your egg wash.
a carton of milk, an egg, and a glass
An egg wash can give your loaf an attractive crust.

Meredith Schneider

If you're adding loose seasonings or herbs to your loaf, you'll want to use an egg wash to make sure everything sticks. It's also a great way to create a beautiful outer crust.

If you want your crust to be more brown, mix an egg with water β€” the less water you use, the darker your crust will be.

If you'd like a shinier, lighter crust, though, mix your egg with a splash of milk or heavy cream instead.

Water is the secret to a great sourdough loaf.
someone filling a measuring cup with water from a sink
Adding water to a loaf can make it fluffier.

Meredith Schneider

Water helps to keep the surface of the bread flexible. The more water you add to your recipe, the more porous and fluffy your bread should turn out.

I like to spray my loaf with a good amount of water right before throwing it in the oven to help it rise better.

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I was scared to come out to my dad and brought my sister with me for support. His reaction surprised me.

1 March 2025 at 04:17
Daughter and father hugging in the park.
The author (not pictured) was nervous to come out to her father.

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  • When I decided to come out to my dad, I was nervous about his reaction.
  • He's a lifelong Catholic, and I wasn't sure he'd be supportive.
  • I needn't have worried; he told me he only cared about my happiness.

In the beginning, I'd hoped I wouldn't have to come out to my father, or the rest of my family. The first label I landed on before lesbian was bisexual, and I clung to the possibility that I'd end up with a man, and this part of me could be rendered irrelevant (yes, I know that's not actually how bisexuality works β€” but my younger self, just barely beginning to work through a lifetime of internalized homophobia, didn't).

Then I fell in love with a woman. I wanted to weave her into just about every aspect of my life, including my family life. It was 2021, and I'd been back in Michigan for over a year after spending that same amount of time living in Denver. That was where I'd come out to myself, away from the small Christian town I grew up in.

My parents raised my siblings and me Catholic, like they had been. When same-sex marriage was legalized, the priest of our church reassured the congregation, "Regardless of the law, we will not be conducting same-sex marriages here," and the congregation, including my dad, gave him a standing ovation.

I was nervous when I came out to my dad

Six years later, I sat in my dad's backyard feeling more nervous than I'd been since middle school cheerleading tryouts. I asked my sister to be there just in case I needed backup. I worried he would say something hurtful or disproving, and our relationship would be irrevocably changed for the worse (not an uncommon reality for queer people β€” in a 2021 survey, 34% of Americans asked responded they would be either "somewhat unsupportive," "not supportive at all," or "not sure" what they'd do if their child, sibling, or close family member came out as gay, lesbian, or bisexual; that figure jumps to 43% for trans or nonbinary people).

When I finally said it, he paused and nodded. "And you think this is, like, a forever thing?" I steadied myself for the worst.

"What do you mean?" I asked.

"Well, it wasn't that long ago that you had a boyfriend?"

"Oh, yeah… I would say I'm bisexual..." I responded.

"Okay." He nodded again. "And you thought your sister had to be here?"

I shrugged, "Just in case…"

Later, he asked if I'd been worried he would have been mad. "I mean, I don't know," I said. "You've been Catholic your whole life…"

He shook his head. "I think what most parents want, myself included, is for their kids to be happy."

He has been nothing but supportive

The next month, my hometown had its first Pride festival. I read a poem onstage and had a vendor booth where I wrote custom, typewritten poems. My sister and father both came for my performance and sat in my booth, and my sister brought a pack of Pride pins. When she asked my dad if he wanted one, he said sure, fastening a "Love Is Love" pin to his T-shirt.

In 2023, for the first time, we attended a non-Catholic service for Christmas Eve; my father suggested the church because of the Pride flag they hung outside. Last summer, when he visited my now-wife and me in Chicago, he set out on Sunday morning to walk to our nearest Catholic church. When he couldn't find it, he went to another Christian church. Their program featured a Progress flag with a statement about how they welcome all members of the LGBTQIA2S+ community. When he returned to our apartment, he handed us the program.

"Look at that," he said. "I think it was some kind of fate that I wound up there." Later that summer, he, along with my wife's parents, paid for our wedding. Recently, during our weekly FaceTime coffee date, my dad said, "Oh, there was something I wanted to tell you. Did you know that Eleanor Rosevelt was bisexual, or maybe lesbian?" He's been reading a book about all the presidents.

"No, actually, I don't think I did know that," I said.

My father's strongest ideology, above any religious or political kind, is his love for his children. People are complicated, but he has made this straightforward and obvious. It's meant the world to me to know that his support is a sure thing.

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My mother and brother have terminal cancer. I'm worried I won't feel anything when they die.

1 March 2025 at 04:07
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The author's estranged mother is dying of cancer.

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  • I grew up in a deeply religious home, was kicked out at 17, and lived in a homeless shelter.
  • My relationship with my family has been strained for most of my adult life.
  • My mother and brother have cancer; despite mending our relationship, I'm having difficult feelings.

Everything changed after my parents found religion when I was 14 years old.

My brothers, sister, and I had to dedicate our lives to living religious principles. I grew up in a home environment where appearances were everything. We had to "look" godly, or we'd be spanked.

For three years, I tried, but when I told my parents I wasn't going to seminary and didn't want to become a pastor, they kicked me out at 17 years old.

I found myself crying every ounce of liquid out of my body every night at the Pacific Garden Mission. I dropped out of high school and worked three low-paying jobs to survive.

I become so bitter at my parents, especially my mother. I was angry she kicked me out and that I couldn't see my little brother, who's two years younger than me.

Years later, they're both dying, and I'm unsure how to feel.

I didn't talk to my family for years

As I tried to work my way out of the homeless shelter, I met the woman who would become my first wife working at Burger King. We married the day after I turned 18 and got an apartment together. I was able to leave the homeless shelter.

A year later, we had a son. Over the next three years, we had another son and a daughter. I was not talking to my parents or family during this time.

My mother wanted to see her grandchildren, so we talked through some of our grievances. I don't know if I would have ever talked to my mother if I hadn't had children.

But I didn't want my kids not to know their grandparents, so my mother and I talked through things to the point where we could maintain communication.

I wouldn't call it a deep connection, but I decided to move on from the bitter stage and move to a cordial relationship where the main focus was my kids seeing their grandparents.

At this point, I got to talk to my brother again, who had been living with my parents. Having the short calls and being allowed to catch up and reconnect felt good.

Over the next 20 years, I kept a cordial relationship with my parents and didn't spend much time with my brother. They lived their lives, and I lived mine.

My mother and brother got cancer, and things became more complicated

My brother was diagnosed with Cutaneous T-cell lymphoma (CTCL) three years ago, and my mother found out she had stage four lung cancer a year ago.

I got a call earlier this year that the cancer was spreading, and I flew to spend time with them.

I knew it would be hard seeing them battling late-stage cancer, but what I walked into was my brother in the Advanced Cancer Care Center, unable to move, and my mother wanting to hold an "end of life" planning meeting. It was worse than I anticipated.

It was hard to see him not moving and the nurses having to help him do everything. My mother looked like she weighed 50 pounds and had sores on her mouth as a side effect of cancer medication; I couldn't even hug her due to the risk of possible infection.

I'm worried I won't feel anything when they pass away

Spending this time with my mom at the end of her life has made me realize I needed to forgive and let go of the grudge I've been holding onto for 27 years.

I'm not dismissing what happened to me, but I'm choosing to spend these final days getting to know the mother I didn't. I've gotten closer to my brother and made up for all the time we haven't had together.

However, as I watched my mother and brother battling terminal cancer and having what could be their last moments in life, my thoughts have been that I'm not sure I'll feel anything when they die. I'd be lying if I didn't admit that a part of me is still angry and struggling to let go.

I feel bad for them as a person would feel bad for another person who feels bad β€” but not emotionally, as in a "normal" way you'd feel bad toward a family member getting cancer.

I think it might be just another day when they pass away. I've been thinking β€” what does that say about me? Am I a bad person for not falling on the ground and losing it for over half of my family dying?

Or is this nothingness an OK feeling due to the complicated relationship we've had most of my life?

I don't know the answers, but these are conversations I'm having with my therapist.

I'm spending as much time with them as possible, not wanting to regret how I handled this opportunity to say goodbye more healthily.

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A new anti-swiping dating app wants to be like PokΓ©mon Go for finding love

1 March 2025 at 04:05
Kate Sieler and Sam Martin founded a new dating app called Left Field
Kate Sieler and Samantha Martin quit their jobs to launch a new dating app called Left Field.

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  • Left Field, a new dating app, has launched in New York City.
  • The app uses location-based notifications to facilitate real-life encounters.
  • Left Field aims to use IRL events like parties to grow users, and expand to college campuses in May.

Another new dating app is hoping to appeal to users with swipe fatigue.

Left Field launched in New York City this week and is the latest startup trying to make inroads as industry heavyweights falter.

When Left Field's founders, Samantha Martin and Kate Sieler, moved to New York after graduating from college, they were met with the same qualms that many daters have right now.

Martin told Business Insider that endless swiping, lack of organic interactions, and a barrage of paywalls are just some of the "dating pains" the two felt.

The two began building Left Field in 2024 and have since quit their jobs in finance and consulting after raising a family and friends funding round. Sean Miller, a founding engineer at fintech startup Apollo Card, joined Left Field as its technical cofounder in 2025. The app officially launched on the Apple App Store in February.

Here's how Left Field works: The profile itself is similar to many dating apps (it has photos, biographical details, and some prompts). However, instead of swiping through a stack of nearby singles, the app will send push notifications of a potential match in the area if location services are enabled and a user crosses paths with someone on the app.

"We like to call ourselves the PokΓ©mon Go of dating," Martin said.

The idea is that Left Field is a more passive way to date, where you can toggle location services on and off.

"If you're interested in meeting someone, you just turn on the app, and then you can close it and forget about it," Sieler said.

It's not the first dating app to try to capture the feeling of crossing paths with someone nearby.

Happn, a French dating app, launched a decade ago with a similar premise.

"Singles today are looking to bring back real-life encounters, like going to bars and restaurants," Happn CEO Karima Ben Abdelmalek told BI last year.

As of now, Left Field does not incorporate any paid features.

Growing a dating app with IRL events

Like many new dating apps that have launched recently, Left Field is turning to social media to build an audience. It's working with three comedy creators to make content across Instagram and TikTok.

It's also taking a page from Tinder and Hinge's playbook by throwing parties and focusing on college campuses.

Left Field plans to expand to several college campuses in May and introduce ambassador programs for college students.

In the meantime, to grow the app in New York, Left Field plans to partner with local groups and venues, such as running clubs, bars, and comedy clubs, and host singles dating events.

Left Field hosted its launch party on Thursday night at a crowded bar in Brooklyn, where I spoke with a handful of attendees about the state of dating. The general feeling at the event around dating β€” particularly in New York β€” was exhaustion with the apps.

Dating app giants like Bumble and Match Group have seen stock prices decline since reaching all-time highs in 2021.

"It's the prime time to have a dating app startup because people are clearly so frustrated with the current offerings," Martin said. "The Catch-22 is that simultaneously, people don't like dating apps, but it's also harder to meet in real life because people are dependent on them."

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The CEO of Ukrainian drone maker Athlon Avia on the biggest challenges facing the industry

1 March 2025 at 03:52
Athlon Avia has been manufacturing drones in Ukraine for over a decade.
Athlon Avia has been manufacturing drones in Ukraine for over a decade.

Athlon Avia

  • Ukrainian defense company Athlon Avia has been producing drones for more than a decade.
  • The company was born in 2014 as a "reaction" to the Russian annexation of Crimea, its CEO said.
  • The chief executive spoke with BI about drones, Russia, and the challenges facing his industry.

Ukrainian defense company Athlon Avia has been producing drones for Ukraine's armed forces for more than a decade.

Artem Vyunnyk, Athlon's CEO, told Business Insider that the company was founded as a "reaction" to Russia's annexation of Crimea and the outbreak of the Donbas war in 2014.

Since then, Athlon has developed "very close relations with the ministry of defense and with the government," taking on dozens of state contracts, Vyunnyk said.

Kyiv has ramped up drone production since Russia launched its full-scale invasion of Ukraine in February 2022, with Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy saying in October that Ukraine was capable of producing 4 million drones a year.

The relatively cheap yet highly effective uncrewed systems are easy to modify and can be used for a range of missions, from surveillance to long-range strikes.

Athlon Avia's two main products β€” the A1-CM Furia drone and the ST-35 Silent Thunder loitering munition β€” are used for aerial reconnaissance and precision strikes, respectively.

Athlon says the catapult-launched A1-CM has a range of up to 50 km (around 31 miles) and has been used for reconnaissance and artillery fire adjustment in eastern Ukraine.

It has provided the system to the Ukrainian armed forces, the National Guard of Ukraine, and the Security Service of Ukraine, it says.

The ST-35 weapon system is designed to strike targets in densely built urban areas while minimizing collateral damage.

It can be equipped with a number of different warhead types, including high explosive, thermobaric, incendiary, and cumulative, Athlon says.

The ST-35 can fly for up to 60 minutes and has a range of 30 km (around 19 miles), per Athlon's website.

Vyunnyk told BI that Athlon carries out more than 200 missions per day, which he said helps the company build on its experiences, learn what it does well, and identify areas for improvement.

"It speeds up the development of the product itself, company, and troops because they get much more experience," he added.

Looking ahead, Vyunnyk said Athlon's biggest challenge would be supporting artillery units, which are some of the company's main customers.

Artillery systems and their ranges are growing bigger, Vyunnyk said, "so we have to fly longer and much farther than we used to before that, which demands quite serious changes in the system."

Vyunnyk pointed to a new plane the company is developing, which he said had to be "two times bigger than a standard Furia" to accommodate the need for more batteries.

The CEO said that another issue facing Ukrainian drone developers is electronic warfare systems, which use the electromagnetic spectrum to disrupt certain signals like GPS and video.

These systems are one of the main defenses against drones and have become increasingly important on the battlefield in Ukraine.

Drone makers have tried to adapt by developing frequency-hopping solutions to help evade such defenses, but Vyunnyk said it was like playing a game of cat and mouse.

"They make new jamming systems while we come up with new solutions for frequency-hopping," he said. "It's like a game we are playing with our enemy. Sometimes we are ahead, sometimes we are not. But in general, I would say that we have some kind of balance."

A Ukrainian soldier holds a fake bomb attached to a flying drone in a grassy field with a blue sky in the background.
A Ukrainian soldier with a drone.

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In its efforts to get more drones to the front lines, the Ukrainian government has taken a number of steps to speed up the procurement process for its forces, providing additional funds for brigades to purchase drone equipment directly and launching a new drone supply model aimed at reducing delivery times.

Such efforts will likely have come as welcome news to local drone manufacturers like Athlon Avia.

In its early days, nailing down state contracts was an uphill battle, Vyunnyk said.

But with the demands of the full-scale war, things have changed.

"Legislation changed. It became much simpler, much more open," Vyunnyk told BI. "The procedures right now are maybe 20 times easier than they were when we started out."

However, rising demand has brought its own issues.

The company struggled at the start of the invasion as it had a "lack of components" due to insufficient warehouse stocks, Vyunnyk said.

"Even our suppliers couldn't supply us with the demanded quantity and sometimes quality of these parts. So I think that to be sure that we will be efficient, we have to make big warehouses with big stocks of drones and components," he continued.

"We have to plan, we have to calculate, we have to organize production and warehouses and the supply chain to give us enough UAVs."

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Hollywood gears up for Oscars night

1 March 2025 at 03:44
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Emma Stone accepts the award for best actress at the 2024 Oscars.

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Happy Saturday! If you're headed to Starbucks for your weekend jolt of joe, it might be your last chance to get your fav order. Starting March 4, these 13 items are dropping off the menu.


On the agenda:

But first: Getting ready for Hollywood's biggest night.


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This week's dispatch

Oscars award statues

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And the winner is… πŸ†

Hollywood is ready to celebrate the best movies that graced the big screen last year. Amid the backdrop of the devastating California wildfires, Tinseltown is dusting off to pay homage to the creators who've made us laugh and cry.

This year, a few nominations have already made history, and viewers can also look out for potentially history-making moments on Oscars night on Sunday.

  • Two musicals were among the 10 films nominated for the top prize, best picture, for the first time in five decades β€” "Wicked" and "Emilia PΓ©rez."
  • Cynthia Erivo became the first Black British female actor nominated twice: "Harriet" in 2020 and "Wicked" this year.
  • "Succession" stars Jeremy Strong and Kieran Culkin were both nominated for their respective performances in "The Apprentice" and "A Real Pain."
  • And if TimothΓ©e Chalamet takes home the trophy for best actor for his role in "A Complete Unknown," he'll become the youngest actor to win it.

To prepare for Hollywood's big night, I asked deputy editor Samantha Rollins what we could expect while watching from our couches at home.

"Demi Moore would be a feel-good story if she won her first Oscar for 'The Substance.' Adrien Brody was favored to win for the epic 'The Brutalist,' but TimothΓ©e Chalamet's surprise win at the SAGs for playing Bob Dylan in 'A Complete Unknown' signals he's coming for the crown," she said.

"The winner for best picture is a toss-up: Sean Baker's 'Anora' has been an awards-season darling," Rollins added, "but I wouldn't count out the gossiping popes in 'Conclave.'"


5 days on FIRE island

Participants of the retreat wearing sarongs and sitting on the floor of a Balinese Hindu water temple in Bali, Indonesia.
They're all set to retire early. But where do you turn when you're tracking well financially but have few people with whom to share your joys and struggles?

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The road to early retirement is paved with loneliness. For those committed to the Financially Independent, Retire Early lifestyle, it can be hard to talk about money with friends on more traditional tracks.

A five-day, $1,800 retreat in Bali has the answer for those who aspire to FIRE and those who have already achieved it. BI's Shubhangi Goel spent a week amid the flowing tears, coconut water, and conversation in the Indonesian island paradise.

The conversation went far beyond money.


What's in a nutrition scientist's kitchen

Composite image of jarred vegetables and Tim Spector in a green shirt.
Tim Spector eats lots of vegetables for his gut health. But he doesn't just eat them fresh β€” he keeps all areas of his kitchen stocked with healthy foods.

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You may think a top nutrition scientist only opts for fresh foods, but that's not the case for Tim Spector. While the epidemiologist typically has a fruit bowl on his counter for snacking, he keeps his freezer stocked. Jarred and tinned foods also help simplify healthy eating, with Spector commending them as the "unsung heroes of eating well."

Spector likes to get creative, experimenting with fermentation and relying on some tricks to reach his goal of eating 30 plants a week. And he doesn't think healthy meals have to be boring.

Making gut-healthy eating easy.


Walk a mile in their shoes

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Ever wonder what it's like to step into a successful person's shoes? Successful men across an array of industries shared with BI their everyday footwear so you can do that, literally.

Sneakers reigned supreme, particularly classic brands like Nike and New Balance. But don't underestimate fun cowboy boots or a luxe loafer.

Stepping into success.


A dream at-home gym

A sleek, all-black gym with neon white hexagonal lights.
Inside Perez's finished home gym.

Courtesy of Antonio Perez

When software engineer Antonio Perez's wife became wheelchair-bound in 2023, he started to feel guilty whenever he left the house to go to the gym. So, he decided to turn his basement into one.

Perez spent the past year on the home improvement project, which included spray painting the ceilings, DIY-ing the lighting, buying gym equipment, and more. In total, he spent $32,000. He said his biggest advice for those looking to build a gym in their home is to understand it will take a lot of time.

Here's how it turned out.


What we're watching this weekend

Strange Darling.

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  • The Oscars: Conan O'Brien will host the 97th Academy Awards on Sunday, which will stream live on Hulu.
  • "Strange Darling": One of 2024's most underrated horror movies is now available on Paramount+.
  • "Running Point": Kate Hudson plays a basketball heiress loosely based on LA Lakers owner Jeanie Buss in Netflix's new comedy.

See the full list


A red shopping bag surrounded by $100 bills.

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What to shop

  • More than your average uniform: Ditch the pencil skirt and button-up. Instead, consider pieces from our favorite workwear brands. From sleek trousers to comfortable blazers, these are our tried-and-true stops for daily office wear.
  • Social media-worthy luggage: Time and time again, Monos stands out as one of our favorite luggage brands. Learn more about our Monos favorites, and why these stylish carry-ons are worth the money.
  • Solutions for combination skin: It can be tricky treating skin that is both oily and dry, as not all skincare is right for it. That's why we've gathered the best moisturizers for combination skin to help provide exactly what it needs.

More of this week's top reads:


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How Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan transformed their style together over the years

1 March 2025 at 03:43
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attend the Breakthrough Prize ceremony in 2019.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg at the Breakthrough Prize ceremony in 2019.

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  • Mark Zuckerberg met his wife, Priscilla Chan, at Harvard in 2003, and they got married in 2012.
  • Their couple style has evolved over the years, especially as Zuckerberg became a billionaire.
  • They've gone from wearing business-ready suits and gowns to cool, trendy ensembles.

Through the highs and lows of Mark Zuckerberg's career, Priscilla Chan has been by his side.

The couple met at a college frat party while attending Harvard University in 2003 and married in 2012. They've since had three children together, purchased over 1,200 acres of real estate, and created the Chan Zuckerberg Initiative.

Their collective style as a couple has also changed quite a bit in the two decades they've been together β€” especially as Zuckerberg's net worth has grown to $232 billion, according to Forbes.

Here's what their fashion transformation has looked like.

Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg have always dressed in understated, business-ready looks.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attend the Breakthrough Prize ceremony in 2014.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attended the Breakthrough Prize ceremony in 2014.

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For example, they kept their outfits simple on the red carpet for the 2014 Breakthrough Prize ceremony.

Zuckerberg wore a black tuxedo and satin tie, while Chan sported a sparkling, sleeveless dress in a deep shade of blue.

That was especially true when they visited the White House in 2015.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attend a White House state dinner in 2015.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg at a White House state dinner in 2015.

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For a state dinner that year, Zuckerberg sported his usual black suit, tie, and dress shoes.

Chan, on the other hand, looked elegant in a vibrant red dress with a lace overlay. She paired the garment with a black clutch, simple sandals, and an updo hairstyle.

By 2016, the couple developed a uniform of sorts.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attend the 2016 Axel Springer Awards.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg at the 2016 Axel Springer Awards.

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Zuckerberg continued attending events like the 2016 Axel Springer Awards in dark suits and white undershirts. Rather than accessorizing, he added only belts and dress shoes.

Chan, on the other hand, began sporting all-black ensembles that year. For the awards ceremony, she donned black leggings underneath a knit tunic and ankle-length boots.

But they elevated their looks around 2018.
Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan attend the Breakthrough Prize ceremony in 2018.
Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan attended the Breakthrough Prize ceremony in 2018.

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For the annual Breakthrough Prize ceremony, Zuckerberg wore a black tuxedo with sharp, satin lapels and his signature tie.

Chan dazzled alongside him, wearing a black sleeveless dress beneath a glitter-covered fishnet overlay with a high neckline and long sleeves.

Chan and Zuckerberg showed the power of suits in 2019.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attend the Breakthrough Prize ceremony in 2019.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attended the Breakthrough Prize ceremony in 2019.

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They both walked the Breakthrough Prize red carpet in black suit jackets, with Chan wearing hers over a solid black gown.

Zuckerberg swapped his usual necktie for a bow tie.

In 2024, the couple started dressing to impress.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attend the 2024 UFC 300 event.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg attended the 2024 UFC 300 event.

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The couple attended the 2024 UFC 300 event in April while wearing casual yet cool outfits. Zuckerberg wore a white T-shirt with black jeans, and Chan donned a black blazer as a dress with sunglasses and a gold necklace for accessories.

Then, in May, Zuckerberg celebrated his birthday while wearing a graphic tee and gold chain.

Zuckerberg's fashion changes might have been strategic. Meta announced last summer that it was working to win over Gen Z.

The Facebook founder could have been doing the same by upping his style reputation.

They boosted their White House fashion at Donald Trump's 2025 inauguration.
Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg at Donald Trump's 2025 presidential inauguration.
Priscilla Chan, Mark Zuckerberg, Lauren SΓ‘nchez, and Jeff Bezos at Donald Trump's 2025 inauguration.

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Zuckerberg, who matched fellow billionaire Jeff Bezos at the event, wore a navy suit, white button-down shirt, and deep red tie.

Chan, however, made a high-fashion statement with a baby-blue Bottega Veneta set. She wore a $2,500 wool cardigan, a matching $2,800 skirt, and chunky pearl necklaces.

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MAGA world erupts over Andrew Tate release, Epstein stunt

1 March 2025 at 04:00
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President Trump's online base is splintering over the administration's handling of two major news stories related to sex trafficking, which converged this week in dramatic fashion.

Why it matters: The online MAGA universe is diverse, powerful, and extremely volatile. With a mix of ultra Trump loyalists and conservative ideologues, infighting is inevitable β€” and often explosive.


  • That's become especially true on issues related to sex trafficking, which was at the heart of the #Pizzagate and QAnon conspiracy theories that helped grow Trump's online base.

What's happening: On Fox News Wednesday night, Attorney General Pam Bondi promised to declassify and release secret documents related to Jeffrey Epstein, the deceased sex trafficker whose client list implicated global elites.

  • On Thursday, Bondi and FBI director Kash Patel hosted pro-Trump influencers at the White House and gave them a sneak peek of the documents in binders titled, "The Epstein Files: Phase 1."
  • The influencers were then photographed by White House press holding up the binders, the contents of which had not yet been publicly released. Some of them were pictured smiling and laughing.

Later that evening, the Justice Department released 200 pages of documents mostly consisting of recycled Epstein flight logs and contact information that had long been in the public domain.

  • The online reaction was furious: Prominent Trump supporters accused Bondi and the influencers of staging a PR stunt and failing to release any new information.
  • To make matters worse, the GOP-controlled House Judiciary Committee posted a link on X purporting to hold the "Epstein files." It instead redirected users to a video of Rick Astley singing "Never Gonna Give You Up" β€” a "Rickroll" prank from the 2000s.

Bondi then released a letter alleging that the FBI's New York field office was withholding thousands of pages of Epstein documents, and called for them to be turned over by Friday at 8 am ET.

Screenshot via X. Far-right influencer Laura Loomer calls for Bondi's resignation.

Zoom in: As the chaos over the Epstein files was unfurling, Romania suddenly lifted travel restrictions on Andrew and Tristan Tate, a pair of far-right influencers who were awaiting trial on human trafficking charges.

  • The British-American Tate brothers β€” self-proclaimed misogynists who support Trump and have a massive global audience of young men β€”Β have also been accused of rape and tax evasion in the U.K.
  • The Financial Times reported that Trump officials had pressured Romanian authorities to lift the travel ban, though Trump himself denied any knowledge of the case Thursday.

The Tate brothers' arrival at Fort Lauderdale airport in Florida, where they proclaimed their innocence, setting the stage for another intra-MAGA feud between mainstream conservatives and hardline provocateurs.

  • Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis said the Tate brothers were not welcome in his state, and that his attorney general would investigate whether any of their alleged crimes trigger Florida jurisdiction.
  • "That these moral monsters have been welcomed to our shores with open arms is appalling and shameful," conservative columnist Josh Hammer wrote in a Newsweek piece shared by Sen. Josh Hawley (R-Mo.).

Between the lines: Backlash against Trump is brewing among segments of his base that are not traditionally political β€” but have an intense interest in the Tate and Epstein sagas.

  • "If I'm gonna be fair these questions needs to be asked today. Why is the release of the Epstein list always a shit show?" tweeted Barstool Sports founder Dave Portnoy.
  • "What's the point of booting out illegals and criminals while somehow becoming a safe haven for the Tate brothers?"

The CEO of Anthropic thinks it may be impossible to warn people about the risks of AI — but he's still going to try

1 March 2025 at 03:19
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Dario Amodei believes it's possible to address the risks of AI without foregoing the solutions it affords.

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  • Anthropic CEO Dario Amodei said that while the benefits of AI are big, so are the risks.
  • Amodei said on "Hard Fork" that he worries about threats to national security and the misuse of AI.
  • He believes it is possible to address the risks of AI without foregoing the solutions it affords.

Anthropic CEO Dario Amodei said that people still aren't taking AI seriously enough β€” but he expects that to change within the next two years.

"I think people will wake up to both the risks and the benefits," Amodei said on an episode of the New York Times' "Hard Fork," adding that he's worried the realization will arrive as a "shock."

"And so the more we can forewarn people β€” which maybe it's just not possible, but I want to try," Amodei said. "The more we can forewarn people, the higher the likelihood β€” even if it's still very low β€” of a sane and rational response."

Those optimistic about the technology expect the advent of powerful AI to bring down the barriers to niche "knowledge work" once performed exclusively by specialized professionals. In theory, the benefits are immense β€” with applications that could help solve everything from the climate crisis to deadly disease outbreaks. But the corresponding risks, Amodei said, are proportionately big.

"If you look at our responsible scaling policy, it's nothing but AI, autonomy, and CBRN β€” chemical, biological, radiological, nuclear," Amodei said. "It is about hardcore misuse in AI autonomy that could be threats to the lives of millions of people. That is what Anthropic is mostly worried about."

He said the possibility of "misuse" by bad actors could arrive as soon as "2025 or 2026," though he doesn't know when exactly it may present a "real risk."

"I think it's very important to say this isn't about, 'Oh, did the model give me the sequence for this thing? Did it give me a cookbook for making meth or something?'" Amodei said. "That's easy. You can do that with Google. We don't care about that at all."

"We care about this kind of esoteric, high, uncommon knowledge that, say, only a virology Ph.D. or something has," he added. "How much does it help with that?"

If AI can act as a substitute for niche higher education, Amodei clarifies, it "doesn't mean we're all going to die of the plague tomorrow." But it would mean that a new breed of danger had come into play.

"It means that a new risk exists in the world," Amodei said. "A new threat vector exists in the world as if you just made it easier to build a nuclear weapon."

Setting aside individual actors, Amodei expects AI to have massive implications for military technology and national security. In particular, Amodei said he's concerned that "AI could be an engine of autocracy."

"If you think about repressive governments, the limits to how repressive they can be are generally set by what they can get their enforcers, their human enforcers to do," Amodei said. "But if their enforcers are no longer human, that starts painting some very dark possibilities."

Amodei pointed to Russia and China as particular areas of concern and said he believes it's crucial for the US to remain "even with China" in terms of AI development. He added that he wants to ensure that "liberal democracies" retain enough "leverage and enough advantage in the technology" to check abuses of power, and block threats to national security.

So, how can risk be mitigated without kneecapping benefits? Beyond implementing safeguards during the development of the systems themselves andΒ encouraging regulatory oversight, Amodei doesn't have any magic answers, but he does believe it can be done.

"You can actually have both. There are ways to surgically and carefully address the risks without slowing down the benefits very much, if at all," Amodei said. "But they require subtlety, and they require a complex conversation."

AI models are inherently "somewhat difficult to control," Amodei said. But the situation isn't "hopeless."

"We know how to make these," he said. "We have kind of a plan for how to make them safe, but it's not a plan that's going to reliably work yet. Hopefully, we can do better in the future."

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Americans are afraid to fly after recent crashes — social media and DOGE aren't helping

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Images and videos of recent travel mishaps have travelers on edge.

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  • Americans are on edge after recent air travel disasters, andΒ some are ditching flying altogether.
  • Social media and recent FAA firings have heightened public anxiety about flying.
  • Despite recent crashes, data shows that flying is still a safe mode of transportation.

Collective anxiety about flying often spikes after high-profile accidents, but the combination of social media and the recent firings at the Federal Aviation Administration may be exacerbating fears.

Videos of passengers inverted in their seats and evacuating from a smoking Delta Air Lines plane after it caught fire emerged across social media platforms after the crash, garnering millions of views on X alone.

The crash followed a deadly American Airlines midair collision that killed 67 people in January. Other deadly crashes this year involving small planes, including one in Philadelphia and another in western Alaska, have added to the collection of safety events.

Two more aircraft near-misses in Chicago and Washington, DC, on Tuesday, have further sparked concerns about planes crashing near airports.

Despite the public concerns and federal shake-ups, flying is still the safest mode of transportation, aviation experts told Business Insider.

Cautious passengers should focus on what they can control, like listening to crew commands β€” especially leaving bags behind during an evacuation β€” and wearing their seatbelts.

Passengers leave a Delta Air Lines CRJ-900 jet after it crashed on landing at Toronto Pearson International Airport.
Passengers leaving a Delta Air Lines CRJ-900 jet after it crashed on landing at Toronto Pearson International Airport.

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Some people say they're more worried than ever about flying

Thomas Lecaque, an associate professor of history at Grand View University with plans to travel for research grants, told BI he will make the journey between Des Moines, Iowa, and Boston via car instead of taking a plane after recent air travel catastrophes.

"Flying has always been a really, really safe mode of transportation," he said. "But the last month just made it really hard for me to continue telling myself that over and over again."

Plenty of fliers get nervous about air travel β€” a rough landing or turbulent flight here or there will do that. But Lecaque is among the travelers who read news about recent air crashes and FAA firings β€” something spearheaded by the White House DOGE office β€” and decided to ditch air travel, at least for a while. Hundreds of FAA employees have been fired in the weeks since the crash in DC in the office's push to cut spending. More staff reductions are expected in the coming weeks.

One Bluesky user posted on the same day that she was "officially so scared of flying" that she was going to drive to Chicago for her imminent trip.

Jesse Lei, a San Francisco resident, told Business Insider that recent cuts to the FAA are the biggest flight concern to him.

"I'm going to avoid the domestic airspace at least for the time being, because no one knows how the FAA firings will affect our safety," Lei said. "The DCA crash was especially scary because, if anything, our capital and national airport should have been the safest place."

Many who choose to fly say they're on edge more than before.

Joey Siu, a frequent flyer who has been working in Washington, DC, said that people on her flight out of Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport in February clapped when the plane took off and that the captain reassured passengers of the flight's safety, both of which seem uncommon to her.

"When a crash happened right at DCA, which hits so close to home, and when so many friends who do essential work in the federal government were fired, all these issues added up made my experience flying out of DCA a very, very horrifying one," said Siu.

What the data says about aviation safety

Globally, there were over 300 airline fatalities in 2024 β€” the highest number in recent history due to major crashes in Kazakhstan and South Korea, according to data compiled by the Aviation Safety Network, a nonprofit research organization.

According to aviation data provider OAG, the fatalities were still a fraction of the 2.5 billion seats flown by the world's top 20 airlines in 2024. In the US, data from the aviation data company Cirium shows US airlines carried about 600 million people in 2024. There were zero fatalities.

The January American Airlines crash means the US fatality rate will increase from 2024. However, Cirium data shows about 50 million people fly every month in the US β€” putting the current fatality rate at a fraction of a percent.

Aftermath of American Eagle flight 5342 crash in the Potomac River near Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport.
The aftermath of the American Eagle Flight 5342 crash with a military helicopter near Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport.

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An August 2024 study from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology found the chance of dying in a commercial air crash was one in about 13 million boardings globally between 2018 and 2022. That is down from the one in about 8 million between 2008 and 2017 and the one in 350,000 between 1968 and 1977.

A combination of robust aircraft design, strict federal training standards, and risk-averse airline safety policies contribute to a sound aviation system.

Social media isn't helping the worry

Aviation and misinformation experts said people understandably see the recent slew of accidents as a seemingly chaotic time in aviation safety, but said social media has perpetuated that narrative.

For the first two months of the year, when many of the incidents occurred, aviation incident discussions on social media were up 243% on X in the US and 71% on Reddit compared to early 2024, according to an analysis by Storyful. In the same timespan, expressions of flying anxity rose 72% on X and 22% on Reddit, the analysis found.

US-based aviation safety expert Anthony Brickhouse told BI that social media has "changed everything." He added that livestreaming or quickly spreading images of crashes can lead to misinformation, particularly when posts aren't fact-checked.

Rich Davis, a senior security advisor at risk mitigation firm International SOS who worked at United Airlines for more than 40 years, told BI that people can get glued to their televisions after a crash.

However, Davis said the accidents are "extremely rare" and have no apparent links. International SOS consults with organizations to analyze and reduce risk while traveling.

He added that it's too early to tell if any of DOGE's actions have affected safety.

"When something does go wrong, people's minds often jump to wanting to find an explanation for that," Roberta Duffield, director of intelligence at the disinformation-fighting startup Blackbird.AI, told BI. "That can be really dangerous because there's always a massive gap between what happened and the actual proper investigations."

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How to manage up and avoid getting an Elon Musk-style email asking you to show your work

1 March 2025 at 02:40
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Leadership experts shared with BI their tips on getting your accomplishments on your manager's radar.

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  • If you want to keep your job, show your work.
  • That's Elon Musk's latest directive to federal employees, and it highlights the importance of self-promotion at work.
  • Career experts shared tips with BI for how to make your achievements at work visible to higher-ups.

If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? Depends on who you ask.

This one's easier: If you accomplish an important task at work and your boss doesn't hear about it, did you even do it? That answer, unfortunately, is a resounding no.

After President Trump said Elon Musk should "get more aggressive" with slashing federal spending, Musk sent an email to federal employees last Saturday telling them to reply with five things they accomplished in the prior week and cc their manager. Failure to respond would be tantamount to resignation, he said in a post on X.

Why showing your work matters

Career experts told BI Musk's approach is "fear-based management." While his approach may have been blunt, it reflects at its core something pretty mundane, and certainly not exclusive to Musk: Employers want to know what employees are doing.

"Your work can't speak for itself," said Melody Wilding, executive coach and author of the forthcoming book "Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge."

It's a crucial time to make sure your work is visible.

Layoffs are sweeping tech and other industries. And many employers are increasingly concerned about what employees are working on, especially since remote and hybrid arrangements make their activities less visible. As a result, they are turning to employee surveillance tools to monitor workers.

Power in the workplace has shifted back to employers after a blip during the pandemic when it briefly tilted toward workers.

"Managing up is more important now than ever," said Mary Abbajay, president of Careerstone Group and author of "Managing Up: How to Move up, Win at Work, and Succeed with Any Type of Boss."

Your boss is juggling their own responsibilities, so they can't track all of your work, Abbajay said.

Many people, though, particularly women, feel uncomfortable about self-promotion in the workplace, research has shown. Abbajay says she'd remind these people that discussing their wins at work shows confidence, not arrogance.

"When we talk about our accomplishments, we are stating facts," she said. "And when we state facts, there's no aggrandizing in that. We are just saying, 'I finished this project two weeks ahead of schedule and $5,000 under budget.'"

How to highlight achievements big and small

If you've just had a big win at work, consider sending an email to your boss about it, or bring it up in a hallway conversation or a meeting. Wilding also recommends kicking off your regular check-ins with your boss by recapping what you accomplished since you last met.

Wilding said to talk about not just what you did, but also the impact of your work: What business value or efficiency did it create, or what time or money did it save your team?

Instead of approaching this as self-promotion, think of it as simply informing your manager, so they can communicate these accomplishments and outcomes up their own chain of command to get your team more resources or influence, Wilding said.

She said that in a meeting, you might bring up a significant milestone on a project as a teaching moment so you can share what you learned with your teammates.

This has the added benefit of giving visibility into how you process information and make decisions in the company's best interest, she said. Showing those in leadership your higher-level thinking at work could help with your career advancement more than simply saying you hit your KPIs.

If the cadence feels appropriate, consider sending an email on Mondays of what's on tap for the week, and another on Fridays recapping what you accomplished that week, Wilding says. You can preemptively say no response is necessary to avoid creating additional work for your boss.

Wilding says some of her clients have also experimented with creating a newsletter of sorts that gives a monthly or quarterly rundown on what the team accomplished in that time. Sometimes, this newsletter features a small case study or a spotlight on an individual team member. With this approach, you might even reach a bigger audience, such as cross-functional partners, vendors, or skip-level managers.

Keep your digital calendar up-to-date with what you're working on so your boss can readily see, Abbajay says. You might even ask a quick question about a project you're working on, a question you don't necessarily need an answer to, just to subtly remind your boss what's on your plate.

And bear in mind that your approach to making your work visible also depends on your boss' management style.

While a micromanager might expect a weekly email detailing your progress, a more laissez-faire boss might require you to be more proactive drawing attention to your accomplishments.

Highlighting your own accomplishments at work can feel uncomfortable. But self-promotion is key to securing an actual promotion.

"It is your responsibility to make sure people know how good you are, how successful you are, and what your accomplishments are," said Abbajay. "Because if you don't tell them, who will?"

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My teens and I survived a weekend without screens. This digital detox helped us reconnect and experience new things together.

1 March 2025 at 02:39
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A digital detox weekend helped my kids and I disconnect with our devices and reconnect with each other.

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  • I noticed my teens were spending too much time on their devices and so was I.
  • I proposed a digital detox weekend without screen time so we could unplug and reconnect.
  • We've completed two digital detox weekends, learning new things each time, and hope to do more.

As a parent of two kids, 13 and 11, I'm always looking for ways to balance technology use in our home. Like most families, screens have become an unavoidable part of our daily lives, whether it's for schoolwork, gaming, or just scrolling on social media. I want my kids to be digitally savvy, but I also want them to know that life exists beyond the screen. That's why I decided to institute a digital detox weekend β€” two full days without screens β€” just us, the real world, and a chance to reconnect.

Our moment of detox

The idea for a digital detox didn't come out of nowhere. Over the past few months, I noticed my kids were reaching for their tablets and phones more often, whether it was for games, educational apps or even getting some help from AI for their homework. I also often caught myself mindlessly scrolling through my phone during family dinners or playtime. It felt like we were all physically present but mentally elsewhere. The breaking point was when I called my son's name three times, and he didn't even hear me because he was so absorbed in his screen. That's when I realized we needed a reset.

I pitched the idea of a weekend-long digital detox to my family. I expected some resistance, and I wasn't wrong. My 13-year-old protested, saying, "This is the worst idea ever." My 11-year-old tried negotiating for "just a little bit" of screen time. I'll admit, even I felt a little uneasy with the idea. What if I missed something important?

Once we put our devices away, safely locked them up for the weekend, we had to get creative. To ensure we remained fully present, we informed close relatives and friends about our digital detox and kept a landline phone available for any emergencies.

The first few hours were tough. My youngest kept asking for his device to play a game and my oldest complained about being bored. I also felt the urge to check my phone out of habit. But we stuck to it, and the results were surprising.

With no distractions, we planned outdoor activities, played board games, cooked together, and even started a puzzle that had been collecting dust on a shelf. One of the highlights was a long nature walk where we simply talked. My kids shared things about school and friends that I probably wouldn't have heard if we were all staring at our screens.

By the end of the day, when the kids went to sleep, I found myself so consumed by the experience that I didn't even feel the need to check my phone. Instead, I went to bed feeling refreshed and ready to recharge for another meaningful, screen-free day.

What we learned from our digital detox

During our device-free weekend I introduced journaling, suggesting we document our experience, what we missed, what we enjoyed, and how it felt to be unplugged. By the end of the weekend, the shift in our mindset was noticeable. Here's what we learned:

  • Boredom is a gateway to creativity. Without screens to fill every moment, the kids started coming up with their own games and activities. My youngest turned a cardboard box into a spaceship, and my oldest wrote a short story about a dragon. It was amazing to see their imaginations come alive.
  • Presence matters. Without the constant distraction of notifications, we were fully present with each other. We had deeper conversations, shared more laughs, and truly enjoyed each other's company.
  • We don't need screens to have fun. The detox reminded us that some of the best moments happen offline. Whether it was playing tag in the backyard or reading books together, we realized how much we'd been missing by relying on screens for entertainment.
  • Sleep improved. Without late-night screen exposure, everyone seemed to fall asleep faster and wake up more refreshed.

We now celebrate our offline accomplishments

To keep the momentum going, we introduced what I call a digital detox weekend board in our home. This board serves as both a celebration of our offline accomplishments and a source of inspiration for future unplugged weekends. Every time we complete a detox, we add notes on new activities we enjoyed, what we didn't like, and what we plan to do next.

So far, we have completed two digital detox weekends, each bringing new experiences and valuable lessons. More than just a fun display, the board has become a powerful reminder of how much we gain when we unplug. It encourages us to be more present with each other, strengthens our family bond, and helps us appreciate the joy of simple, screen-free activities.

The kids have embraced this experience wholeheartedly, often suggesting new activities to add, like painting, learning a new board game, or planting a small garden. Over time, I hope this board will evolve into a tradition we all look forward to, making digital detox weekends a natural and exciting part of our family life.

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